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5 signs your friendship has reached BFF level.

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You and your chomie have known each other since forever, but you’re still not sure if you’re besties. Here are signs that say BFF.

  1. You’re the first person she calls when she has news to share from things like having a crush, losing transport money, getting a pimple or getting really good grades. Besties talk about everything.

  2. You no longer feel insecure when if she takes a long time to respond to your SMSs and WhatsApp messages because you know she’s not ignoring you.

  3. You call each other for no reason at all. You just want to hear their voice, tell them about how you almost burned a meal, what Bonang wore… just about anything really.

  4. You can be honest without hurting each other. Like when you want a hairstyle that doesn’t look good on you. Instead of laughing at you, she says something like, “I saw a super hot hairstyle that’s going to be so perfect for you.”

  5. They trust you with their secrets. Whenever she tells you her secrets, you listen to her and comfort her. She tells you about her crush, her dreams and aspirations.

That’s being besties in a nutshell. You’re like sisters, only from different mothers.

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REABETSWE

I wish I had one💔💔😢

Aug. 21, 2022, 3:56 p.m.

Buhle_mabontle

Me and my friend are besties. I can not spend a day without looking at her pic

July 24, 2022, 5:17 p.m.

Busi

Me and my friend things are really hectic but when I try to talk with him .He just ignore me and always ask for forgiveness to him but he just ignore me abd Iam tired of that it makes me feel like I am a bad friend ...

July 16, 2022, 10:01 p.m.

Busi

Me and my friend things are really hectic but when I try to talk with him .He just ignore me and always ask for forgiveness to him but he just ignore me abd Iam yired of that it makes me feel like I am a bad friend ...

July 16, 2022, 10 p.m.

Busi

Me and my friend things sre really hectic but when I try to talk with him .He just ignore me and always ask for forgiveness to him but he just ignore me abd Iam yired of that it makes me feel like I am a bad friend ...

July 16, 2022, 10 p.m.

owami_cindi9

Me and my friend are like not close we don't tell each other secrets like when she gets the highest mark(since I am the clever one)we will rejoice together and joke about it but then there is this girl they are close but not close and she is trying to ruin our friendship

June 29, 2022, 2:18 p.m.

Wow that are best frnds for it lyk ur own flesh and blood

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

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Yes girl you own flesh and blood

Yha! Perfect not jelousy frnds hai norr.....and betreyarz

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

Like me n my frend jst de two of us lyk sstr even ppl think dat we r not frndz we r sstrz dey say we r twinz

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

U dnt think twice abt tellin her anythin bcoz u knw u cnt hear it from someone else...

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

I jct share anything with her and we share everything secrets,crush she has been my super good BFF

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

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I wish I had one like her

ThAt Is WhAt TrUe FrIeNdS Do...

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

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Indeed<3

Indeed<3

Yeah tell u wat if you worried abt a friend in an unhealthy relationship?mhre are some suggestion for how to be a supportive alloy to your friend make sure your friend know that you're there to hear about their relationship tell them you want to hear. About the good and the bad things will make it more likely that they'll feel comfortable talking to you about the hard stuff

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

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You are quite right you know.

Yes Indeed <3

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

jah but most of the time your best friend is one your sister.

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

I feel like me and my Bestie ,we are totally drifting apart,she does not tell me anything anymore, she does not WhatsApp me anymore and I'm actually worried now....she was there in my good and bad times ,and I was there in her good and bad times....we used to be like this👭👭👭👭but we like this💔💔💔

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

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Communicating with her is the only way you'll find out where you stand. She might be going through something that has nothing to do with your friendship and that's why she's distancing herself. Call her and ask what's going on and how you can be there for her and if she no longer wants to be your friend that is also fine. Some relationships are seasonal and don't last forever.

Hy y'all... Me and my Bestie we don't talk anymore ...we don't share experiences anymore we don't visit each other even thou we stay at the same flat... She used to be there for me whether its dark or blue...actually I miss her she is like a sister to me but I don't feel so anymore

Im sorry to hear that,girl that's how things are between me and my best friend right now .I wonder what we are doing wrong?

What if all that is there but still you struggling too gain her trust after she lost it before!?

March 20, 2022, 9:01 p.m.

Hii

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

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Hello Springster. How can we help you?

I'm learning really good things from springster

Hellow

That's how I want to feel with my best friend .these 5 steps are real

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

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Hi Springster. Glad we could help. Read more stories to get interesting information from topics like love and friendships. Happy reading!

Thanks

Is it possible for a family member(my cousin) to be my bestie? And can our friendship work if I cannot communicate with her due to circumstances?

March 20, 2022, 8:59 p.m.

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Hi simnesh. Thanks fr your comment. Yes it is entirely possible for your cousin to be your bestie. You probably know her longer than any of your other friends. I'd recommend you become pen pals and start writing letters to each other via post office. That way you cans till communicate!

Busi

No actually you need to communicate...

I don't have a best friend,some to talk to with out being judged😪

March 20, 2022, 8:59 p.m.

I don't have a best friend,some to talk to with out being judged😪

March 20, 2022, 8:59 p.m.

Hey Gabi and fellow Springster queens👋! My bestie and I came up with another way of communicating. So she lives with my grandma and my grandma owns a phone so we decided to communicate using her phone. She even called last week saying that she can't wait for us to arrive and wants the two of us to hang around at the local park (no idea where that is but okay😂). But I also wanna thank you for suggesting the pen pals idea❤. (Sorry guys this message is probs irrelevant but I was excited and thought I should share🙈)

March 20, 2022, 8:59 p.m.

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Hi simnesh. That's great. your comments and thoughts are never irrelevant. I'm glad you've found a method to communicate with her and that you'll get to see her soon. Have fun at the park and make the best of every moment the two of you get to spend together this holidays.

hi springster am new ,so like ihad a bestie like we like sisters since from grade 4 then in grade five she went 2 study in other school i was heart broken cause she was my only friend so we used 2 talk on the phone until we broke contact i really miss her

March 20, 2022, 8:59 p.m.

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Hey Rhandzu, thanks for your comment. You can try reconnecting with your friend by looking her up on social media and sending her a message. Good luck Springster!

Hi friends am a person who love friends but always ignore me to get what is wrong from me.😑

March 20, 2022, 8:58 p.m.

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Hi Spikiry. Maybe you are in the wrong squad. You should look for friends who have similar interests as you and that makes it easier. Here's an article to determine whether you're in the right crowd or not. http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/check-your-crew/

I have a friend Unaty she's so kuwl I luv her so much she lyk a sista 4rm another mother

March 20, 2022, 8:58 p.m.

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Hey Springster, it's great that you and your friend are so close.

Hy My bestie is a boy. We support each other every time..share jokes. Secret... Everything... He is my only frnd I really lv him But our friendship is now not the same .we don't talk like we used to do..n I don't know y. Plz tell me wat to do. I can't lose him

March 20, 2022, 8:57 p.m.

Hi, I have friends but I can't tell them about my secrets

March 20, 2022, 8:57 p.m.

I prefer male bff's. They are less judgemental and aren't jealous of each other, like girls do.

March 20, 2022, 8:57 p.m.

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Hi Springster, if that's what you prefer then that's totally okay, but remember that not all girls you meet will be judgemental and jealous 😊.

True that I also prefer male besties they a are more reliable and they not judgemental at all and most of them might even get into trouble trying to save you because they care about u☺😂

hii guyz ... im new here .. my friend and her bf dnt live in the same area so they always snd me to go and tll wht they wnt or were they must meet...im so scared whn my bff gts angry cause thn she sends ugly messages with me to her bf ... im scared whn he go and ask her " is it true wht ii say " ... im scared she would say no and her bf would thnk tht ii hve a crush on hm and ii jst wnt to break they're RELATIONSHIP. .. so can ii trust my bff like ii truth her with everything else....? ¿?¿

March 20, 2022, 8:57 p.m.

I don't have a bestie but I do have friends. It is just that ever since I got my baby I don't let anyone that close anymore

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Hey Selu, this is totally okay. We grow in different ways and we know what our needs and wants are as we grow up. Just make sure you have a support system that you can reach out to when you need help or advice.

I don't have a bestie yet but my friends are like a part of me we do err'thing together and they really feel like my sisters❤

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

I got 3 different besties n thy dnt knw each other is it wrong ?

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Yes 💪💪💪👂

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

My is BFF iz the only friend I have at school...she stays far so we don't have much time to chill and talk about our stories.... But still I love her😍😍

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Guys I have a crush on this one boy but I'm scared to talk to him

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Hey guys am a guy and I have a BFF.. But we so close to an extent that am nou crushing on him.... He also has feelings for guys naye we once kissed but I nou hve feelings for him

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.

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Hello Enigma101 It is very normal to have feelings for someone especially your best friend. Telling them how you feel would make you feel better and not keep on wondering if they like you as well. Let us know if this helped.

Tnx

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.