Ask Springster: I had a fight with my bestie

What should I do?

Your thoughts (5)

This week on #AskSpringster we help a Springster who had a major fight with their bestie.

Mpho is 15 years old and has recently lost her best friend after they had a fight. She feels lost and all alone. She cannot concentrate at school anymore because she misses her friend. Mpho doesn’t know how to deal with this fight.

We asked a few Springsters for their advice, and this is what they had to say.

Solution:

Hi Mpho, Fighting with someone close to you can be an experience that is hard to deal with. Don’t worry it’s totally and completely OK to not be OK. Figure out how you would like to go forward. Is your relationship fixable or do you think that it is better for you to move on without her?

Remember, friends can have a positive or negative effect on you and your life - so stick with the people who support and love you. It is really important to speak to someone you trust about these feelings as they will be able to help you talk things through, and get the support you may need.

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Your thoughts

Alwande

It's ok to be not ok as said what you have to do is to just find peace and forgive yourself remember that you come first in your life 🥺♥️

June 30, 2022, 6:38 p.m.

Lelethu

It ís normally to fight with some one close or related to no need to stress your self please take good care of yourself ❤️

June 26, 2022, 10:17 p.m.

Sammy

Yah that true MPO if I was u I was going to forgive my self then stat to talk about how sorry u a oky don't be stressed

June 23, 2022, 11:26 p.m.

Naima

Don't stress it is absolutely normal to fight with your loved ones,💕But try not to make things worse than it already is So please take care of yourself and your relatives don't let the devil come over you or them 💯♥️

June 15, 2022, 2:12 p.m.

she_pretty

Hi, I was in the same situation and had a fight with my best friend but soon after that we made up but it doesn't feel the same anymore when we together. I don't trust her as much as I use to. I truly think that our friendship is over and I'm okay with it. If she is not able to sense the awkwardness between us then she doesn't value the friendship.

May 17, 2022, 6:06 p.m.