4 things you’re doing that might be bad for you

… and how you can fix them

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My name is Dineo and I’m almost finished with matric. The journey has been tough, but it has also been a learning process. Along the way I learnt that there are certain things that you do that might not be so good for you in the long term. I wrote them down here so that you can learn from my mistakes.

1.Never speaking up in class

Okay, this one is a tough one because I’ve always been the shy girl, but I learnt the hard way that it doesn’t help to pretend that you know what’s going on. I now know that speaking up in class is super important, and whenever I get a bit self-conscious (it still happens!), I wait until after class or during break to speak to my teachers. My older sister says this is great because in college and university, the professors always expect you to speak.

2. Not using your support system

Let’s be honest, school is hard, but it’s even harder when you don’t go to the people around you when you are down. When I didn’t know what was happening to me during puberty I went to my mother, when school or my social life felt too overwhelming, I went to my school counsellor and when I was feeling a bit sad I was able to chat to my sister. Having these support systems helped me do better in school and improve on myself.

3. Missing out on learning from your mistakes

Mistakes should be seen as opportunities for growth and not failures. If you’ve made a mistake, learn from it and appreciate it as your next step to success. When I failed my June exams in Grade 8, I was disappointed, but I didn’t feel bad for long. By the time we were in third term I was asking my teachers where I went wrong and how I could improve. I ended up being top of the class in Maths, Natural Sciences and English that year.

4. Not planning for you future

It’s always important to have a vision for yourself and your future. I’ve been writing down my visions and plans for the past two years now and they’ve helped me focus on my dream of studying medicine and my teacher told that with the way I’ve been working, I’ll definitely be able to achieve my dreams!

What are things you’re going to change to improve your life and your future?

Let us know in the comments below!

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Oct. 15, 2022, 8:24 p.m.

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Oct. 15, 2022, 8 a.m.

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Oct. 14, 2022, 3:25 p.m.

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Oct. 11, 2022, 7:31 p.m.

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Oct. 11, 2022, 6:52 p.m.

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Naledî

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In everything you i new why🤷

Sne

Hi guys I have a problem,we are going to a farewell and I don't know know what to wear. (I'm a girl)plz advice me what I can wear.

Oct. 11, 2022, 3 p.m.

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Thobile_karabo

When are you going

Sne

21 October 2022

PØÑTSÓ

2 piece. Boyfriend gen

Thobeh

Hello ....I think u were wearing a formal dress 👗 nd shoes (hill) than u can make ur hair style that is suitable for you.

Sne

They said we must were a gen

PØÑTSÓ

Or 2piece OR tight and Long shirt🥺 Between there.......🤷🏻‍♀️🤷

Sne

Ok thanks

Ladytee

I prefer to wear formal long white t-shirt n blue jean with black shoes

PØÑTSÒ

Hey guys I am new here 😻 please welcome me 🥺 my name is PONTSO 🙈🥺

Oct. 11, 2022, 2:24 p.m.

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Sne

Hi Pontso , u r Wellcome

Asanda_1

Yellow welcome

Asaa

Ponsto we welcome you 😃😄😃😂🤣😃

PØÑTSÓ

Thank you 4 WeLcOmE me 🥺❤️❤️

Benjie

Hi I'm jabulo and I'm new here. I'm 21 yrs from mpulanga .. you can also add me on what'sapp +27768640014

Owethu

it's so amazing that people could open up about their thoughts or selves and be secure about it thank you Girl Effect and Springster

Oct. 10, 2022, 5:46 p.m.

Mi2kile

❤️

Oct. 10, 2022, 12:28 p.m.

Teek

Hey guys I am new here 😻 please welcome me 🥺

Oct. 10, 2022, 9:53 a.m.

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Mi2kile

I am also new here. But learnt so much

Sne

Welcome 🤗

PØÑTSÒ

Hii Trek.

MasterOfPuppets

I constantly crave attention.(I know you'll give it to me, one way or another)

Oct. 9, 2022, 9:03 p.m.

Lwandile

Hy 👋 guys I am new here 😻👋

Oct. 9, 2022, 8:41 p.m.

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Sne

Hy

Mi2kile

Hi, and welcome to Springster-Girl Effect.

Thatow

Springster thanks to you i can open up and talk my feeling out i feel free to have you guys ❤️❤️

Oct. 9, 2022, 6:13 p.m.

Thatow

Well...me too am a shy, quite person and i normally don't talk a lot...but it's okay with me and am used to it

Oct. 9, 2022, 6:11 p.m.

Sne

Hi guys , i'm new here plz Wellcome with warm hands🤗

Oct. 9, 2022, 11:20 a.m.

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Mnqobi_12

Welcome to springster hope you like it here 😍😍😺

Sunflower

Hi guys I'm new here , plz Wellcome🤗

Oct. 9, 2022, 11:01 a.m.

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Mnqobi_12

Hi welcome to springster hope you like it here 😍😍😍😍

Sne

Welcome

Confidence

Hy guys I'm new

Oct. 9, 2022, 9:33 a.m.

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Confidence

I just need a friend

Mnqobi_12

Hi me

Confidence

Your story really encouraged me and I'm so thankful now I know where am I standing 🥺🥺🥺♥️❤️💛🤞🙏

Oct. 9, 2022, 9:30 a.m.

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Mnqobi_12

Ncoo 😍😺😋🤩🤗

Shailesh

I feel sorry for you and your family because losing a loved one is hard.💔💔😔😔🤗🤗

Oct. 8, 2022, 7:44 p.m.

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Confidence

You have such a great ❤️ heart

Sipho43

Hi guys I feel lonely in this world. No one love me l live with my Grandmother and mother died 5 years ago 💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭

Oct. 8, 2022, 1:35 p.m.

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Mnqobi_12

Shame so sorry for your loss😱😓😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Sipho43

Thank you ♥️ Nqo 😘

Sipho43

You're such a great and kind friend

PASI

It's bad to hear that sorry 😔😔💜

Confidence

So who do you live with now Sorry for your loss😭😭

Mnqobi_12

Your welcome but who do you live with 😥😓😭

InMyOwnWorld

Condolences 💔😭

ntswalo8

oh my soal I'm s onto so sorry for ur loss😭😭😭😭😭

ntswalo8

oh my soal I'm so so sorry for ur loss😭😭😭😭😭

Sipho43

I live with my Grandmother

Sipho43

And thank you guys god bless you

Owethu

don't feel so you are not alone know that life is like a game its got many levels easy and hards the state your in is a hard level now try to make that hard state easy

SSontlaba

I am so sorry i wish i could support you shame 😱😿😿😿

ANDISIWE

Hy guys I'm knew

Oct. 7, 2022, 9:22 p.m.

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Girl123456F

Hello welcome

Confidence

Me too

Mnqobi_12

Hey

Mawande_1

Ah Thanks for the advice and this also worked for me I know this will help a Lot of individuals out there

Oct. 7, 2022, 6:38 p.m.

Sipho43

Hi guys 💗♥️ but everyone doesn't respond why 💔😭

Oct. 7, 2022, 1:23 p.m.

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Mnqobi_12

Hi can you be my friends

Sipho43

Yeah of course ♥️♥️♥️😘😘

Sipho43

Mnqobi you are 11 years l am also 11 years old you are in 6A l am in 5A

Mnqobi_12

It's fine darling i can be any ones friends even in grade 5

Mnqobi_12

Can you send your numbers so we can chat on moya plz mine are 0663583268

Sipho43

Mnqobi it's right if I call you nqo

Mnqobi_12

Yes it's fine 😎😍👍

Mnqobi_12

Can you send your numbers so we can chat on moya plz

2022

Hi nqo it's me Sipho43 long time no see.sorry 😔 I know that I ignore you I'm sorry 😢😢😭😭😭😭😭 please forgive me bestie 😿

Mnqobi_12

Hi guys i am new 🖐

Oct. 7, 2022, 10:06 a.m.

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Nokwethemba

Hy dear u welcome

Sipho43

Hlw 🤗

Denzhe

🤞😭😭

Oct. 7, 2022, 6:41 a.m.

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Mnqobi_12

What is wrong 🤨🤔

Thrororent

My name is Theodorent like you so much sweetheart you

Oct. 6, 2022, 9:11 p.m.

Thrororent

Hello you need talk to me soon.

Oct. 6, 2022, 9:06 p.m.

NGUBANE25@

This is a good massage to many girls l also sometimes feel unwanted

Oct. 6, 2022, 6:07 p.m.

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Mnqobi_12

Me too

Bongw

Why just stand up for yourself

MasterOfPuppets

I also want a free massage

Zinhleh

Hi everyone 👋☺️

Oct. 5, 2022, 10:02 p.m.

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Teophina

Hy Ziey

Dalphy

Hi guys I am new here🤍🤍😊

Oct. 5, 2022, 7:33 p.m.

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Mnqobi_12

Me too can we be friends

Dalphy

😊😊

Oct. 5, 2022, 7:32 p.m.

DojaaaCat

Do you guys see pictures?

Oct. 5, 2022, 12:51 p.m.

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Sibongile11

Nope

melloe_krush

Yes

Fellisie

Yea

NGUBANE25@

Yes

Mnqobi_12

Yes

SSontlaba

Nope🙁

KUNENE

HYyy guYs I'm New here ❤️🥺 just Need a Friend ❤️🌇

Oct. 4, 2022, 3:01 p.m.

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Nokwethemba

I'm here

Xavier

0786895942

Kirn

Anyone wanna be friends here's my number 0634893519.❤️

Oct. 4, 2022, 1:55 p.m.

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Mnqobi_12

Me mine 0663583268

Lovewin

I guys iam new here please welcome me and i am a female

Oct. 4, 2022, 11:23 a.m.

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@Alisha72

Hi what's your age I am new my name is Alisha female 💞😸😻👏💖

Sheriff

You are welcome dear❣❣❣❣🌹🌸💐

Malefu

Hi everyone im female please add me 0686859166

Sept. 23, 2022, 4:09 p.m.

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Mnqobi_12

Me 0663583268

Newri

Hi everyone I'm new here I'm male please add me ladies,0693106759

Sept. 19, 2022, 7:11 p.m.

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Neko-chan

How old are you and where do you live??

Nokwanda

Good question Neko-chan

1234

How ould are we are asking you a question

Lerato12

I think he is 35 years old and he is a male

Quincy

Hi guys.

Sept. 18, 2022, 8:08 p.m.

Latest Reply
Thrororent

Hi you need tlk to me please

Tshepi909

Hi guys I'm new here please let me fit my number are 0665013243

Sept. 18, 2022, 5:39 p.m.

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Wele

How are you doing

Ongie

Guys can you plz look for me a boyfriend I'm lonely 💔🤞😭😭

Sept. 18, 2022, 4:36 p.m.

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Zamokuhle

I'm here🤭

CRY222GP

Hey dear, im here...no need to look else where.

MasterOfPuppets

The most desperate comment I've seen in my entire life

Nokwanda

Like yoooh

Lebza__7

Heyyy guys m new here my name is Lebo 😊❤️🥺🤲

Tshabalalala

🌹Ncooh 🤒❤️

Onni

Kanti are we here for boys? 🤔😂

MasterOfPuppets

Onni some girls are

CneRh

🤣🤣🤣

Fellisie

Ongie wow that's just way too sad even for me

Sibongile11

How will a boyfriend help your loneliness?. Rather try to find happiness in yourself rather in another. It's just my advice cause that's where you do things that you will regret later. Boys will take advantage of you

Mawande_1

Hey I see you are looking for a boyfriend guess what I'm also looking for a girlfriend 🥰🙃

Maengse

MasterOfPuppets,I like ur sense of humor ❣️❣️u always say sensible things🙂🙂

SSontlaba

Me.too💔💔😭😭

Sheriff

Hai

Ongie

So sweet ❤️🤞 You are really talking the truth

Sept. 18, 2022, 4:34 p.m.

Elaine10

Asbonge✌️✌️I'm new here please lemme fit in .my number is 079 489 7647

Sept. 18, 2022, 6:23 a.m.

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Sipho43

Beke libeke Danko

Piper

Guys plz help me I'm a teenager and I have my first boyfriend I often fell shy around him and I don't want any busy 2see us 2gether.plz give me advice I really have 2 know..... SHOULD I GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP OR NOT?🤔 PIPER

Sept. 12, 2022, 6:54 p.m.

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Sibiya

I would n't say you should get on relationship because maybe he will think that you are shy around him And breaks your ❤heart

Ongie

You must be brave

@Zee2998

I don't think you should do so because when you are with your lover/loved ones (generally) you should feel safe and free around then sooooooo my advice to you 😘be with the people you feel free around and not tight 😫

Sibongile11

I think your still young to be in a relationship because it needs you to be strong enough. So rather be friends with him and know him better before you decide about a romantic relationship. Try friendship first

Thasné

depends on if you love him/her really if you did you would wanted everybody 2 know about you , and it's nice you 2 guys walking in the street hand and hand laughing and be beautiful

NseeH

Haw guyz i forgot to ask,Who have iSCO in their school.just show a hand emoji🖐.

Sept. 11, 2022, 7:36 p.m.

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Tana775

🖐

Lovewin

Hi am new here and i want a boy friend help enyone availbel

Maengse

Guyz this is not a dating website alright 🙃🙃

Tomboy

🖐️

myssmisterigyrl2

Not to be jealous and to succeed everywhere I go 😁

Sept. 11, 2022, 7:56 a.m.

Sweetday

This Info ma to in is really helpful and I never knew I was just like that.☺😣😥

Sept. 8, 2022, 4:13 a.m.

Ziyand

Hi guys i'am new here

Sept. 7, 2022, 4:40 a.m.

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NseeH

Hi🤗

Klo_khali_18

Group chat just a maximum of 16 people either 8 boys and 8 boys remaining

Sept. 5, 2022, 6:56 p.m.

Latest Reply
Tana775

Ok

Amierh

K

Sweetday

Iam in my number 0674267333 iam a ♀️

h0p3

Please add me my number is 064 638 3034

Klo_khali_18

Drop tens

Onkarabetswe

Please add me my number is (0603222103)🙏🙏🙏❣️❣️🥺🥺

Onkarabetswe

Please add me my number is (0603222103)🙏🙏❣️❣️🥺🥺

T

0735487251

Loveleen_Lovely

Hy gyz my number is 0691471035

Thabile

Add me plz 0646980378

Zi67

Pls add me too... 0679608317 😊😝

Wendoline

Hi guys I'm new here

Sept. 5, 2022, 5:49 p.m.

Latest Reply
Klo_khali_18

Welcome

Onkarabetswe

We welcome you 💟

Mnqobi_12

Can i have your no mine 0663583268

Nokulunga

Hey guys uhm new here please welcome me 💓🦋🤗

Sept. 3, 2022, 1:14 p.m.

Latest Reply
1234

Hi there you are welcome

Nontle

How guyz I'm also new here❤🤗

Sept. 2, 2022, 5:43 a.m.

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Nontle

Hey*

Nokulunga

Hello 🌹

Wendoline

Hud

NseeH

Sawbona🖐

Onkarabetswe

Hey 😚😚

Zelmarie

Hi guys im new

Aug. 30, 2022, 5:49 a.m.

Latest Reply
SboRh

Hi🤗

Asa

Hello friend I'm Andiswa Nxumalo💚💚💚👋💕

Onkarabetswe

Asa can you please add me in moya group🙏🙏🙏I beg you

Onkarabetswe

Asa can you please add me in moya group🙏🙏🙏I beg you😚😚

Onkarabetswe

Asa can you please add me in moya group🙏🙏🙏I beg you 🥺🥺🥺

Onkarabetswe

Asa please don't mind this 😚😚

Latoyah

Hey guys I'm new here

Aug. 28, 2022, noon

Latest Reply
Thembelihle

Hey

Asa

Welcome 💗💗

SboRh

Hello😀

Lovewin

Hello there i want a boyfriend

Pheto28

Hey guys I'm new here

Aug. 28, 2022, 11:53 a.m.

Latest Reply
Thembelihle

Hii

Asa

Hello

Mpilo123

👋👋🤞🤞🤞

Aug. 27, 2022, 9:54 p.m.

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Asa

Hello unjan imina u Andiswa Nxumalo

Sipho43

Hi Andiswa Nxumalo. Zwide kalanga gudu nkomo mkhatshwa somaphunga

Elizabeth

Hey guys I'm new here 🔥💜

Aug. 27, 2022, 8:34 a.m.

Latest Reply
Elizabeth

And my name is Elizabeth

Asa

Welcome to the springster 👋👋

Onkarabetswe

Welcome to springster 🥺🥺🥺

Moleboheng16@

Hey guys ❤️ my name is Moleboheng I'm new here 🖤

Aug. 27, 2022, 7:02 a.m.

Tafiekeitu

Hello guys my name is Keith And new here

Aug. 25, 2022, 5:25 p.m.

Latest Reply
Moleboheng16@

How old are you...?

Tafiekeitu

15yrs old and you.

Asa

Bebe ngakhulumi nawe Tafikedu 🤞🤞💔💔

NseeH

Hi Keith 🤗

Atalia

Am talking toIMO

Aug. 23, 2022, 6:25 p.m.

Atalia

Hi IMO how do you do.. 🙂😉😉

Aug. 23, 2022, 5:55 p.m.

Latest Reply
Asa

Who Are you talking to IMO/AMO

Atalia

Hi guys my name is Atalia and new here.

Aug. 20, 2022, 11:46 a.m.

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Anathi

Atalia can i have your numbers

Bayolise

Please add me

Bayolise

I forget my number give me yours

Nawty-IMO

Hello atalia and welcome

Busane

Nice to be now you

Atalia

Ok Amati my l ask are you a boy or girl , before I gave you my number and wt for because we can chat here...😟😟😟❔❓

Asa

Mtshele Atalia uyaphapha u Anathi hau

Atalia

So are you now not taking to me IMO🥺😗😗😥

Onkarabetswe

Asa can I talk to you 🥺🥺🥺🥺

Lerato12

Hi Atalia ❤️

Deempho

Wow that's a good experience I learnt a lot today by the way my name is mpho but you guys can call me Dee💓💓💓thankx🙏🙏

Aug. 18, 2022, 7:52 p.m.

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Dembe

Oh really mee too

Nthabiseng

Hey springster members im new here😊☺️nd i am confused about what to do in the future bcs my family wants me to study for being a doctor nd my dream is to become a police woman 😥😥pls help me 😥tell me what to say to my family 😥😥😭🙏

Aug. 18, 2022, 3:47 p.m.

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Tebogo

Hi sorry to hear

Cinderella

Just tell them what you want in your life

Cinderella

Just tell your parents that you can't to be a doctor 😒 maybe they will understand

Kyliebella

My family also wants me to be a surgeon but my dream is to become an actress

Nthabiseng

Thanks for your help everyone ❤️❤️i appreciate your help and support 🤞🤞❣️😊

Sibongile11

Rather show them now while it's still early that you have an interest in police...

Sipho43

Ncooh I see you want to protect people thank you ♥️👮🏻‍♀️👮🏻‍♀️👮🏻‍♀️ Our police woman tell them

Sipho43

Kylie girl those are my dreams Surgeon and actress both please

Mashishi

Qetkfbhbai to

Aug. 16, 2022, 4:12 p.m.

Mashishi

I'm dating I'm not working with my school work

Aug. 16, 2022, 4:11 p.m.

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alondiwe

That is stupid mab

chelleytheboss

focus on your school work instead of umjolo man!!!🙄🙄🍑

Tebogo

Leave the relationship and focus on your school work

myssmisterigyrl2

Dumb 🙄🙄 educational is more powerful than dating 😤😤

MasterOfPuppets

This is why our generation is so stupid

Sipho43

Work girlo umjolo uyanyisana I don't judge you but please focus on School work please 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Maengse

Guys I have a crush on this guy and I know he likes me too.but what I Know about myself is that I won't date as long as I haven't completed my education

Beekay

Girl that is just dumb u should focus more on education instead of mjolo . This is the main reason why our generation is doomed for failure because we focus on mjolo and we mostly wind up pregnant so it is better to focus on school than mjolo

Nkomeni

Hi guys my number is 0797982445

Aug. 15, 2022, 1:20 p.m.

Latest Reply
Tinzi

You are joining us you too🥺❤️

Simo

You are joining us my friend 🥺❤️❤️

alondiwe

Wait for call

Onkarabetswe

Can I join you if you all want 🥺🥺🥺

Tinzi

Hi guys my name is Esihle I'm new here

Aug. 14, 2022, 4:38 p.m.

Latest Reply
Simo

Here is my number 0657010163

Tinzi

Ok I will add you❤️

Gladys

Hi 😁😁 my number:06344172_6

Mihle_

Hi gys my number is 0637316455😊

ItsSammy

Here is my # 0815366753

Bayolise

I will add you

Busane

Okay welcome Esihle😘😍

SSontlaba

Here is my number add me 0817066381😘

Mthaniya

Hi sweetie I'm shapo but I change the name I'm MTHANIYA neh

Aug. 13, 2022, 8:29 p.m.

zoeharte

These are so true ❤️❤️

Aug. 13, 2022, 3:38 p.m.

Sollisa

Hi im new tooo😅😅

Aug. 13, 2022, 10:33 a.m.

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Nikiwe

Maybe we should be friends 😍😘if u don't mind..

Tinzi

0657010163 my number Guys

Nikiwe

Okay I would add u 😁😀

Mihle_

Imma add u

Simo

Tinzi you stole my number now

alondiwe

How can you add someone😶😶😶😶🙁

Nikiwe

Hi guys I'm kinda new here ...and my name is nikiwe sakhele.

Aug. 12, 2022, 7:35 p.m.

Latest Reply
Mihle_

Hii Im new too mybe we can be friends 😋

Kwanele

I'm also new and my name is kwanele (I'm a girl)

Bayolise

Write your number I will add you

aishamagade

I am so confused on my future career and myself 😓😓😱

Aug. 11, 2022, 6:56 p.m.

Latest Reply
Cmimie

Same here bruh💔😩

Maengse

I want to be a cardiothoracic surgeon,an actress,model, play wright,poet,singer,chef but the one I really love is surgery en I want ur opinions guyz🤷🤷🤷

Sipho43

Me Maengse when I grow up is surgeon,an actress,model, fashion designer, musician-songwriter,make up artist and businesswoman

Awethu

Hey there Im new any welcome

Aug. 9, 2022, 5:29 p.m.

Latest Reply
Ntsane

Welcome ☺️

Tinzi

Welcome

Mihle_

Welcome

Bayolise

Welcome

Busane

Welcome 😍😍

@meddie_ecool

Welcomeeee, I'm also new

Euni

Hi springsters my name is Eunice I'm on depression medications how can I deal with my anger issues I cry almost every day always in doors also have suicidal thoughts 😭

Aug. 9, 2022, 6:52 a.m.

Latest Reply
Ntomby

Hi Eunice this is Ntombentle. I may not be a doctor but I think I know how to help. Find the source of what is making you cry and deal with it. Do not think about killing yourself, dying isn't a solution. Don't be hard on yourself because you have suicidal thoughts, everyone has them from time to time. I hope this helped ❤️

Ntsane

Sorry But what did you do today 😱😱😱😱

aishamagade

I am also guilty of this..

July 31, 2022, 6:40 p.m.

Sane

Hey girls I am new here😍

July 28, 2022, 10:39 a.m.

Latest Reply
Nozipho

Welcome gal

Ntsane

Hi there

Bayolise

Give me your number please

Mavis

I don't think she's lying though 🤔🤔

July 23, 2022, 8:10 p.m.

Nomthawelanga

Are you serious because i Am panicking now please give me details!!!!

July 16, 2022, 7:24 a.m.

Latest Reply
unkown

guys iwas not lying I got raped and almost got kiled.😭😭😭 I managed to get out of there . thanks guys😩😩😩

Mihle_

Sorry😭😭

Night

Sorry sis 😭😭😭 God be with you 🙏

myssmisterigyrl2

Stop capping unkown... Tell the truth... How could you have texted 🙄🙄

unkown

guys help me, address Is p218 rolisusu cresent site b in khayelitsha I rely on you guys please help me I'm kidnapped call the police do something please I managed to sneak my phone, call the police before I die.😭😭

July 14, 2022, 7:32 p.m.

Latest Reply
Nomthawelanga

Where are you,,, what is she/he name!!!!!!

Nomthawelanga

Hello

Nomthawelanga

Are you serious because now I am panicking give me details

zokuhle_ngcingi078

You are lying why aren't you replying such a liar.....nxxxx😨😨🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🏢

Nomthawelanga

Wow you are so brave why are you replying such a lie Nxhhhh

Nomthawelanga

Uyazi ukuthi besengigcishe nga waphonela amaphoyisa you are such a lie 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬😡

Sweetie

Guys don't complain with out asking what if the kidnapper almost saw her and hide the phone or they saw her or something must have happened

Nomthawelanga

Sweetie maybe you are right mhm

Ntsane

What is your name

myssmisterigyrl2

You lie... Well "die" then, some people just want attention 😠

Maengse

Do u know wishing someone death is like killing them

Madikizela

I am new here I need to chat with you guys

July 12, 2022, 6:29 p.m.

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Shapo

👍❤

Nomthawelanga

Hihh

Sweetie

Hie shapi

Owethu13.

No problem

Ncumisa

Me to please guys🙏🙏

Simthandile

Hello❤❤

Mihle_

Hiii

Bayolise

Give me your number

Palipali

Hello my name is Melokuhle from tembisa and I am new here

Theo

True guys but what if there are Shy too 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

July 11, 2022, 8:20 a.m.

Shalom

Hi Springster I'm knew here

July 8, 2022, 8:39 p.m.

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Shapo

Hyyy I'm also new her

Sweetie

Hi shapo

Shapo

Hi bbe you are Talking with Asand❤💏

Nandini

Hi l am also new pliz welcome me l am from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼

Owethu13.

Hii I'm also new here

Sweetie

Asanda i hope you remember me we talk at WhatsApp

Aliyah

This shows that you are curious answering the questions that the teachers may ask you 😎😎

July 7, 2022, 8:47 p.m.

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Nasiha

That's right Aliyah love you girl

Maloy

Aask me somting

July 4, 2022, 9:40 p.m.

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Lee_560

Hi how are you

unkown

helpppppp!

Nomthawelanga

Do you have a bf/gf

myssmisterigyrl2

Unkown is attention seeker 😪😪

SSontlaba

Why u ngafowuneli amapholisa u ur such a lied man 👀

Tlotlisang

Improving your skills in class is never easy as it's said.You are told to be involved in class activities you are interested but shy at the sametime:the teacher will be like the is no your type you can date in here.😶

June 29, 2022, 10:25 a.m.

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Busi

True. But finding answers never became easily to me so how about you..

Bayolise

Busi l add you but you don't answer me please answer me please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Hello Can I ask what age does one needs to have to br

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Hi Sammy really want to help you out but what does br stand 4 please don't laugh I am new to this abbreviations thing 😗😗😗😗😘

Maloy

15

Buhle

16

Shalom

Yah what does it stands for br

Nomthawelanga

18 years

I think I am going to change the fact that I am shy in class thanks springster luv u lots💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Shapo

Me too thanks alot phela I'm shy too

Nomthawelanga

Mena I was s.h.y

Maengse

I'm only shy in outside in class I take so many participations

Hi springsters,im doing my matric this year.Over the past years i was able to express myself in class without shame or any fear,but now all that has changed.It started when i was doing my grade 10 ,i would always shy away from answering in class even though i knew the correct answer because i was scared of being laughed at or made a joke for the day.I always felt intimidated to do well in class and that is what made me to not speak whenever i did not understand the teacher or the module he or she was teaching and it was because i felt that everyone was expecting wonders from me and i giving out wrong answers will give out the wrong impression.This thing is really affecting me but i am willing to change so that i can achieve the best marks at the end of the year.

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Hello Bubue We are so sorry you are going through that at the moment.It must be difficult for you.You should know that not everyone is always right and that's why we ask questions in class so that we get to learn and understand better.How about you talk to one of the teachers you feel comfortable talking to.Explain your situation to them and they will be able to help you get through all this.Talk to your teacher and let us know what they have suggested and if it is working out for you.Come back back and tell us.We hope this helps Springster.We believe in you.Just remember that no one is perfect so no one expects you to always be right.

Simthandile

Just like me I'm scared of saying the answer in clas because I'm scared that they will laugh at me one day my teacher punished me because I knew the answer but l did'nt raise up my hand

Hello Springsters I asked if at what age does it take to become a springster ?

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Any age dear u r welcome

2310

Hi I am new her at Springster

I have a problem because there's this strict teacher , she teaches us maths. I asked her a question about the chapter that i didnt understand. She said im disturbing her. Thats where i stopped asking questions.

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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I think you should go back to her and ask for a clear explanation. After all, it's her job to make sure you understand so don't feel discouraged.

Troubae

Get help from your classmates that's understand the chapter better. Or ask someone who's in the higher grade for help. Again you can ask other maths teachers for help. When I was in grade10 I couldn't understand my maths teacher at all buh during study I use to go ask my grades teacher for help and I understood her better so I learnt to ask help from who ever I can understand better and I ended up getting help from lots of people

Hi I'm here to ask for advice on my school life I failed the first term of this year and I'm in grade 12 and though I haven't gotten my second term results I have fears of not making it So I was wondering if I could have a shot of still getting into the university if I fail this term Please help

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Aliyah

Okay so if in your mind you like what if what if it won't help you l can advise u that work hard and if you are curious ask ur teacher something while she's explaning ur lesson for the day ask where u don't understand

Well I also went through these things too. Especially keeping wuiyr in class... And also I'm guilty of not planning for my future in a right way

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Hey BadBunny, we're happy you read the article and realised where you're going wrong. Use the tips to improve where you can so that you can do better for yourself.

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March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Reading is sometimes boring for me how do learn to read always without getting bored

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Have a time table of what I must do everyday ,make sure that I stick to it,encourage myself by reminding myself about my dream or what kind of lifestyle I want to live every time I feel like I can't do it and be positive every second during my study sessions.

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Have a time table of what I must do everyday ,make sure that I stick to it,encourage myself by reminding myself about my dream or what kind of lifestyle I want to live in future every time I feel like I can't do it and be positive every second during my study sessions.

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

To boost our marks,we should set study goals that are realistic and adopt study methods that suit us so that studying can be effective.Also learn to break up your work so that you can understand more easily rather than you would when tackling the whole chapter.

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Im gona study to be a pilot

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Tebogo

Go for it gal

Im gona study to be a pilot

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

I'm going to study to be a magistrate, can u plz tell me more abt that springster?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Guys i want to be a model but my mom wants me to be a doctor so whnnwe had to choose our subjects she choose them for me by force and she knows that im really stuggeling with maths

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.

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Same here I don't know why don't they understand

Nobuhle

Oups.. parents 😞!!

Thasné

Why does she wants do go against your dreams she should reap

Thasné

Why does she wants do go against your dreams she should respect your dreams and what you want in future after all she knows you struggling with maths how can she still force you to be a Docter

Troubae

Allow me to say this. In this time of a life one can't rely on one source of income. Study medicine while do modelling as a side hustle or hobby and at the end of the day you and your mom will both be happy.

Sphindile

Just follow your heart girl😊