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Who do you turn to when you can’t ask your mom, and your best friends are just as clueless? We have seen some of your most pressing concerns. We are here for you Springsters!

Here are your sex questions, answered.

Q: How soon after having unprotected sex will I know if I am pregnant?

A: The earliest signs of pregnancy usually pop up at 6 to 12 days after your egg has been fertilised. This is when spotting occurs. Spotting can look like a light period with less flow and a lighter colour. It usually ends quicker than your normal period would. It is hard to tell when your egg has been fertilised. You can only confirm a pregnancy by taking a home pregnancy test or by going to the doctor. You can prevent unplanned pregnancies by using a condom every time you have sex.

Q: Can I get STIs from having oral sex?

A: It is a myth that you cannot contract Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI) from giving or receiving oral sex. Giving and receiving oral sex is actually the most common way that STIs are transmitted. You can contract an STI even if you only have one partner, but having multiple partners can increase your chances. Common STIs that you can get from oral sex include gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia and genital herpes. You can protect yourself from these infections by using a condom when giving or receiving oral sex. You can get condoms at no cost at your nearest clinic or hospital.

Q: Using a latex (normal) condom hurts me, what else can I use?

A: Some women are sensitive to latex (the material that condoms are made of) and using them can cause a lot of pain. But what’s a girl to do when she wants to protect herself from STIs including HIV and unwanted pregnancies? There are other options out there if you’re looking for an alternative to latex condoms. Polyurethane condoms are condoms that are made from a special kind of plastic. They can protect you from unwanted pregnancies and STIs including HIV. The female condom is a latex-free and low cost alternative. It works by putting it inside the vagina.

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Loloh

Hi guys,so I got a friend who is 14yrs now and she got this problem everytime (everyday)she comes this white things (like dribble)on her pussy,but she is a virgin and she is so worried and she can't tell her mom,(we did Google search it but we can't find proper answer) so l thought springster can help 😭🙏

Aug. 23, 2022, 5 p.m.

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Yolanda

She must worry her self it normal it happens to me she can tell her mom about it that dribble symbolizes virginity

Tsebokang

Good morning Springster and other members good people I have a problem my wife is 1 month and 2 weeks pregnant. So it's been days now we not having sex , when I wanna have sex with her she says she doesn't feel like doing it in fact she don't want to have sex. I don't know what to do because I miss her a lot please any advice

Aug. 19, 2022, 5:24 a.m.

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Reitu7muhlezana

It's very weird of you to read stories about girls😑😑😑I don't feel comfortable

Anele2880

Hi is it normal for a 12 year old to watch porn

Aug. 18, 2022, 1:19 p.m.

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Yolanda

Way to young dude

Reitu7muhlezana

Yoh I become worried when I find blood on my sheets everyday when I have sex. And my b.f is kinda distancing himself from me

Aug. 10, 2022, 4:04 p.m.

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Yolanda

It because she thinks u bad influence since she is still pure

Sweetie

Hey Springster are we allowed to ask questions

July 15, 2022, 6:27 a.m.

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Yolanda

I think so

Annie

I am scared like people say it hurts from a scale of 1 to ten how much ?

May 6, 2022, 1:11 p.m.

do sexually transmitted infections cause one to miss their periods?

March 20, 2022, 8:58 p.m.

HEY Gay's in Springster I Love Shipokasi to reliz Many good thing's on Really life love for others.

March 20, 2022, 8:58 p.m.

HEY Gay's in Springster I Love Shipokasi to reliz Many good thing's on Really life love for others.

March 20, 2022, 8:58 p.m.

Are female condoms safer than male condoms,how would you know if the condom broke?

March 20, 2022, 8:58 p.m.

hey my boyfriend ejaculates very fast during sexual intercourse should I be worried?

March 20, 2022, 8:58 p.m.

hey my boyfriend ejaculates very fast during sexual intercourse should I be worried?

March 20, 2022, 8:58 p.m.

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Hey Nelisedi, there is nothing abnormal about this, but if it bothers you or him there is nothing wrong with speaking to him about it.

You shouldn't be worried at all, You boyfriend enjoys doing you so much that the climax is amazing and he can't contain it. Don't make him feel inferior ..

jo-girl are u really 21??

Every Time I Feel Horny What Should I Do?

March 20, 2022, 8:57 p.m.

hey.....sometimes wen i try to have sex my vagina hurts a lot what mst i du cuz i cnt handle the pain.......????

March 20, 2022, 8:57 p.m.

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Hey Mand, the link to the article below will answer your question. Just copy and paste :). http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-body/ouch/

I had unprotected sex last week Sunday and before having that i ended my menstruation on last week Thursday . This week my nipples are itchy what's happening ?!

March 20, 2022, 8:57 p.m.

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Hey Springster, we're sure that it's nothing to stress about, but we think you should go to the clinic or doctor in about a week or two for a pregnancy test. Otherwise you can always take a home pregnancy test. In future, remember to use protection. Please let us know if everything turns out alright in the end.

I'm using injection to prevent me from getting pregnant I always hve unprotected sex wth my b.f so I always get my periods like 3weeks .I think I must go check up on myself

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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where do u stay?

I am also on the two month injection. But I'm actually having thoughts of stopping the injection. Somehow, I feel ready to start a family with my boyfriend. His 29. And I'm 21. What do you ladies think ?

Jo_girl..are you mentally, emotionally and physically ready to bring life into this world? Are you financially stable?Are you studying if yes can you juggle both a baby and the pressures of school? Do you and your boyfriend see eye to eye about the matter of starting a family? Are you both psychologically ready?

Just say no to unprotected sex!!

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

I'm just so broody ..

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Hello jojo28 Why are you broody Springster?

Honestly, Me and my boyfriend are sexually active. And I have mentioned before that I'm on the two month injection. Well, my boyfriend and I love each other very much. We literally are like a married couple, There's just no papers to make it official yet,Lol. And the things I do man .. From working all day to coming home and cooking. Cleaning,doing all these wifely things each day. Made me feel as if I need some other routine. Some responsibility. I don't know if I sound weird, But I just feel this way and that I'll be a great mom,knowing there's a little human depending on me. Shifting my focus from this everyday stress and monotonous routine I do. I spoke to my guy about it. But he wants to get married first. But the broodiness is killing me .. Seriously.

I just feel like I'm ready to mother, Probably because I'm doing so much already ..

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Im a horny person,and i cant go a day without masterbating ......Is it normal? wath will happen?

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Im a horny person,and i cant go a day without masterbating ......Is it normal? wath will happen?

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Maynardville_love4eva

I also want to know My best friend also have to masturbate every single day sometimes 2 to 3 times a day?

I have a problem everyday my pussy want a dick ifeel so horn day by day and I don't do masterbating

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Actually that can help to relieve you. They're many websites that can give you tips on masturbation.

Jho girl me 2 and its been 2weeks now jho i can't deal ....

Jho girl me 2 and its been 2weeks now jho i can't deal ....

Love

Me2 don't know what to do 🙄

what sexual active means??? I am 15 years old is it normal to be horny

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

is it normal to be horny

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Lol.. Yes it's normal

I have started having sex with my boyfriend... At first we used condoms but now we don't we enjoy it raw ...but even though we enjoy it raw I feel like I will be infected with HIV ...and I want to start using condoms again but am scared to tell my boyfriend ...what must I do Springsters

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Jho ..I can totally relate 2 that i once had sex w someone but that person told me that he didn't take my virginity ...i did as him why he say that coz the next day i was sore .....we'll he told me I'm still a virgin ....so im dating someone else now but last week when me an the new guy had sex jho ....i had imige him as my ex even if when kis....just can't get that guy outa my head ....coz it feels like he the one that had take my virginaty .........i totally like this new guy ...but I'm still in love w my ex

Hey Guys..I have something that bothers me.when we about to have sex with my B.f.like that moment when we kissing and touching each other I become wet.so when we having I don't feel that thing

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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try me I can help u the way u like it my dear

Hey Guys..I have something that bothers me.when we about to have sex with my B.f.like that moment when we kissing and touching each other I become wet.so when we having I don't feel that thing

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Hey guys my bf came to me nd told that he had done a HIV test nd his results came back positive so we decided to go both for one together nd both results came back positive so we on treatment we remind each other when it's time for the meds nd we fully support each but I'm scared that what if he leaves me how will I cope

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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U must come to me but am negative and HIV is not bad if u treat it I can date that person

Hy guys i dont feel sex anymore ... i get bored when im having sex with my boyfriend

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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U must get a new boyfriend

Some times is not about wat u feel it's ur body being sensitive

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Hello Lebese Can you please explain more about what you are saying. We are really interested in it.

Some times is not about wat u feel it's ur body being sensitive

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Hello Lebese Can you please explain more about what you are saying. We are really interested in it.

Hey I'm Tuduetso & I'm 20yrs.I've been using deppo 4 two months sinc there I didn't use it for this month of August, so I had unprotected sex wth my bf so is there any possibility of becoming pregnant bcz now I sleep too much & my legs are sore & very painful, plz help

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Hello Springster😣😣...my name is Siphesihle and on Thursday i had protected sex with a guy I've been dating for 3 weeks whereas im not sure if he really loves me and now i don't answer his calls and texts i feel dirty n im scared he'll dump me😰😰what should i do?

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

My private part is always wet,wat I should do??plz help

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Hello Peggy Don't be scared. We advise you to go to a clinic and explain your problem to them. They will be able to explain it better and help you. Please let us know that went.

You need to have sex

You need to have sex

my name is Thandiwe I don't enjoy sex anymore it

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Try sm1 like me u gonna like it

We can help you

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Its oky

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Its oky

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

How do u get tweens

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Hi peeps for the past few days i had been having dreams and when i wake up my panty is wet whit white things please help what could that be please?

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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Hi Lmim, this is probably nothing to worry about. It could be that you're aroused during night time or that you're just have discharge. If it's bothering you, you can just wear a pantyliner before you go to sleep.

Hi peeps for the past few days i had been having dreams and when i wake up my panty is wet whit white things please help what could that be please?

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

I've been seeing this guy for a month now, we have been sexually active the agreement was to not fall inlove, and I was fine with that. Our sexual relationship was so good I was even able to learn new styles, the way I got comfortable with this guy I think ended up falling for him. When we meant the second after our first sexual intercourse, he told me to stop drinking, we became so honest with each other, that I even met his family. I don't know whether I should carry on with this or let it go before I get hurt because I don't really know where I stand with him, he even threatened to fight who ever I sleep with besides, even though I'm not sleeping with anyone else. Should I stop this relationship?

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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just follow your heart

Hi Springster, it's totally normal that the feelings that you guys have for each other have developed. We understand that this was totally not the plan, but these things happen. You have to make the decision on your own about whether or not you should continue with this relationship. Write down a list of reasons why you should not continue with it and the reasons why you should. If one option outweighs the other, choose that option and vice versa. Only you know why you should or shouldn't carry on with this. Sometimes we give ourselves the best advice.

Thank you

Is too love having sex too much

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Hi springsters, I think I have a problem every time after having sex with my boyfriend without protection his dick and balls gets sore. What's my problem and what should I do please help guys.

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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i think you should consult a doctor cause it could be a real serious issue

every time my boyfriend talks about sex i get nervous what do i do

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

To me I think its a normal thing so you don't have to feel uncomfortable cuz we r not de sym

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

Can You Fall Pregnant even if You only Do Foreplay?

March 20, 2022, 8:56 p.m.

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What's foreplay?

Hi guys I had sex with my boyfriend and I'm in periods but I think I'm pregnant can that happen?Please help me

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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😂😂😂😂Noooo

Hi all I just want to find out what's the difference between male and female cum?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Maynardville_love4eva

What?I dit not know you get female cum!!

Is it normal to have sex with your partner and not feel the sexual pleasure?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Is it normal to have sex with your partner and not feel the sexual pleasure?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Definately

There's this guy I met and on the same day we kissed. I asked if he could finger me but I didn't agree.But now I regret not allowing him cause there's a chance that I might never see him again since he lives in Gauteng and I in Noupoort a city thats in the Northern Cape.Should I have allowed him? I'm a virgin.

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Hey Asiphe1, no, you definitely did the right thing by telling him no. There is a reason you did at the time and it was probably because you were not yet comfortable or because you were afraid. You don't have to regret. One day when you feel comfortable you will do it and that's okay.

but where does virginity enter...doesnt mean if he was going to finger you,he would've taken your virginity... You jus want to have that great feeling you haven't had since you a virgin And and don't regret it maybe that same guy wasn't going to make you feel Like u not in this work by fingering you... we get different types of ppl🤗

Hey guys I just want to find out what is the difference between female and male cum?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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There isn't really a difference but obviously the first difference is that the positions of the chm ain't at the same position... And make cum is sperm which is slightly thicker than the female cum n more whiter then the female cum is discharge or even water for that matter n is lighter than the male cum🤗

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March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

I had unprotected sex during my second day of my period could i be pregnant? How would i know or how can i go about finding out

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Hey Springster, you can still get pregnant even while you are on your period. Please make sure to always use a condom when you are having sex and at least find a different form of contraception. The only way to find out if you are pregnant is for you to go to your nearest clinic or doctor to get tested. You can also buy a home pregnancy test that you can take privately. You get these at supermarkets and pharmacies. We hope this helps you Springster.

Why should partners do unprotected sex when they are drunk

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

guys like make me understand when you have for the first it hurts or it depends on who you are

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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I think it depends

Hie ladies lve a problem my b.f does not satisfy me on bed and it causes me to masterbute is it bad wen l buy my rubber penis?help

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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just try women on top style u will satisfy urslf i prmc coz i know as a man i might not mke u sperm wth othr styles but i trust women on top coz u will be the driver

You don't even need a man use your fingers or other things

Good day...Im new here and i Read wht u saying and asking...i just have one question... When me and my boyfriend sleep,at night when he holds me i feel his hard...is he thinking abt someone else whilst holding me or does he get wet dream...and every morning his the sweetest...he wakes me up with a kiss and my coffee..bt then i just have to ask him abt the hardpenis..and his only reply is i cant help that from happening.....so wht could tht be...please help

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Hey it happens to evry guy....they usually call it morning erections

Hey it happens to evry guy....they usually call it morning erections

Hy am new here,am a Virgin I tried to have sex 8 months ago when my bf enter his dig inside my pussy it hurts a lot isn't normal to feel pain.

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

I wish I could find love,peace, forgiveness and someone who gets me the way I am someone I can grow old with but Nah .... .. We live in different world now ,world of lies....

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Having unprotected sex can lead you to have many diseases such as HIV infection and STI

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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We know. But thanks for telling us🙂

Hey guys my boyfriend and I have tried to have sex for several times and the problem is me...not that I'm not ready to have sex it's just that in the middle of the process he finger fucks me which is not really a bad thing but the problem starts when he's about to muff me...that's where I just stop the whole thing... It's not like I have a problem with my virginia or my virginia has a problem I just don't feel comfortable when he goes down on me... And every time I just stop the whole thing I feel like I've let him down coz we both want to have sex... And I end up lying about me not being ready... Please help guys how do I explain to him about me not feeling comfortable with the muffing thing

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Tell me hw does it feel wen hs is busy goin down on u...i cn help u

If your boyfriend finger fucks you would you lose your virginity or you'll still be a virgin 🤨🤨

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Hey sisters am Tianàh and i am 16 yrs old nd my boyfriend is 21 yrs old.Lately I have been having this problem of not feeling my boyfriend during sex.What can i do to feel him again?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Hey Tianàh, we think the best thing for you to do is to communicate to your boyfriend and tell him what makes you feel good. Communication and honesty is always the most important thing when it comes to relationships and sex.

Hi Qwas, I think the best thing for you to do is to communicate your feelings about this situation to your boyfriend. Communication and honesty when it comes to sex and relationships is super important and it'll make for a better a relationship. Tell him how you feel, but be kind and critical. Good luck Springster.

Text me

I think you should abstain, and focus on your books. And as its said, communications is the only way. Tell ur bf how u feel girl.

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Hi ,me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex so now I have a itching Virginia and rash,could this be the symptoms of STI?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Hey Springster, it's important not to make assumptions so that you don't put yourself into panic mode. Go visit your nearest doctor or clinic for a check up to be sure.

Hi..Can A Pregnancy test lie For Several times?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Yes, that's why is better to go to the clinic or hospital

Hi I was suppose to go for injections on the 7th July 2018 but didn't go and haven't got my period yet, what does that mean

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

Hi, I am 18 years old and I've start having sex with my Boyfriend who is 20 years old. We have been dating for six months now. The problem is that every time when I visit him he always wants us to have sex. There was a time when I was coming back from school and he wanted to see me. At that time I was very exhausted but I did go see him anyway...so I went to his house and then we layed down on his be then we stated kissing and then the next thing he's on top of me kissing my neck then I told him that I'm tired then he started complaining about how I don't satisfy him in bed...so he forced me into having sex with him...at that point I started crying then he stopped what ever he was doing...was he being selfish in a way by trying to force me to have sex with him know that I'm exhausted?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Hi candy_licious_7nt, Thank you for sharing your story. It was very brave of you to do this. You should only have sex when you want to and are able give your consent. No one should ever pressure you into having sex and your partner should respect your decision. It can often really help to speak to a trusted adult, have you thought about speaking to an aunt, old sibling, school counselor? Childline SA can also provide you with support. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

Heya peeps I'm just curious can a girl feel a penis against her if a guy is behind her or if he is hugging her from behind and what does it feel like if you can feel it?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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It feels great sweetheart It's the best feeling when knowing you are hugged from behind by the person you lovr

Yes

Hy my partner and I we both 23 and we been having sex for weeks now and I'm not pregnant and I'm not doing anything to prevent pregnancy should I be worried

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Hey Springster, thanks for your question! It could be something as simple as bad timing, women fall pregnant more easily when they are ovulating. But if you aren't ready to have a baby yet make sure you use contraception, for example the pill, IUD and/or a condom. Check out this Springster article to help you decide what contraception would work best for you: http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-body/choosing-contraceptive/ If you're worried you should also probably visit your nearest clinic or doctor for a check up. You can also use a home pregnancy test which you get from a supermarket. We hope this helps Springster.

sometimes I found it Boring and so uncomfortable to Be hugged from Behind Is it normal

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

How do you get rid of the genital herpes??

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Hi Atlegang23, unfortunately, genital herpes is incurable, but you can go for treatment at your nearest doctor or local clinic to lessen the severity of your symptoms.

Sometimes I Feel Like Being Kissed N Touched By A Guy😢😢 It Is Normal?

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Yeh.. totally😬

What are genital herpes😕

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

My partner refused to use a condom during sex so should i get worried about checking my stutas or something🙄

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

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Hey Springster, thanks for sharing. If you feel your sexual relationship with your partner is safe, consensual and fun then this is great. Unfortunately, many women (and men) who are in a sexual relationship feel like they have to have sex with their partner any single time their partner wants to. This is not true. A healthy sexual relationship involves having choices in any situation and you have a choice to say no to sex if they do not respect your wish to use a condom even when you are in a sexual relationship with someone. A partner who respects you should have your best interests when it comes to things like sex. We also think it would be wise to visit your nearest clinic or doctor to check your status. If you do plan on having sex with again, feel free to explain to him that you want to use a condom to prevent STIs and pregnancy. If he doesn't accept this, then you might want to rethink your relationship with him. We trust you to do what's best for you. All the best Springster!

I wanna eat a pussy till she rips the walls

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

I was diagnosed HIV positive in 2016 when I was 6 months pregnant with my second child out unfortunately the baby died ... As time went by I still find hard to accept the status but I'm on treatment and no one in my family knowns about this . I am dating someone I told this person about my status but his is distant from we have not slept yet

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.

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Hi Springster, we're so sorry that you had to go through something like that but thank you for sharing. We're sure it must not have been easy for you. Talking to people about your status can be scary, but there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed about . Right now you don't have to pressure yourself to focus on anybody but yourself right now. Have you thought about speaking privately with a counselor? When you give yourself time to work through the emotions and anxieties you may experience then this can help you to handle dating and relationships better as well. The counselors at Childline SA are really great at this kind of stuff. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information. You can also call the people at Love Life for help on 0800 121 900 or send them a please call me on this number 0 8 3 3 2 3 1 0 2 3 to call you back.

Am 18 years old and am still a virgin.Me and my boyfriend we been trying to have sex but my virginia doesn't allow the penis to go through .Is this normal or I need to go the doctor .Am really confused

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.

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Hi Springster, thank you for reaching out to us with your question. It might be difficult around the first time and if you are struggling feel free to use some lubrication which you can purchase at any pharmacy/drug-store. If you are still super concerned, you can go visit a doctor to consult.

Dear Gabi I have a question for you what is oral sex

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.

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Its a kind of sex where he licks ur vagina and u lick his penis. It includes the mouth

Hy whenever I have sex with my boyfriend using a condom it is very painful always but whenever we have sex without using a condom it doesnt hurt at all but I am afraid of having sex without using a condom because I might fall pregnant

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.

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Hi Springster, thanks for reaching out to us. You are completely right to be concerned about having sex without a condom. Sex with a condom will not only protect you from pregnancy, but you'll also be protected from contracting STI's such as herpes or HIV/AIDS. It could be that you are allergic to specific types of condoms (maybe the ones that are made from latex/rubber). If you are allergic to latex, you can get non-latex condoms at your nearest pharmacy. However, to be sure, we recommend that you visit your nearest doctor or clinic for a consultation about what could be wrong.

Heyy,I have question that I wish could be answered. A long while ago I noticed I was getting small bumps on my vagina(almost like pimples but not as small) and I didn't know why. Sometimes they go and sometimes they would appear out of the blue. I didn't want to ask anyone about it, however I did a bit of research on it and found out that they might be caused by stress which is a bit true though,coz whenever I get really stressed they pop up but then again,I'm not always stressed so I don't understand why they don't go away. Could it be im really always stressed therefore they don't go or it could be caused by something else. Could a fellow Springster please help.

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.

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Hey Karamell! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

Hey Duffy so those things are common it's just a sign that you have to drink water or see a doc about it but don't worry you will be okay

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.