My friend, my hero

When girls support each other.

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Hey girls! Let’s say this together: we are more powerful when we support each other!

This a lesson that I learned from my bestie Tshego! Two years ago, I had sex with bae without taking any steps to protect myself from pregnancy, like using a condom. So I was very worried when my period got late. I thought I was pregnant, and needed someone to confide it.

Tshego and I talk about everything, and I can count on her to be supportive, so I told her. I’m really happy that I did! She told to take a deep breath, and try not to worry too much. She suggested going to the clinic for a pregnancy test, and accompanied me there.

She held my hand every step of the way, which I really appreciate about my bestie! My tests results came back negative, but that’s not all the help Tshego gave me. She also gave me a sex talk. She explained getting your period means that your body can fall pregnant. She also said that even though it is natural to develop romantic and sexual feelings, it is important to also know about sex.

For example, do you know that you can protect yourself from pregnancy? Tshego advised me to use condoms because unlike other methods of protecting girls from falling pregnant, condoms also offer protection against STIs, including HIV. Her advice helped me to make better decisions about my sex life. I now use condoms, which are free at public hospitals and clinics.

This is why she is my hero; she supported me when I was scared, and empowered me with information so I could make better choices!

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Sandiswa

My bestie friend and I we like sister to another mother struu🤞🤞😭🥺♥️❤️🔥💯🌍I love her so much

Sept. 24, 2022, 6:42 p.m.

Kokie

Me I am lucky 😁 me and my BFF are like sisters 💘

Sept. 24, 2022, 10:39 a.m.

Piper

Yoh when last has here been anybudy

Sept. 23, 2022, 3:35 p.m.

Piper

Hy good afternoon loodshedding here

Sept. 22, 2022, 4:05 p.m.

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MasterOfPuppets

Gotta love loadshedding

Piper

Guys so I want to ask u guys something ...... Well tell u something.... ❤️ So there's this boy in my class his name is Pharrell and his a player.And there's this girl her name is Rue-Shay.Now this girl Rue- Shay was dating this boy Tyreeque and the boy Pharrell was dating this girl Haydon,but today the girl Haydon broke up with this player Pharrell and two days before today ,the boy Tyreeque broke up with Rue-Shay.Now today Pharrell the boy cried coz she broke up with him to be with this boy Tyreeque.I was surprised when I saw him crying however Rue-Shay didn't cry when he broke up with her like what Haydon and Tyreeque did was totally wrong....Right now I feel so sorry for Rue-Say and Pharrell ... HOW WOULD YOU GUYS FEEL IF THIS HAD TO HAPPEN TO YOU GUYS.??? WHAT WOULD YOU DO???🤔💜💙✌️ Piper

Sept. 21, 2022, 2:59 p.m.

Piper

Oh and she's not my friend or my hero she's just a classmate

Sept. 19, 2022, 5:04 p.m.

Piper

Her'

Sept. 19, 2022, 5:03 p.m.

Piper

Hey guys... So there's this girl in my class ,her name is Mishca.I don't like her coz whenever she would tell somebody a joke of what she's saying that I said she would pretend like it's her joke...or...when I eat toilet paper (I just chew it not swollow it)then she would say she will never eat toilet paper.But when the children say's I eat toilet paper she also wants to just becoz he wants to be spoken about.I DON'T LIKE THAT CHILD .... I just wanted to share this info..... Piper 💜💙✌️

Sept. 19, 2022, 5:02 p.m.

myssmisterigyrl2

#Girls must Stand together #Boys should Get with The program (Not literally) 🤭🤭

Sept. 10, 2022, 2:25 p.m.

Bonolo

What do you want to ask syabonga😌

Sept. 8, 2022, 2:38 p.m.

Ayabonga

Guys can I ask a question

Sept. 7, 2022, 2:23 p.m.

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Lalli

Yes pls

Comfort

Hey guys I have 4 Best Friends who are Mokgethwa- she is my best friend from grade 3 and she's kind and quiet Onalerona- beautiful ,kind ,generous, patient and understanding Kelebogile- she is being jealous of me when I get high marks and she makes herself like she's our boss So I don't know who must I choose please help me to find out who must I choose

Sept. 3, 2022, 10:24 p.m.

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Ayabonga

Onalerona

myssmisterigyrl2

Leave Kelebogile,go with Mokgetwha and Onalerona

Yolisa

Girl,Choose the friend that you feel comfortable with.The friend you can talk to.I know how it feels you love all your friends but Kelebogile is jealous of you.If you can get hurt now,I'm sure Kelebogile won't help you but if you ask from Onalerona and Mokgethwa,I'm sure they would help you but even if you choose your friends ,make sure Makgethwa and Onalerona don't feel like choosing sides between you and Kelebogile. LOVE YA!

Neko-chan

It's pretty obvious that kele ain't a good friend but at the end of the day who am I to judge and besides if they are truly your best friends they would be jealous of you they'd be happy for you 💜💜💜

Neko-chan

It's pretty obvious that kele ain't a good friend but at the end of the day who am I to judge and besides if they are truly your best friends they wouldn't be jealous of you they'd be happy for you 💜💜💜

Sandiswa

Onalerona

MasterOfPuppets

Neko-chan couldn't have said/typed it better

Comfort

Hey I'm new in Springster please Welcome me ❤️♥️

Sept. 3, 2022, 10:14 p.m.

Asa

Simo mind your own business okay idiot

Aug. 27, 2022, 12:34 p.m.

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Comfort

No ,guys please let's respect each other I'm begging you for peace sake

Simo

Please don't start a beef torhoo 😏🤨🤨

Comfort

Who ? Me ?

Ayabonga

Such a bad name (idiot)

myssmisterigyrl2

Asa stop looking for trouble 😭

Atalia

Hello Bo shomi 🥰🥰😘😚

Aug. 24, 2022, 2:05 a.m.

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Amierh

Hi my frnd❤❤

Asa

Hello boy friend

Asa

I mean hiy Atalia girl friend not boy friend sorry

Comfort

Hey chom chom

Ayabonga

Hi Zi ntuan

Hloniphile

Hlw guys

Aug. 20, 2022, 8:39 p.m.

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Asa

Hiy

Tweens

Fine and you

Ayabonga

Hi

Hloniphile

Hlw guys I'm new here pls accept me

Aug. 20, 2022, 8:38 p.m.

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Asa

Ok jeez

Aliyah

Asa no plz stop it she said guys not Asa ay kabi ngiyaxolisa uma ngiku hurthile bekungeyona yinhloso yam futhi if you don't want to say mean things to other ppl stay silent don't comment okay commie 🧡🧡 love you

Mihle_

Such a supportive friend♥️♥️🥺

Aug. 15, 2022, 5:37 p.m.

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Asa

Who

Manisi

Hi there my name is Isihle and I am New so what is your name 🙋

Aug. 14, 2022, 7:17 p.m.

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Barbielicious

Hey ur welcome😊😩❤️I'm barbielicious can we be friends 🥺

Amierh

Hi i'm Amierh can we be friends here's my number -0790583937

Simo

My name is Esona ❤️

Simo

My number is 0657010163

Bayolise

Hi it's Bayolise can we be friends

Asa

Asa as you can see

Atalia

My name is shelete us you can read 🤑🤑🤑..

Nozipho

No one of you has comment it because your hate me

Aug. 8, 2022, 7:59 a.m.

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Simo

No one hate nozipho even me I'm not hate you please don't say that to you forgive yourself 🥺🥺😍

Asa

Do not have time for people like NOZIPHO 🤮🤮

Simo

Why asa you so judging some one else why you are dirty girl🙄🙄☹️

Comfort

No Asa let's welcome the little girl warmly 😥 Welcome Nozipho❤️

myssmisterigyrl2

Jeez!!! Drama Queen 🙄🙄

Simo

There is no drama queen here

Nozipho

Girls can you please share your surnames and your names please 😢😢😢

Aug. 8, 2022, 7:52 a.m.

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Simo

Yes i wanted 😍😍

Asa

Why???

Simo

Because you are judging 🙄🙄

Asa

Simo for the last time mind your own business okay

Simo

What's your problem please say it if there is a problem because I'm tied of this thing 🙄🙄🤨🤨😏🙄🙄

myssmisterigyrl2

Simo, stop entertaining her and both of you stop

Simo

What's your problem girl mind your own business because we are soting the thing that asa do to nozipho

Cindy

I'm new here please share your numbers or just add me 0673571358

Aug. 8, 2022, 6:42 a.m.

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Nozipho

Welcome

Simo

Mine here 0657010163 you welcome😍🥺

Asa

Do not want to send mine

Chido

Wow that is a good friend don't allow enemies to seperate you guys

Aug. 1, 2022, 4:19 p.m.

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Asa

With who

Nicole11

I also had sex before with another boy that l was in love with... He forced me to have sex with him but l didn't have a choice so l slept with him but glady l was not pregnant

July 17, 2022, 1:35 p.m.

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Nozipho

Did you tell your parent's

Manisi

Do not do that what if you were pregnant 🤰🤰🤰🤱🤱

Asa

Crazy

Atalia

Me aneva nna nkaseke he bust gallery 😦😦🤔😮😦😧

Ayabonga

You mean Ur are not a virgin any more

Fefe

That friend is supportive😚😚

July 17, 2022, 7:50 a.m.

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Tshedza

Is it Fefe who stay in Stenvater or or Dilopye

Fefe

No i stay at bervelly Hills Phase 5 😘😘

Bayolise

Tshedza I add you but you don't answer me please answer me please 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏🙏

Demicka

Wow your friend is so supportive

July 15, 2022, 8:41 p.m.

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Manisi

You are right they are supportive

Budila

Heyyy. That friend of ur's she is the best friend . I need a friend like ur's

July 13, 2022, 6:43 a.m.

CORLEA

Wow❤❤that is a good friend 👭

July 12, 2022, 8:10 p.m.

Blose

What a wow❤️... keep it up my dearest 😍🦋

July 4, 2022, 6:28 p.m.

Cbucy-13

That what friends do gal❤️❤️

May 12, 2022, 8:31 p.m.

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Alwa

Yerh we should support each other 🤍💕And stop this fighting for bois ,Gals it wrong❤️

Thts called a real nd loyal frnd... Heyy thr im Inge my frnds call me Smiley nd if ur my frnd u may/ cn call me Smiley... Love U

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

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Princess

😁😁😁😋luv ❤️ you too smiley

Amierh

😊Love u too smiley😍😘😇

Simo

😍😍😍🥰 smiley love you too 😊😊

yes

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

Owe it sounds great supporting each other

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

Dats nyc girl ,hwzit

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

Data NYC pic girls

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

WHAT A GOOD FRIEND

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

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Lee_560

Thats what friends are for💓

Bayolise

Hi guys I need a friend if you want to be friend with me send your number

Amierh

Hi my name is Amierh n here's my no.0790583937

WAT A GUD FRIENDS...💖

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

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ZEEYAH

Sure is I love my BESTIE ♥️💜😝

Mmm wat a supportive really friend

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

Never give up

March 20, 2022, 9 p.m.

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Yes we mustn't give up at all...let's prove all de man in de world DAT doesn't bliv we as women can rule de world...let's show em DAT we ain't weak

I've got no friends....I moved in wit muh mom en 2 niece at muh step fathers house....he got 6 children 3 galz en 3 boiz....1st,5th en last born are boys de rest R galz...every time ii believe ii have a friend dey turn 2 b backstabbers...ii now have sum1 ii trust "MUH BBE" he's de best thing DAT has ever happens 2 mii He treats mii like his Queen... He even introduced mii 2 his FAM I love him a lot ey En we always spend time 2geda Like after skul or practice of "DRUM MAJORRETES" we spend time 2geda We've been through a lot ey Buh still ii don't know how 2 trust him....I've been hurt many times ey...ii don't know how he is different.... His FAM loves me so much...ii do 2 En he says he wanna marry mii...I've changed his life Do Uu think he's telling de truth???

March 20, 2022, 8:59 p.m.

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He may b telling de truth gal...Uu have 2 sacrifice in order 2 success So gal trust him en C how he reacts lately....En gud luck ey

Hi leighthemba06. Thank you for your comment. You're not alone. Making new friends can be difficult. You might feel nervous and think that you'll be rejected. In order to make friends you need to put yourself out there and get to know people and have them get to know you. That way you can see who is genuine and you can make really great friends that way. Don't panic. You can do it.

Yaɦ ɦɛ's tɛʟʟɨռɢ ɖɛ tʀʊtɦ .ɖɛ ɢʊʏ ʟօʋɛ ʊ ɢaʟ ɨts sɦօաs ɦɛ ɛʋɛռ ɨռtʀօɖʊċɛ ʊ tօ ɦɨs ʄaʍɨʟʏ 😊 .ռɛɛɖ sօʍɛ tɨքs sօ I ċaռ ʟast աɨtɦ ʍʏ ɮօʏʄʀɨɛռɖ 😉

...i wont say im that hppy with the stepdad thing but it aint my business but just to give u a heads up ...dont be to much of a daddys gal to him until he proves that he care abt u guys n ue mom... (ive been there n if u wanna talk ..im free) ue bbe lvs u hunnie ...but jus take ue tym n know him better ...if he loves u tht much he will be patient with u

Princess

It's complicated you better luv him if he seems like he loves you coz it's not easy to find someone who loves you nd if he's playing with your he's gonna regret loosing you 😍

I think thsego is a good , caring bff

March 20, 2022, 8:59 p.m.

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Thanks for reading the story avala!

I think tshego is a good friend

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

i think she is a good friend

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

She a really good friend

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

I wish me and my friend could fix things

March 20, 2022, 8:55 p.m.

She's the best I wish I can find one like her

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.

Guys is it okay being a virgin coz I always lie to people I had sex before and I wanted to sound cool but as soon as I joined #springster I realised being a virgin is soo much cooler soo guys I need help to tell my friends I'm a virgin

March 20, 2022, 8:54 p.m.

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Preet

Girl tell me u didn't just say that so ohk u didn't have to say that u had sex to be cool there's a lot of ways to stay cool like telling the truth being ur self 😍😍😍 girl being a gal is so amazing don't regret being a gal eyy do u know girls and boys are equally even girls can do the things boys do even boys can do the things that girls do to convince ur ur friends come clean

Busier

Lie,lie,lie gal but in the end the will found out maybe they will support you l think so💝 .