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Anna

What is sex

1 year, 5 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

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1 year, 3 months ago
Anonymous

Zinzi your story is similar to my story Well I lost my Virginty she I was 13 with my first boyfriend who I used to love the most may people try to give me a worning but I didn't listen to any of the

2 years, 4 months ago

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Tk

Mine too but still today he says he loves me but he has a child

1 year, 6 months ago
Ybopa

Yep that's Boyz for u I had a bf when I was 19 he begged m for sex I was not ready for sex I had to save my virginty😞😞

2 years, 6 months ago

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Thapelo

Me too 😍😍😍

2 years, 4 months ago
Cutiesnaughty

thanks for the advice , but I broke the promise I made to myself and I feel bad. But I have no regrets about indulging sexually cause the guy and I, we are still together. And he's shown me nothing but love. Besides all of that I'm scare I might lose him cause I relocated n we hardly meet up. I love him and I can afford to lose him cause I have suicidal thoughts when I'm sad nor depressed . What should I do? I'm emotionally unstable and I overthink things...

2 years, 6 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Snowman, we're really glad that you're comfortable with your sexuality and that you have no regrets. It's also really awesome that you and your boyfriend love and respect each other. Long distance relationships can be really tough, but they can also be really fun and interesting if you both make the effort to work on it. You can both set up cellphone dates and plan for dates in the future where you'll physically meet up. This will help you both find something to look forward to in your relationship. Also, if you say you have suicidal thoughts, it's really important for you to speak to someone about this so that you can be okay even if it happens to be that you are not with him. Try speaking to an adult that you can trust about these feelings. It can be anyone from your parents/guardian, relative, neighbor or teacher. You can also speak to the counselors at Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

2 years, 6 months ago
Anonymous

Hy please I slept with my boyfriend for the first time after he didn't speak to me again when we see each other no one we don't talk and I feel bad. .. And I asked my self what went wrong

2 years, 7 months ago
Anonymous

My name is Olwethu I'm 16yrs old my mother don't want me to have a boyfriend but my sister wandile has a boyfriend and she is 16 too and my mother allow her to have a boyfriend I think my mother don't love me she love my sister the most

2 years, 8 months ago
Anonymous

Plz advice me My boyfriend asked me to have sex with him But am scared Idk wat to do but I really want to do it but am scared wat if he leaves me

2 years, 8 months ago

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Some

Go for it gal I've already done it

2 years, 7 months ago
ntombi

Plz advice me My boyfriend asked me to have sex with him But am scared Idk wat to do but I really want to do it but am scared wat if he leaves me

2 years, 8 months ago
Shanty

You shouldn't do things became u want to make ur partner happy You should do things when you are ready to do them

2 years, 8 months ago
Nonhle_Stamper

What you must do is to do what makes you Happy and what your heart wants but i'm also in a same situation right now two guys wanna sleep with me should I agree??

2 years, 9 months ago
Nonhle_Stamper_Jx

Wow stay strong honey!!

2 years, 10 months ago
Anonymous

I relate...but I am thankful that your story made me feel dat I am not alone

2 years, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey Thandow1999, yes you are not alone. So glad that the story made you realise this!

2 years, 11 months ago
Seela

my story is exactly as yours but the most painful thing is I lost my virginity Wen I was 13

3 years ago
sakeenahadoni

Thanks I will tell my friends to stop dating big people and having sex in a young age

3 years ago

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Anonymous

Hey Sakeenah, we think it's wonderful that you care about your friends and that you want to advise them, but remember that you don't want to come off as judgemental or controlling. We can always advise people if we know that they need the advice but we must remember that we cannot tell people what to do. Thank you though Springster😊.

3 years ago
Alick

Thanks alot because i have learnt something

3 years ago

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Anonymous

Thank you Springster, it's our pleasure!

3 years ago
Candy_leigh2000

Zinzi's advice is very useful, but to for me it's very late. I have let him use me and destroy me and I have suffered from guilt everyday of my life since then.If I'd seen this article a few months back, I'd have taken a different decision.

3 years, 1 month ago

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KAY-EE_3

you can still change it's nvr too late. ...u cannot be in an unhappy relationship for gud

2 years, 12 months ago
Masoso

Thanx for the advise zinzi

3 years, 1 month ago
M357489-

Hey guys i stopped the prevention injection in August last year nd have been having unprotected sex i recently started having my periods becausing i wasnt having them for months. Iv been menstruating for two weeks now i jst want to know when will my normal cycle start?

3 years, 1 month ago
Anonymous

Hey guys i stopped the prevention injection in August last year nd have been having unprotected sex i recently started having my periods becausing i wasnt having them for months. Iv been menstruating for two weeks now i jst want to know when will my normal cycle start?

3 years, 1 month ago
Mpumeh.H

I started having sex at a Early age i was 15 infect I didn't know about sex my sisters used to tell me it paing and staff my bf asked me nicely I told him I'm not ready but he didn't listen then boom but sometimes you can't control you feelings so yah

3 years, 1 month ago