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Nontyatyambo

Thanks for sharing your story

1 year, 9 months ago
_Tiny
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Anonymous

Many girls are so scared to talk about their issues like being raped. They think that if they talk they will be judged. They feel ashamed or Talking guess what if u don't talk About it will bite u inside.u might even be depressed because u are hiding it to u self u don't talk to anyone about it

2 years, 11 months ago
Anonymous
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_Tiny

Hey I would advice you to tell your parents about what happened. It doesn't matter what people say about you i mean whether you do good or bad people will always have something negative to say Don't give the perpetrator power to think they've destroyed you NOOOOO Break the silence babe and help fight for our rights as girls So help your self and get councelling, talk to someone it will ease the pain and reduce the burden I know how it feels I'm also a victim, so if you dont mind I can talk to you, we can chat if it will make you feel better So dear do what's best for you ,not to please someone else

2 years, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Not only girls are sexually assaulted Also males

3 years ago
Anonymous
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Gabi - Moderator

Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are suicidal, depressed or feel alone. They are here to help you! Contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

5 months, 1 week ago
makani

Hy guys i have a problem of losing interest wen i sleep wth ma husband. wat can i do?

3 years ago
Slyzer

Hi everyone plz i need help i have aproblem of dead feelings even my husband z complaning dat i don't feel anything for him yes its true but i love him alot , n when he touches me i don't feel anything n nothing show tht im ready to have sex he don't lyk to do foreplay , he even complaint tht my vargina z dry no fluid tht make the penis enter easily this problem started when i was on family planning (implant) till now nothing change i have try so many tymz to get help at clinic the nurses jst laugh at me, plz anyone who know how to restore feelings plz help me it's been 5 years now

3 years ago
Anonymous

Hey guys . after

3 years, 1 month ago
Makaris

It's not ur fault

3 years, 2 months ago
Anonymous

If is not u fault

3 years, 2 months ago
Lodza

hlle

3 years, 4 months ago
Hlohlo
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Makaris

Tell ur mother girl

3 years, 2 months ago
_Tiny

Tell your family girl, you don't have to do what you don't feel comfortable with Tell her exactly how you feel and as a parent its her duty yo ensure that you safe....please tell your parents it will also help ease the pain dear Do this for your self please

2 years, 10 months ago
Tyler

What does it mean when u give ur virgin to someone you love

3 years, 4 months ago
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_Tiny

Don't give these men power to control you.... Talk to your parents coz if you don't it will haunt you forever, help your self and talk please BREAK THE SILENCE Don't let these people get away with rape

2 years, 10 months ago
Anonymous
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Hello Shishi,we understand that this must have been difficult to tell us but thank you for sharing your story.It's a really brave first step and very mature of you. What happened to you was no way your fault and we're sorry that you had to go through that experience.We think you should consider speaking to someone openly and honestly and if you aren't comfortable with speaking to your parents you can speak to a teacher, mentor or professional for support. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are depressed, feel alone or are scared and just need someone tot listen to you. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.We really hope this helps.Please get back to us once you have decided what to do.

3 years, 5 months ago
retshegofaditswe

guys uhm a 16 year old yet I don't know how to kiss I need some tips on kissing .I don't know how to kiss but I think that I am very ready for sex

3 years, 6 months ago

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Hey Blondie_12, there are websites online and magazines that give you tips and tricks, but ultimately, there is no right way to kiss. You can ask your partner what he/she enjoys and you can tell her/him what feels nice for you. It's only a matter of it feeling good for you and your partner.

3 years, 5 months ago
Anonymous

Do u have a boyfriend..???

3 years, 5 months ago
Anonymous
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Lovelife303

Hi i know how u feel but if u keep it in ur gonna be scared for life i have kept my mouth shut and j still have nightmares about i suggest that u tell someone but talk to someone u trust

3 years, 6 months ago
makani

Eish gal sorry neh bt u must tell ur sisters before he does dat to them if not he will continue untill he hurts u

3 years ago