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Anonymous

Thanks for the tip😆😆

1 year, 6 months ago
Mistyr

Need to be loved

2 years, 4 months ago
Sqholo

Please do not wary about me

2 years, 4 months ago
thabang

Hi Springster, i just hate myself didn't listen when my mom told me not to date with my cousin,but I just keep on forcing dating my cousin having sex every weekend and she is 2months pregnant now,i think abortion is the solutions here, Cause am scared to tell mom,she will kill me when she found out about this, in fact the whole family will kill me, am thinking of committing a Suicide before anyone found out about this, Should i told her about this, please don't judge guys, what must i do, do you think having a child with your cousin is a embarrassment, to be honest i really love my cousin, is just come as a shock to me, i don't wanna lie

2 years, 5 months ago

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Sqholo

Tell them every thing

2 years, 4 months ago
Zobenathi

Hey guys. I wish Iwould be like you .talk about mother . I don't have a mother or a father to talk to .my life is just a mass 😥😭😭😭😭

2 years, 6 months ago

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Anonymous

Sorry for that find someone special to talk to maybe u might feel better 😢😢😢

1 year, 6 months ago
Wanda

I love my mom but I really struggle to talk to her but she says i must not be scared to talk to her but I don't know how to start

2 years, 6 months ago
Elena

hey. Well my mom is a very calm understanding person but its just so hard to actually to talk her about such stuff cause she's a caution mom when it comes to boyfriend.. And now I have someone I'm seeing and I would really like to talk to her about it but I'm scared of how she will react

2 years, 6 months ago
jessica

I love my mum its just a bit hard nothing but if u can dream it y can achieve it

2 years, 6 months ago
REFILOE

PLS TAIK WITH You MOTHER ABOUT SEX AND HER WHAT SHE SAY PLS

2 years, 7 months ago
REFILOE

HEY YOU MUST LISTED WHAT You MOTHER SAY AND DON'T LISTED You FRIENDS PLS

2 years, 7 months ago
Ragini

I am really scared to talk to my mom about sex

2 years, 10 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Ragini, maybe you can give us a better understanding of why you are afraid to speak to your mother about sex so that we can help you more with your dilemma. Your mom is the one person that usually has your best interests at heart and a conversation with her would be super helpful for you.

2 years, 10 months ago
Ayonela

Yes gal u might have a problem a 22 years old guy thats ur sugar daddy anyway..... He may want to control u and ur body.....

2 years, 11 months ago
LELOKUHLERR

I like this page

2 years, 11 months ago
Thandow

hi ,I am 19yrs old n I am in a relationship with a guy who is 22years old.I hv a problem in dis relationship, my bf is cheating on me n sleep with other girls after he forces me to sleep with him...help me ,what must I do?

2 years, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey Thandow1999, you should only have sex when you want to, and when you are ready to; this is when you are able to give your consent. Sex must not be forced, like your bae pressuring you into it, threatening to dump you if you don’t do it or when you are under the influence of alcohol. If you have already entered into a sexual relationship with your partner that is safe, consensual and fun then this is great. Unfortunately, many women (and men) who are in a sexual relationship feel like they have to have sex with their partner any single time their partner wants to. This is not true. A healthy sexual relationship involves having choices in any situation and you have a choice to say no to sex even when you are in a sexual relationship with someone. If you are struggling to say no read our article on Springster to help guide you.

2 years, 11 months ago
Thandow

thank u so much Gabi

2 years, 11 months ago
Anonymous

I finished school last year and have been job hunting with no luck. Now my mom won't buy me toiletries anymore, she says it's time I looked out for myself. I get her point but right now I'm stranded and I thought she would understand. My friend suggested I get a bf to provide for me but I don't like the idea one bit. I don't want to end up sick or having an unplanned pregnancy. I also don't like being dependant on anyone.

3 years ago

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Anonymous

Hey Candy Leigh, one of the hardest things to start doing in life is adulting. We want you to understand that you are definitely not alone in this and that our hearts go out to you. We'd love to help you but we're not quite sure where your interests lie or what your career goals are or if you've finished matric or varsity. What were you interests and what were you really good at while you were in school? Try to pursue the thing/things you had a passion for in school or throughout your life. Also, maybe you can try different methods of job hunting. Like if you've been searching a job online, try going door to door or vice versa if you're already going from door to door. Also, try talking to some of the trusted relatives or family friends for some advice or if they know of any places or opportunities for you. Maybe you can even find a mentor in them. Never stop looking online, there are plenty of opportunities that are always popping up if you look carefully. We believe in you Springster and your mom might just be being hard on you because she wants the best for you. If you feel comfortable try talking to her one on one about your feelings as well as your plans for your future. You can even go to her with someone that you trust for support and she might become more understanding. All the best Springster. Do remember to keep us updated about your journey and feel free to come to us for advice. We care about you and we want to help you out along the way! Good luck!

3 years ago
Anonymous

hi at first i thought my mom was strict only to find out that It was all my imagination I used to be scrd to talk to her but now she is my best friend I do not hesitate to share everything with her...my mom was the one who advised me to go for birth control after completing my matric but still she told that it does not mean coz she allowed me to go for birth control that mean I should go and open my legs no...I real love my mom she is the best

3 years, 1 month ago

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Anonymous

Hello Siphiwuthando Thank you for commenting and telling us about your mom.Continue to talk to your mom whenever you don't understand something.We wish you well.

3 years, 1 month ago
Anonymous

Hi springster how do u ask ur mom about your father if u want to know ur real father pls help

3 years, 1 month ago

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Nthabee

Watch a movie or something that talks a lot about father's ..and make sure that u with her..then ask her about your dad like "how did u guys meet? ..."kinda questions then she will talk...😔💗

3 years ago
Favourite

Nope that's not going to happen because she is to busy to even listen. If she even has time she would get bored easily and always say she's tired, even if I say it's important 🙄

3 years, 1 month ago
Q.Márvélóús

But hw gals I mean like my mom is so strict and stubborn how can I tell her bout things that r too sensitive for me to handle...........I truly don't know but those r gud advice's maybe they can work if I try.....Thanx for Sharing with us

3 years, 1 month ago
Saneh

Nice comments guys, how I wish I could talk to my mom.she's so strict and its not easy talking to her,she has never sat with me and tell me about life and all.guys I can't even ask her to buy me pads.I did a flob once and she told me all that was inside of her ,that she wish that I could die and I'm a curse upon her life I even thought of committing suicide cos of the life I'm living.I always try to do my best but there must always be something wrong she'd point out

3 years, 1 month ago