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Anonymous

He wants to have sex with you.....The question you should be asking your self is .....Are you ready to have sexual relations with him,if the answer is yes then go for it and if it's no or you can't make a decision then don't do it bcse that means you are not ready.

1 year, 7 months ago
Anonymous

Hey guys I am 13 and my partner is 7 years older than me and he wants me to have sex with him and I don't know what to do

1 year, 7 months ago

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Peaches

My answer is you are too young to have sex dear

1 year, 7 months ago
Gabi - Moderator

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1 year, 7 months ago
zinhle
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Lee

Ohk cool I I know what I must do when am not ready,but how do I know that am ready?

1 year, 9 months ago

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Anonymous

Well you can never be sure how ready you are,what you have to do is make sure your gut feeling is in the clear ,you relaxed and try to think about why you want to have sex,if you don't have more than 3 answers and have more answers in why you don't want to have sex,then don't go ahead try after a month

1 year, 9 months ago
zinhle
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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

1 year, 7 months ago
12345

Sexy is good

1 year, 9 months ago

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SexGod
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Anonymous
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Mamshibe

Mmmmmmmmm bad guys

1 year, 8 months ago
OuKazen
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CieBae

Is true that wen a girl has sex for the first time she bleeds?

1 year, 10 months ago

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Anonymous

Yes they all say so😥 unfortunately girls say it's

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Yes they all say so😥 unfortunately girls say it's painful

1 year, 9 months ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

1 year, 7 months ago
Bambino

Being a teen girl is not easy but one can consider thinking before taking any action no matter what situation she's facing. Remember each and every little action has consequences

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

So guys at what age u must start having sex

1 year, 10 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

1 year, 7 months ago
Mbalie

Yrh its true you can't do sex for someone cz u I'll neva pee

1 year, 10 months ago
Caty

Hey guys I been with bf for a mouth and a half now and I'm really but he keeps on asking when will we have sex and I keep on telling that I'm not ready and I feel like he would you and have sex with another and we don't live in the same town we just live a few km away from each other but I'm scared and I do really like him a lot what I do it's not

2 years, 1 month ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sex is something you should only do when you are comfortable. If you are not comfortable being sexual with your partner then communicate that to them. Have the tough discussion, if it is the right partner for you, they will respect how you feel. Sex is never something that you should be pressured into doing and both people should want to do it and agree to it. Think about how you feel and only have sex when you are truly ready. You have the right to be unsure. If your partner is threatening you by saying you don't love them, this is not a good sign. When you make the decision to have sex, make sure that it is because it feels right, not because you feel bad or guilty. Speak to a trusted adult or call Love Life at 0115 231 000 for more guidance.

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

So guys every time I have sex with my boyfriend i experience some sort of a pain,I don't know if its the injection or what.....but can you guys give me solutions maybe

2 years, 3 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! You shouldn't be experiencing pain during sex. Here are some things to try 1. Go slowly and make sure you are relaxed 2. Make sure you are well lubricated (wet) and turned on to reduce the friction 3. If the pain continues the best way to find out what's going on is to visit a clinic, health worker or doctor to be sure. Don't feel embarrassed, tell them about your problem, they are there to help you and will be able to advise you on what to do.

2 years, 1 month ago
Mbalie
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Anonymous

Hmm u shouldn't hear pain u must have romance before and get wet in your private parts

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Thanks for the tip👊👊

2 years, 8 months ago
Anonymous

Please advice me i had unprotected sex with this guy than the next day I took morning after pills than took a pregnancy test after a week it was one line than Cause it was early I drinked cyctotec the next week I experienced cramps than went on my periods where I had cloths than 3 weeks later brought a clear blue digital pregnancy test it wrote not pregnant than the next month I went to take another test to make sure than it was negative I went on my periods they where heavy flow and normal than my aunty took me to a private doctor than he did a scan he said I am fine but after all this I still have stress thinking what If or when I see a pregnant person I get crazy is it my mind playing mind games with me or wht

2 years, 8 months ago
Mimosa

I am turning 18 this year. All my friends are not virgins. They have been telling me how great sex is and that I'm getting old so I must let my boyfriend break my virginity. I believe that sex before marriage is a sin and I have told them that many times. I fight a lot with them because they say I think I'm perfect and better than them. They are the only friends I have and I'm very scared that I will lose them. What can I do? I tried everything to please them. I started drinking to fit in but losing my virginity is not going to happen

2 years, 8 months ago

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Dlamini

MIMOSA its your life..you kive by your choice no one can tell you wat you have to do with your life..losing your friends because of not wanting to have sex is great coz u'll be proud of urself when time goes by...Think about this...Ur Future husband coming at ur home paying full Lobola because you still a virgin

2 years, 8 months ago
Mimosa

Age is just a number dear

2 years, 8 months ago
Anonymous

Age is just a number dear

2 years, 8 months ago
Anonymous

Hello me and my bf are dating for 2 years and we have not been having sex for a while so since I'm curious I issued a challenge to masturbate and ejaculate 10 times in a day do you think it can be done and do you guys think he should accept the challenge?

2 years, 9 months ago
asia

Hello peeps I have a question please don't luagh. .I'm just curious is it possible for a erect penis to enter into a girls pee hole?

2 years, 9 months ago

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Anonymous

No.

2 years, 9 months ago
Dolly

No.

2 years, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Yes it is and its the lubricate in the private part of a girl that makes it not so sore

2 years, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Idk but I don't think so

2 years, 8 months ago
Yolandie

Is it okay to go out with a partner who is 3times your age????plzz need advise!!!!

2 years, 9 months ago

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Anonymous

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2 years, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Thanks for the advice.i don't have a boyfriend iam single many boys want me but I tell that iam that not interested but the is this one guy I like and he confessed to me that he likes me.but the problem is that many girls love him what should I do we like each other. he's in grd11 and iam in grd10.

2 years, 9 months ago

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Anonymous

Just tell him the truth ...that how you feel about him

2 years, 9 months ago