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Anonymous

You should go to a doctor

1 year, 10 months ago
Shadow

Hi springster Im new here I was friends with benefits with a guy for almost 2 months,he is 16 and I'm 13 on the 3week We slept together and he tooked my virginity in November in this year but we were using a condom...the condom broke and we felt it it is almost 3 months I get stomach cramps and I didn't get my period(s) so is it possible that I'm 3months pregnant Please help me !!😔

1 year, 11 months ago

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Yolanda

MAYBE U ARE 3MONTHS PREGNANT

1 year, 10 months ago
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Thoriso

Hey Anonymous This is a group to share feelings nd thoughts so uu can't be commenting things like uu make me sick So pls think before uu act bcz uu might be hurting some1s feelings 💔💔

1 year, 9 months ago
Sean

Anonymous what do you know

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Anonymous what do you know

1 year, 9 months ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I'm pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. I think you should visit your doctor or your nearest clinic and ask for a pregnancy test. In future, you can also chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

1 year, 8 months ago
Candy

Always be careful bcoz not all boys are loyal and can stand up for what they did

1 year, 11 months ago
Asna

Yes ALWAYS be careful😖

2 years ago
Zeezee

Hi springster for 4 years I dated some guy he introduced me to his parents everything was going well until he slept with my twin sisters best friend she fell pregnant and gave birth last year but because I love my boyfriend I could not leave him I was heartbroken and felt alone my boyfriend's brother was there for me through the whole thing one night I accidentally slept with him I'm now 3months pregnant and don't know what to do my friends keep on telling me to have an abortion but I'm scared and I don't want to hurt my baby I'm confused

2 years, 9 months ago

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Asna

Yoh eish that's FaScinating

2 years ago
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Anonymous

Good mogal u did the right thing

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Hi springsters im 22 years of age. Im no longer withy boyfriend and im 4 months pregnant, I've been receiving heavy sex cravings and i dont know how to stop it or feed my craving. Any advice on what i could do?

2 years, 9 months ago

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Anonymous

Can u plz tell me what is STIs

2 years, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Hudgens, STI's or STD's are diseases that you can get through sexual intercourse. These diseases are often transmitted to you when you do not use protection during sex or when you have unsafe sex with multiple partners. Examples include herpes, syphilis, genital warts, chlamydia, HIV/AIDS and others. You can protect yourself from these diseases by abstaining from sex or by using a condom correctly whenever you have sex. We hope this makes sense. If you are still unsure you can find out more from your L.O. teacher or you can visit your local doctor or clinic and ask a medical professional for more information.

2 years, 11 months ago
Anonymous

Hi My boyfriend is complaining about how I move when we having sex. He fuck me so good I really don't know how to sex him back I just don't do the best What should I do because we lv each other

2 years, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey guys I am 3 months pregnant is it too late for me to take abortion pills ...If not,which one is safe and not dangerous..plz help guys am so desperate

3 years ago

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Anonymous

Hi I think it's a bad idea for you to have abortion ...am a 22 year olsd girl under some circumstances I won't be able to have children of my own ....n I feel stressed...all I can say is DON'T

3 years ago
Anonymous

Hi Springster, you'd need to consult with the medical professionals at your nearest clinic or your doctor. In South Africa, the rule is that a women can only go through an abortion after 20 weeks (4 months) if her reason for doing so is because the baby is putting her health at risk. These abortions should be carried out by a designated government hospital or a registered healthcare service. If it is done anywhere else this could cause serious injuries. You should think about talking to a trusted adult, like a parent, relative, teacher or a school counsellor. Sadly, we cannot talk to you face to face, but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

2 years, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Hi...guys I'm 17 nd I'm in grd 11 nd my boyfriend he is in grd 12 in fact, he is done. 4 Moñths back I lost my virginity nd condom broke, so we didn't worry about it, we took it light nje until the first week of this month I started feeling weird movements in my stomach..so we did few pregnancy tests but they all came negative..So my boyfriend suggested that we should go to clinic to confirm tht um not pregnant but I refused because um scared..but the only thing scares me the most its how our parents going to react because there is a conflict between our families.

3 years ago

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ladyk

Hi gal I don't anything about sex or how a penis looks like but I'll advise u to go and get tested for HIV and AIDS and also PREGNANCY test Good luck Love u

3 years ago
Anonymous

Hy guyz...am 17 yrz doing grade 11 nd my boyfriend want a child what should i do

3 years ago

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Anonymous

You are still young girl your boyfriend must understand that Don't allow him telling you what to do. Just say No! and tell him that you are not ready. Focus on your studies and don t let him put pressure on you.

3 years ago
Ná-lády

Girl I think u should just think about it first. Ask questions like are you ready to drop out of school or showing up with a pregnancy bump and school and you know how mean students are right??? Then ask yourself if your boyfriend has enough money to support you and your baby plus have a place to call home cause we all know how unpredictable parents are they might just kick you out of the house and if all these questions you've asked yourself are a negative then you should probably wait until you are independent or if your boyfriend has money. It's up to you really but if you think you are ready for a baby besides the challenges you might face then do u girl cause its your body honey...🌸🌸

3 years ago
Lolita

Gal do what's best for your happiness not someone else's happiness

2 years, 11 months ago
Anonymous

Gal don't lose the key to success and dump ur b***h n***a boydoosh bag

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Hi guys May I had sex with my BF and June I went to test only to find out that I'm pregnant and now I'm 4 months pregnant my mom knows the problem is my dad he would kill me if he finds out that I'm pregnant

3 years ago

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Nana

Eih girl am also experiencing that but none of my parents know that...at least your mother knows,that all matters wena just focus on your pregnancy and on people that loves you. Your mom will soften him and he won't hurt you don t worry girl

3 years ago
Anonymous

Eih girl am also experiencing that but none of my parents know that...at least your mother knows,that all matters wena just focus on your pregnancy and on people that loves you. Your mom will soften him and he won't hurt you don t worry girl

3 years ago
Ná-lády

Tell him the truth... honey your dad might be mad and angry at you or probably wants to kill you give him time to process the news cause he's your dad after all and he might even grow fond of your little baby but if he doesn't forgive you. You just have to accept it and hope someday he might forgive you girl. Cause the belly will show soon so its better to tell him than him finding out through grapevine...🌸🌸

3 years ago
Nana

I had sex with my boyfriend on September we used condom but after that i missed my periods till now We both not sure if the condom broke or not. Last month i did pregnancy test n the results show 1 red line the second line was not clear Am woried now i don't know what to do

3 years, 1 month ago

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Anonymous

Hey Springster, first of all we're glad you are protecting yourself by using a condom. That's the most important thing to always remember to do when you decide to have sex. Secondly, we think you should consider taking another pregnancy test, if it still isn't clear, the only other option is to visit your nearest clinic or doctor to get tested for pregnancy.

3 years ago
Kaymo14

To fall pregnant, sperm needs to make contact with your egg. When a guy ejaculates, the sperm makes its way to the egg, so whether it’s just a tip or the whole penis, it won’t stop you from falling pregnant. Remember, there is only one way to avoid pregnancy, using contraceptives like the pill or the injection, or using condoms.

3 years, 1 month ago
Anonymous

Hy guys...i need ur help yesterday i had sex with my boyfriend n the condom brakes...so i need to know that how many hours it takes to drink morning after pill?..coz today i went to the pharmacy n they were closed ...so can i still drink it tomorrow??

3 years, 1 month ago
1234

Hy guys...i need ur help yesterday i had sex with my boyfriend n the condom brakes...so i need to know that how many hours it takes to drink morning after pill?..coz today i went to the pharmacy n they were closed ...so can i still drink it tomorrow??

3 years, 1 month ago

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Anonymous

Hey Bunny, depending on what brand of the morning after pill you use, you can usually take it after 3-5 days of having sex.

3 years, 1 month ago
BigDawg

Raw dog that ass crazy

3 years, 2 months ago