My boyfriend made a girl she was cheating with pregnant.He told me that right after I found out that I'm pregnant too and I'm not ready to be a mother, so now I don't know whether I should tell him or just do an abortion... Please help me, to take the right decision

5 months, 1 week ago

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Hey girl the right decision is never do abortion,just raise your child by your self

5 months, 1 week ago

I agree with Anathi. Tell him that you're pregnant and see what his reaction is. The other girl is not your worries,it wouldn't have happened had he been faithful to you.Think about the baby. It is yours...YOURS! Abortion is a cruel thing to do. My love,I know that you are strong enough to handle this. You can do anything!

5 months, 1 week ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, thank you for reaching out to us, we're really sorry that you had to go through something like this. We believe that when it comes to a decision like this often you know what the best decision is for you but speaking to someone you trust about it can really help. Try talk to a parent, a relative, a neighbour or your teacher about this. You can also get some counselling and support from Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website:, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

4 months, 4 weeks ago