Sisanda

Your dreams come first

12 hours, 41 minutes ago
Nae

Im mikateko.i privated wth implanton i never went to period for seven(7)months nd never had sex.on my eight (8)month i had sex and started to mestruate it is safe for me to hve unprotected sex because i implanton or i can get pregant

1 day, 4 hours ago
Beyonce

You should continue Persuing your dreams, so that you can be happy and have something to do.

5 days, 1 hour ago
CHARLIE

Sometimes the two of you will not be able toe understand each other the way it should be...When a women told her husband she wants to let her dream become true,then he must be responsible to help led his wife and guide her how to let her dream become true...When Love is there so will there be Trust

1 week ago
Malibongwe

Hy on your side

1 week, 5 days ago
Malibongwe

Age 16

1 week, 5 days ago
zala

I will support her achieving her dreams of being a teacher,because the more she work and earn income is going to help us build a better life for our children.

1 week, 5 days ago
TmarkG

Would have done the same well done you've fought the struggle of communication in Marriages. Bless your reunion

1 week, 6 days ago
Reuben

Parents sometimes they choose wrong decision to their future is better to choose own my own rather to blame someone tomorrow .

2 weeks, 1 day ago
Dog

Yh is very impressive person to do what she likes.and being married in young age doesn't mean that u don't have to follow ur dream is that people will say a lot of things ..so it is good to follow your dream and your heart to do something you want is great thing..good luck with ur dreamz

2 weeks, 2 days ago

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Anonymous

I have a problem lady's nee i have two kid's nee and we separeted with the father nd I moved on it's three yrs now I have a man in my life now,he want us to be together again.the problem is that he is a very abusive person.help if u can

2 weeks, 2 days ago
Reuben

Go back if you are ready to be slave .

2 weeks, 1 day ago
Gabi - Moderator

Exactly! Marriage doesn't always have to mean the end of your life or dreams. Thank you Springster!

1 week, 6 days ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hi Mpholili, thank you for coming out to us with your question. We think it's great that you are taking time to think before diving deep into the relationship again,especially if you already know that he is abusive. The most important thing to remember is that no one can tell you what decision to make about leaving your boyfriend. You can take advice from others, but ultimately the decision lies with you. To help you think about whether or not you want to stay with him. Make a list of the good things about your relationship and another list of the bad things. If one list outweighs the other, this is often a good starting point to try and figure out what the best decision will be for yourself. You can also ask yourself questions about whether or not you are happy in this relationship, such as if you find yourself feeling insecure and mistreated. Although it is your decision it can often really help to speak to someone you trust about decisions like these, have you thought about a parent, older sibling, aunty, or a teacher that you can get advice from? Feel free to get back to us to let us know how things work out.You can also check out this article about a Springster who asked a similar question. http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-body/askspringster-my-ex-wants-me-back-now-what/

1 week, 6 days ago
Anonymous

Hlw people i love my self and you too you must do the same thing

2 weeks, 4 days ago

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Anonymous

That's true gal luv yr self before u luv someone big up to that

2 weeks, 2 days ago
mphoza

That's true gal luv yr self before u luv someone big up to that

2 weeks, 2 days ago
Kago

hey Sisipho firstly I don't agree with the fact that ur parents chose a husband for you... well...I wouldn't let my parents choose a husband for me....it. is good that he considered your feelings ND thoughts

2 weeks, 4 days ago
Nkuli

It's good to be a young successful woman,a girl who has dreams,who thinks outside the box. Your children will learn a lot from you like how to balance your love life and your own career#independency

2 weeks, 6 days ago
Lerato

am on the same thing ryt one can't even think about it

1 month, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Never give up on what you want or need just have hope And don't think negative thoughts Don't give a damn about what others think of of you Think better and be positive in life

1 month, 1 week ago
sphelele

i know exactly wat you feeling girl i also had the same problem that he did not want me to do multiple things he wanted me to focus on one thing and that was really hard for me bcoz i also wanted to work for myself to not depend on him

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello sphezzy321 Thank you for sharing your story with us. That is very brave of you. Always remember that you can try using the tips given on the article. You can also try to talk to someone close to you whom you trust. We hope this helps.

1 month, 2 weeks ago