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6 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

Iv sent pics to boys and tried to use them against me ..biggest mistake of my life ...wat should we do ... they blackmail us and still get away with it ...😫😶

7 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

6 months, 3 weeks ago
BhohmanBlack-DaBest
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Leah

Yoh that was a bad situation thank God he never send the photos to anyone

8 months, 3 weeks ago
KB

He is such a bad boy

8 months, 3 weeks ago
Naidoo

Do not send any picture if you not okay with it..

8 months, 3 weeks ago
Nhlanhla
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Kiki

Girls plz talk to an adult if u have such a problem and dump your bf if they are doing this to you girls plz be wise Okay and girls who want a bf you girls need control you should just be happy to be single and ur BG is ur Education Okay!!!!

9 months, 1 week ago
Mbalie

It's sam to me my own bf alwayz ask for nudes pics bt i refused he beg me ngize ngizwe usizi n sent it to him .. one dae we get fight he put my naked pic on his pp

9 months, 1 week ago

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Leah

Yoh that's bad girl 😲

8 months, 3 weeks ago
Bucie

Even I was in this problem..he was my boyfriend.he wanted my nudes pics..I refused that's when he got upset and dumped me BT he was shocked that I wasn't scared of him🎀

9 months, 1 week ago
Relebogile

Me too I need but I don't have

9 months, 2 weeks ago
Flowerpower
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Leah

Yoh honestly it's wrong to share such pics with everyone rather show your body to your partner not anyone people out there take your pics and do staff with them love ......no don't share

8 months, 3 weeks ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

6 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Sometimes talking to someone makes things more complex because some people can judge and make you feel worthless

1 year, 7 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Springster, it is better to talk to someone you trust. A person who will be open with you and listen when you talk.

1 year, 7 months ago
Mabhuti

Hi I look for someone

1 year, 7 months ago

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Giggles

Well I went through the samething 🙊 at first I was a little embarrassed to talk about it 🙈 but somehow after a while all my friends went through it. I then put my pride in my pocket and I told her exactly what happened...🤧 She laughed her socks off and said she saw that one coming as I am a "rough one"😅 although I laughed she saw the importance of the story because I went though a lot... In that 2 years. She and myself tell people my story to show them that it's not something they should be afraid of. It's normal to do or want to do such things but it's also normal to stand your ground and say NO. Don't be embarrassed if you do it. 😊 Just speak to someone you trust. 🤭

10 months ago
Theprince

That's the mistake you should never do i once did something like that

1 year, 7 months ago
Kananelo

I loved someone who doesn't even care about me 😐😐

1 year, 7 months ago

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Anonymous

I also once loved someone who was not even in me and when you doing that you hurting yourself and I have learnt to let it go and move on in life

1 year, 7 months ago
Luthando

I also love someosomeone who never loved but I told my self being stuck on one person no there are many people out there

1 year, 7 months ago
Anonymous

Hi Springster, we know that you must be hurting. We are sorry that you are going through a lot. Sometimes the people we love might not feel the same way. But no one should make you feel as if you are not enough. And it does not mean there is anything wrong with you. Surround yourself with close friends and family, those who love you. Talking to someone you trust about this, like an aunty, older sister, parent,neighbour or teacher can also help. We wish you all the best Springster!

1 year, 6 months ago
Anonymous

Hi Kgavenzo, we believe Labplob is right. We understand that sometimes you can't help who you have feelings for, but it's important to protect your well-being instead of being with someone who isn't interested in yours. There are other people who you will meet in life who will love you and truly care about you. Take some time for yourself and try to avoid him if you know that he/she does not care for you. All the best Springster, we're rooting for you.

1 year, 6 months ago
Anonymous

I loved someone who doesn't even care about me 😐😐

1 year, 7 months ago
Dlamini

Well we as boyz do pressure girls..either our girllovers or girlfriends we do the same..To our girllovers it sounds good coz ull be begging for yourself wat about begging ur girl friend to sleep with another guy..it seems madly alittle

1 year, 7 months ago
tay

hi

1 year, 7 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey

9 months, 3 weeks ago