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Anonymous

Hi spring sters ahm am in a 1yr relationship with my boyfriend and yep things were so perfect, so we had this 1 major conflict and well I met someone else during that time,that person made me happy to the extant I just forgot about my boyfriend, so weeks later my boyfriend suggested that we fix things and I didn't agree,he was so hurt and cried, like I was surprised because this was the first time a male cried for me,I agreed to fix things but then the other guy didn't also want to let go of me that's when the cheating started ,later on my boyfriend discovered and well he didn't leave me he said I was confused,so I broke things off with the other guy because of the guilt I had so this other guy texted me and we talked it went to the extant were we talked about our relationship and I feel like I am with my boyfriend because if feeling sorry for him,at the other side I can't let go of him,am so confused pls advice me to either choose the guy or my boyfriend

8 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

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7 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

"I dated another guy who's name is simpiwe well he also said that he was going to be a great person in my life he promised me heaven and earth he dated my mom,sister and my best friend"... This story was told by my bff who did not have a chance to speak out but I had a profiles on springster so I quoted it for her...✋✋🗣️(let us have a chance to speak out our best friend think that ma u thulile a ngeke o mu qelele I ndaba zakhe (when u a quiet u won't tell her where she must back off or back in)or u won't do nothing about it ... Do u also agree with me if not or u do let me know by commenting your comment means a lot to me

10 months, 1 week ago
Cleopatra

Kinda what is happening with me I went from not dating to 3 exes and 3 boyfriends in one year I didn't have feelings for them but I did for the first one but he broke my heart so I didn't even wanna have feelings I kept on cheating and there's my one boyfriend he loves me so much but I can't stop cheating

10 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

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7 months, 2 weeks ago
Zukiswa

I can relate to the story but mine is a bit extreme because i ended up having two kids at the age of 18 different father i felt sooo dirty and unworthy can you imagine that

11 months ago
BbyZee

Good. Self-love and introspection are the best!

1 year, 8 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi BbyZee We agree with you,loving yourself is important.

1 year, 5 months ago
Anonymous

I swear u. U miss someone

1 year, 8 months ago
LadyP

Ladies lets stop beibg victims and be happy move away from toxic relationships.😔😔😔😔

1 year, 8 months ago
Suziebabe1.

am feeling so lonely i ended up joining here

1 year, 8 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey Suziebabie, we're glad you came here because Springster will always have your back. If you ever want to talk to us, feel free and we'll be here for you.

1 year, 8 months ago
Anonymous

Me 2 my ex-boyfriend was believing his friends over me sometimes I thought he was dating them not me I have many guy friends we even call each other names, like baby,lovey,sweety and that's nothing like him hugging a girl in front of me so who who is wrong but just like my last comment fuck y'all 😝😏

1 year, 8 months ago
Anonymous

I've been dating this guy for more than 3 years now. We live in the same neighborhood but I'm in university so you could say our relationship is long distance most of the time. So last month I discovered that he has been flirting with multiple girls on social media. It's something that had been happening for the entire time that we have been dating. Reading the texts he sent to those other ladies was so hurtful, I remember there were days when I cried so hard. At first I didn't know how to go about with this matter, but I asked him about it and he apologized, told me it was a stupid thing to do and that he'll try by all means to regain my trust. He has been such a great boyfriend this entire time, so loving, he checked up on me every single day, caring, supportive, and he's like a best friend to me. A few days ago I told him that we should end things because I doubt that I'll ever trust him ever again. And I feel like I gave him all of me whilst this whole time he was entertaining some other girls. And besides, who knows what he does with those girls when I'm not around. Anyways, so he asked me to visit him, when I got there feelings took over and we slept together. Now he thinks we are all cool and back together. But I still don't think we should be together. Advice please.

1 year, 9 months ago

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Lebza24

I think you should cut all ties with him so that he can takes you serious .

1 year, 9 months ago
chartongo

Take time to think clearly about that situation.before you could make decisions that you I'll regret behind the clock

1 year, 9 months ago
Naas

Some boy's are good but there friends make's them bad

1 year, 9 months ago

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Anonymous

Yeas you absolutely on point

1 year, 9 months ago
Cleo

I think you should ignore him and live your life if a boy hurts you then it’s just better to ignore him and just live your life ,if you go back and confront him he might just say a whole bunch of lies to get you back, move on there are plenty of boys don’t dwell on him even if he was the only guy that liked you it doesn’t matter MOVE ON gal ✊🏼💪🏼!!!

1 year, 9 months ago

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Anonymous

I commented at the wrong place, sorry guys I’m in a hurry

1 year, 9 months ago
Cleo

I commented at the wrong place, sorry guys I’m in a hurry

1 year, 9 months ago
Nomonde

I am Nomonde I am in grade 9 I always beg for my boyfriend even he is the one messes up so my best friend showed me something that makes my heart broken and I love that guy too much he has taken my heart and as now I am speaking I don't know what to do should I confront him I don't know coz he will fight with me but now I see that my love for him doesn't matter to him but I need some advice please please please

1 year, 9 months ago
YourHighness

Precisely👍 boys will always be available,dat y god created so many .wait for the right moment.in the meantime focus on yourself an studies😆💕

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

I aм a 17 year old gιrl тнιѕ year I'll вe doιng мy Maтrιc вυт I won'т тнιnĸ I woυld copy wιтн ιт coz I'м ιn love wιтн мy вoyғrιend I ғeel нιм and I ĸnow тнaт coυld dιѕтυrв мe I need нelp pleaѕe

1 year, 9 months ago
Licia

I aм a 17 year old gιrl тнιѕ year I'll вe doιng мy Maтrιc вυт I won'т тнιnĸ I woυld copy wιтн ιт coz I'м ιn love wιтн мy вoyғrιend I ғeel нιм and I ĸnow тнaт coυld dιѕтυrв мe I need нelp pleaѕe

1 year, 9 months ago

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Lebza24

Just make sure u make time for your books ; dont allow feelings to control you

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

hey gal I know u luv this guy but maybe this relationship is just going to come and go, you may look good together like a match made in heaven but remember a relationship is not a guaranteed thing ...It will be very wise to focus on ur school work coz that's were ur future lies dear..dont just get carried away dear ur studies mean a lot than that relationship just restructure your priorities and put ur studies first.. good luck

1 year, 9 months ago
BotsheloVanen

Well last year I has a boyfriend whom I loved and enjoyed being around him I dated him when j was in middle school and I went to high school with him ,he is a year older than myself ,I loved him and both our parents knew about our relationship and we used to spend time properly and we were dating for about one year already and a few months after that year I found out I was his side chick .he dated the other girl whom I asked if he knew him but he denied untill one day I saw them together ,firstly I didn't take it seriously as I thought it was his friend because I too have a most friendships with guys ,but then when I hot home he confessed himself telling me the truth ,I was broken and sad ,I lost eppetite for a week ,I asked him to to break up with me but he refused then I asked him to break with his main check he also refused saying he is not intending to break each one of us heart ,so I then give him another chance to prove himself but he failed so I broke up with him for sure but a few weeks later he came to me again asking me to date him awhile he is also dating the other girl ,I was angry and I thought to myself that I'll give him what he want and get my revenge .well then it seems I wasn't only the one angry at him even Hus main chick was angry at him ,so she sent me a friend request on Facebook and we had a girl talk and shared what he always say to each of us ,we were both angry and seek revange We became friends and sisters and supported each other and told each other what to do but I never told that girl I was back again with him,he never knew we friend until the day he decided to meet us on the same day but at different times ,he went to see her first and I asked him to meet up with me and he lied to me ,but then his girlfriend wrote a status saying she is missing him ,after he met up with her ,he came to me too like I asked ,so after we both took our ways I got into WhatsApp and saw that I asked the girl who she missies then she told me its him ,I got angry I asked him if she went to see her he said yes but to break up with her but unfortunately she refused ,I took a screen shot and sent it to his other gf and and I broke up with him ,the very same moment her other gf also broke up with him ,we were also auguring but we came to our senses that we are girls and we'll both move on and support each other like sisters ,and we did the same and had new relationships and shared each and everything ,our bond became very strong until today we are friends we worked harder to become friends and prove him wrong as he thought we'd battle for him

1 year, 9 months ago

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Entle99

Ohh wow. Something special came out of you dating that guy. It's truly a fairytale of a story. I fail to understand why guys can't commit to one lady. But congratulations on your profound friendship sister

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

When days are dark friends are few

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Hy guyz.am hlakzo im 15 years old i have been raped 3 years by now I haven't told.anyone about it coz I was raped.by my father but when timez goes my saw that I wasn't happy so I just liked to her that some unknown man raped she was shocked and tell all my family about it and my father just said to me im prostitute who need some attention and they didn't take me to hospital..so my worried thing is that I have some pain in my vagina I don't understand why?help😪😪

1 year, 10 months ago

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blackangel

Maybe u should talk to a family member that u certain u can trust and then go to the hospital💞and report ur father try to put ur fears aside u never know he might have done it to other innocent girls too and u speaking out might just help and encourage them😊think about it.

1 year, 10 months ago
Tourbeka

Look babe, you need to speak to sm1 u can trust... I cn advice u that not be a person of ur fem coz they cn turn down on u ad be a laughing stoke... It can be ateacher split this thing out cry if it say cry Coz it going to create the forevr anger, u cnt evn hurt to see man... Teta ngeyinto cc zokhululeka emoyen😚

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Hey Dogy, we really appreciate yo coming out to us with your story as we can imagine how hard it must be to do so. No one is ever allowed to touch you in any way and you every right to be feeling upset, angry, sad or confused right now. Please remember that we can always find someone in our community who is willing to help or support us when we are in need. So don't be afraid to speak out to someone like a trusted adult to help you out. This can be anyone from your mom, a relative, a neighbor or a teacher. Of course, it is important to speak out when you are ready and feel safe to do so ad once you do so make sure to be fully honest so that the person who you tell can help you. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Grl I praise u for changing u ways u didn't look down on u self but u focused on changing and overcoming the the dark ways u were doing #power girl

1 year, 10 months ago