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miimmzet

Never have sex when uu are young books before boys because boys gonna bring babies🙆🙆😭😭😭

7 months, 2 weeks ago

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Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

7 months, 1 week ago
Lucy

Hi Girls...So this boy that are with me on school wants to have sex with me. He has tried a whole year to let that happend.like he was texting a whole lot of messagers to me , to ask when can he come and visit me and when are we gonna do it , but I'm scared. I'm still a virgin. And I lied about it and said that i'm not a virgin anymore, just get to him. I am just so scared that when we have sex that he'll leave me high and dry. What must I do now? Please comment down below👇!

9 months, 1 week ago

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Anonymous

Wow so sorry

8 months, 3 weeks ago
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7 months, 1 week ago
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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

7 months, 1 week ago
Nthabi_SA

Take not ladies Always do it when you are ready

9 months, 3 weeks ago
Mbali

Hy Thapelo ur 18 and ur a virgin girl cool have sex when ur ready and no one should put u under pressure✊✊✊

10 months, 1 week ago
DreamChaser619

*-Hey springster thanks for sharing your story ♡it really encourages me a lot

10 months, 1 week ago

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Hey Kulture! I am pleased to know you enjoyed the story! Keep it locked on Springster.

7 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

I really have this urge to have sex but I haven't found the right guy what should I do in the mean time?😖

10 months, 2 weeks ago

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7 months, 1 week ago
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Memow

Dump he's ass🗣️👀

10 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hi guys am 19 but was never ready to have sex but I've been dating this guy for 3years and we always talked about having sex and he understood me but this one time i went to his home we started kissing as i usually stopped him this time when i did he said words to me to trust him and i did and we had sex i was so ashamed even cried but he held me close he never said anything he wanted me to have it sink in we've been talking our relationship hasn't changed but the second time we had it i had massive pains and am worried because the pain won't go away and am embarrased that we didn't use a condom this second time but we both tested any clue what might cause the pain i just dont wanna get pregnant

10 months, 3 weeks ago

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Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

7 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Hi guys... Im 18 and my boyfriend is 23 we've been dating for two months and already the guy wants to have sex with me... I feel like the guy doesn't love me he just want to fuck me and leave...he tells me that he doesn't wanna use protection when we'll have sex... I mean seriously who does that 🤦‍♀️... We hardly know each other and the guy just want things to move quick... Girls please advice me... Should I try to talk to him or just break up with him? ... I don't know what to do

1 year, 8 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Lulukay Thank you for trusting us with this. You should always know that no one has a right to force you into having sex with them. It is important to only have sex when you are ready. Using protection such as a condom doesn't only help with preventing pregnancy but other things such as HIV. Your boyfriend is supposed to wait until you are ready and not force you to do it. Talking to someone you trust about these things might help. We are also here if ever you need advise Springster.

1 year, 7 months ago
Memow

Dump his ass👀

10 months, 2 weeks ago
Shappire

No boy should tell us to have sex when we do not want to have it and should respect that.💋

1 year, 8 months ago
Bellaarmy

Hellow guys I'm new here. The thing is I was raped at the age on 9 but now am 22 I have had sex since nd I love my boyfriend but I am scared it like I am giving him power over me I really need help

1 year, 8 months ago

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Hi Springster, thank you for sharing your story with us. It is very brave of you to do this. We're so sorry that you had to go through something like that. No one deserves to go through something like that. We sincerely hope that you don't blame yourself for anything or feel ashamed in anyway. We also understand why you might feel this way about your partner and that's okay because youare dealing with it in the best way you know how. We'd really advise you to consider speaking to a friend, mentor or professional for support. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. They are here to help you! Contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information

1 year, 7 months ago
Anonymous

Guyz am new here and I really need your help iam 17 years old am dating this guy he is 21 and we started dating in the early November and we hv 2 month's while dating and I had hv sex with him 3 times using protection he always come 2 my school to check me out but the thing is he doesn't trust me in the way that he check my phone always tell me nt to cheat when am offline he doesn't call me now it been 14 days without communication now my problem is that I don't think he still loves me So plz sisters help

1 year, 8 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Eez We are glad that you always use protection every time you have sex. Communication is important in a relationship and we think that is what you should do with your boyfriend. Find time to talk to him and let him know how you feel about the situation. Talking will help you fix things.

1 year, 8 months ago
missvarrie2003

Thanks Thuso for sharing your story because i was also thinking of having my first sex on my birthday in July this year

1 year, 8 months ago

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Anonymous

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1 year, 8 months ago
Loot

That was very brave of you , because I think if it was me on your position i would have lost my cool but your story made me realise that speaking can save a person from stressing and staff .well done thuso

1 year, 8 months ago
vuyi

You weren't younger that much so you should start forgetting about what happened

1 year, 8 months ago
Yanda_M

I was raped at 16 when I had never had sex in my life, he left me pregnant and empty. Since then I haven't been able to trust man at all so I refrain from dating

1 year, 8 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Yanda_M, we're so sorry that you had to go through something like that. No one deserves to go through something like that. We sincerely hope that you don't blame yourself for anything or feel ashamed in anyway. We understand why you aren't able to trust any man right now and that's okay because you should deal with it in the best way you know how. We do think that that it's important that you have some support and talk to someone that you trust about your emotions and what you are going through, because it could be hard to deal with all that alone. Try to see if you can talk a trusted adult like a parent/guardian, an older sibling, relative, or a trusted neighbour. You can also speak to the counselors at Childline SA. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 8 months ago