gail

I hate my life i wana die

3 days, 20 hours ago
Jacqualine

I just decided to be alone without having friends who will ininfluence me into bad things

5 days, 12 hours ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, we're really glad that you've chosen not to have bad influence in your life. We hope that you still make sure that you have someone to talk to when you need to. We here at Springster will also always have your back whenever you need us!

3 days, 19 hours ago
Neyo2

I think as women we need to stand together in unity. We shouldn't let our situation or emotions to suppress us; or pull us back, from what we want to obtain at the end of the day. We need to be there for each other,never judge but instead love ,care and support. We need to encourage one another and build a strong relationship. ×Dating shouldn't be a reason to be happy.. even when you are single..you can still enjoy life with family and friends. #You are as happy as you decide to be.

5 days, 12 hours ago
anathi

Hi guys I have a boyfriend and it has been 4 years together but now I don't know why I am feeling for other boys but my boyfriend love me a lot and I have no more feelings for him anymore.what does that?

6 days, 12 hours ago
Anonymous

Hi guys I don't know what wrong with me because I don't have feeling for boys and my friends think I'm into girls

1 week ago
Tanisha_1

Hi guys I don't know what wrong with me because I don't have feeling for boys and my friends think I'm into girls

1 week ago
LoveJoy

My boyfriend made a girl she was cheating with pregnant.He told me that right after I found out that I'm pregnant too and I'm not ready to be a mother, so now I don't know whether I should tell him or just do an abortion... Please help me, to take the right decision

1 week, 1 day ago

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anathi

Hey girl the right decision is never do abortion,just raise your child by your self

6 days, 12 hours ago
Pretty_bird1

I agree with Anathi. Tell him that you're pregnant and see what his reaction is. The other girl is not your worries,it wouldn't have happened had he been faithful to you.Think about the baby. It is yours...YOURS! Abortion is a cruel thing to do. My love,I know that you are strong enough to handle this. You can do anything!

5 days, 21 hours ago
Lee

I had a boyfriend we broke up 2 years ago,i have dated many boys after him but i have not enjoyed having sex with any of them like i did with him and this thing it's really causing many problems with my relationships because when it comes to sex i lose my attention with most of them and my relationships don't last because of this.

1 week, 2 days ago

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Nqobile

Hi Lee I hear u I'm no expect but I do think that maybe if you were to give yourself tym to focus on urself b4 u jump into another relationship it might help couse in that way you l be also giving yourself tym to get over your x then once that is done u can move to da next agenda of starting a new relationship nd plz don't compare u new partner to ur old partner couse I also think that's wer it also goes wrong.... Goodluck!

17 hours, 55 minutes ago
Anonymous

All my friends started dating and I have not dating.What's wrong

1 week, 2 days ago

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Tshepang

Well if you ain't ready for dating its cool girl just wait for the right time!

1 week ago
Saaletse

There is nothing wrong with you sweetie. I was a late bloomer myself and I always thought there was something wrong with me. Wait till you are ready and let everything happen in it's own time, eventually it will happen just wait till you are ready and remember there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. In the meantime enjoy not dating 😉!!!

6 days, 13 hours ago
ladyk

All my friends started dating and I have not dating.What's wrong

1 week, 2 days ago

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Anonymous

Don't pressure your self to date just enjoy the single life ... My bestfriend was dating and i was and i waited and waited now am in a relationship going into our fourth year

1 week, 1 day ago
R.C.D

Hi.i was recently diagnosed with HIV.i learned to accept my condition but my ex keeps humiliating and degardes me because of my status.how do I stop him from harassing me.he threatened to tell my mom and daughter.what do I do?

1 week, 2 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi RUSHANA, thank you so much for reaching out to us with your story. No matter what we are going through in life, it's important to keep people around that support us and motivate us during tough times. We're so proud of how you were able to accept your status, and we think that it's really important to take care of your mental health as much as your physical health. One of the ways to do this is to surround yourself with people who are able to offer you love, support and respect. Give yourself some time away from your ex and see if you can talk to a trusted adult like a parent/guardian, relative or a teacher about your status. It might be scary at first, but it will mean that you have a shoulder to lean on at times, and that you have someone to go to the clinic with whenever you need to. Most importantly it will remind you that you are not alone. Childline SA counselors are really great people to call when you are in need of help. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night.They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter.

1 week, 2 days ago
Larmash

# Why can't we all in life be the same and live without regrets????I feel so down Can please someone get me up by TRUE HOPES...

1 week, 2 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Larmash, we're not really sure what's getting you down, but know that we at Springster always have your back. If something is happening to you or if you're feeling a bit low, try to reach out to a trusted adult in your community. This could be a parent/guardian, a relative like an aunt or a teacher. You can also always call the counselors at Childline SA. Childline SA counselors are really great people to call when you are in need of help. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter

1 week, 2 days ago
Eeko_001

I've been struggling with self-defense and self-confidence because I'm tomboyish I usually dress up like guys Sometimes I do boyishly things And because of this my relationship with guys fail I need help is it because I'm not girly enough Or should I just wait until I'm grown up to be in the dating site?

1 week, 3 days ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Eeko_1818, thanks so much for reaching out to us with your story. Being born biologically female does not mean that you have to act feminine. You can be a girl, and be comfortable being masculine. It's all about what makes you feel good or how you feel comfortable. There's no need to change yourself if you don't feel comfortable in that way. You can also start dating when you are ready to. Understand that things might not work out with some people and for others it might work out. Try to be patient with yourself Springster and remember that we appreciate you for who you are!

1 week, 2 days ago
Anonymous

#AskSpringster Oky so I'm 16yrs old and I don't have a boyfriend..I've never dated before because I get scared of the dos and don'ts of relationships also showing affection. Is this normal or??!

1 week, 3 days ago

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Thulie

Hi I think it's normal because I'm also like that. I'm not a dating girl so I prefer to be single Chao😍

1 week, 3 days ago
Larmash

Yes it is very normal to be scared. Some people do things to just make their pears happy. But life is about making your self happy, my advice to you is try and be your self and see how it goes ..….....All the best

1 week, 2 days ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hi Bonoli, yes this is totally normal. Dating is something you should do when you are ready to start being in a relationship so you don't have to worry or rush yourself too much. Take your time and enjoy the relationships you have right now with your friends and your family.

1 week, 2 days ago