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Kasigal

I have female condoms but I doesn't knew how to use it

8 months ago

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Aqne_queen
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Anonymous

Does it hurt to insert that sponge inside your vagina??

7 months, 3 weeks ago
Gabi - Moderator

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7 months, 2 weeks ago
Poppy

Thank you for your great advice ...But Still i don't understand What happens if the condom slips off during sex?

8 months ago

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Aqne_queen

Greetings Poppy, A condom isn't supposed to slip off during sex. Condoms come in different sizes as penises also vary in size. It is very important that you choose a size suitable and relevant to that of your penis. When a condom slips off during sex there are many risks such as pregnancy and STIs & STDs.

7 months, 3 weeks ago
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7 months, 1 week ago
Paton

Hi there ...I think that using a condom is for males ...girl condoms look painful

8 months ago

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Aqne_queen

Greetings Paton, Oh don't be silly!😂 Female condoms are not painful. They are just bigger than male condoms.

7 months, 3 weeks ago
Gabi - Moderator

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7 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

So let say you're in a marriage relationship and your partner doesn't want you to use protection when you about to have sex.what should you do?

10 months, 1 week ago

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Aqne_queen

Have a talk with your partner about getting tested regularly (every 3 months) and if you aren't planning to have kids yet then prevent through a method suitable for you. However if you prefer safe sex over raw sex then make your partner understand your wants and needs. He should understand.

7 months, 3 weeks ago
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7 months, 1 week ago
Olive

Hello I have somewhat heard about female condoms but I don't know how are they used Anyone care to explain?

10 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

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7 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Um... Hello when I was having sex for the first time with my boyfriend... Before we started he licked my Virgina roughly and it didn't make me comfortable and this always happens every time we make love he is always rough with me ...im scared to tell him to be gentle with me

10 months, 3 weeks ago

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Kelloggs

What does this have to do with using protection nana...?

10 months, 2 weeks ago
Psycho

Just tell him to be gentle

9 months, 2 weeks ago
Gabi - Moderator

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7 months, 1 week ago
Cassie

Um... Hello when I was having sex for the first time with my boyfriend... Before we started he licked my Virgina roughly and it didn't make me comfortable and this always happens every time we make love he is always rough with me ...im scared to tell him to be gentle with me

10 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous
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KBL

Yes, they might judge but thats their problem not yours all you have to worry about is are you healthy and safe. So go if they judge then let them judge just go on and don't worry about it its not their health at risk it's yours so go as soon as you can. I wish you luck if you decide to go 🍀🤞🏻🤗

10 months, 3 weeks ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

7 months, 1 week ago
Ilovepineapples

Thanks so much. This was so helpful.

11 months, 4 weeks ago
Legacy

Ayi she alway says fish at the end

1 year, 6 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Ruin We are not sure what you mean by fish so please explain and we can be able to help you.

1 year, 6 months ago
Anonymous

Hi Springster can you please explain to us what you mean by that?

1 year, 5 months ago
Melo

You go girl 👏👏

1 year, 9 months ago
Buhlebakhe

Hi,the article says "make sure the condom is the right fit so it doesn't slip off". My question is,does condoms have sizes?

1 year, 9 months ago

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Melo

Yep

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Hey Springster Thank you very much for reaching out. For the most part, condoms come in a standard size. However, over the years there has been a need for condoms to be available in different sizes and those are sold through different companies. Should you have more questions about condoms, you can speak to a nurse at your local clinic or hospital. Also, remember that condoms are available for free at all public hospitals and clinics.

1 year, 4 months ago
Anonymous

I had sex when I was 19 so my boyfriend said we must use a condom so we can prevent pregnancy such a gentleman 💖💖💖💖💖💖❤️❤️❤️💋💋🌹🌹💓💕💖

1 year, 9 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey Springster Thank you for reaching out. Yes, indeed to is always a good decision to have sex with a condom, every time you engage in sex.

1 year, 4 months ago
Anonymous

Hey

1 year, 9 months ago
Lunati

Hey

1 year, 9 months ago
3ve2525

Hi im a 20 year old concerned girl..my boyfriend and i recently had protected sex .the condom had no holes in it and he didnt ejaculate..but now im worried..i feel nausea most often ,dizziness,paranoia and fatigue wat is the cause plz help

1 year, 9 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey Springster, we are so glad you are being safe by using protection when having sex. Continue to do so as it will help you when it comes to avoiding STI's and pregnancy. When it comes to preventing pregnancy, condoms will be 98% effective if you use them correctly. If you used one properly then the chances that you are pregnant are very low. However if you still feel a bit uncertain and worried we would advise you to visit your nearest doctor or clinic for a pregnancy test. Otherwise, you can also go to your nearest supermarket and buy a home pregnancy test. We hope this helps you Springster.

1 year, 9 months ago
Sinelethu

Having sex is bad before,you have sex get married

1 year, 10 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey Sinelethu Thank you for reaching out. Sex is no bad. Having sex before marriage is also not bad. Every person has a choice about when they think they are ready to have sex.

1 year, 4 months ago
lucykiddo
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Anonymous

I found my bby gal mastrubating What can I do to help her

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

You probably not satisfying her enough ...ask her what she likes

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Hey Springster Thank you very much for reaching out. Talking about sex is not easy but it is something that has to be done. Masturbation is part of the process of learning and exploring sex. Instead of judging and shaming the person you caught, try to talk to them and explain what sex is, in a very frank way. Should you need more assistance, maybe talk to people at LoveLife on www.lovelife.org.za They can help you talk about sex to your loved one. Also, an alternative would be to speak to take your loved one to a clinic or hospital to speak to a nurse or doctor.

1 year, 4 months ago
Psycho

I also masterbait because my bf doesnt satisfy me

9 months, 2 weeks ago
nana

I found my bby gal mastrubating What can I do to help her

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Ask her why was she masturbating and then buy her sex toys

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Hey guys am still a virginand I want have sex but am scared To disappoint my parents😢😢

1 year, 11 months ago

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Kiss-me

baby letz chat private

1 year, 11 months ago