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janina

Hi guys I need help I was raped in 2018 and I am 15 I was raped by my ex boyfriend I can't move forward with my life I want a relationship with a guy but every time I am in a relationship the guy cheats or juse me what can I do please I need advice I am gonna kill myself if I don't get help please help me I need advice I want to forget about the rape and abuse I want to move forward but I can't my teacher doesn't want to help me the police doesn't want to help my parents know and verything but they won't help please help me gays I need to talk to someone

9 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

7 months, 2 weeks ago
Arcy

hey im pregnant and idk how it happened im so faustratfr

1 year, 8 months ago
Anonymous

Hello there I'm a guy and I'm abit shy to ask people this since I can't ask anyone this is it possible for a guy to masturbate and ejaculate 10 times in a day? Wanted to try it but i dont kniq if its possible

1 year, 9 months ago
asia

Hello guys I have a question please don't laugh.. I'm curious is it possiBle for a erect penis to enter a girls pee hole?

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

What to do if ur 13 year old frnd is dating a 15year old he wants sex and her fother is a pastor they tested her sister u care for her help pls coz she thinks I'm jealous

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

I doesn't matter if her father is a pastor or not... She can make her own desion its her life. She must remember to use protection if she doesn't want to fall pregnant... Her father can't be by her side for the rest of her life. If she doesn't want to sleep with her boyfriend and feel she is not ready het tell her that there is alot time to have seks. If the boy loves her he will understand... Please use protection

1 year, 11 months ago
Shandu

She must wait until the right time for her to come but if she thinks the time is right she can ..even if her father is a pastor or not because it's her body so its her decisions what wants👌👌👌👌

1 year, 9 months ago
Khumo13

What to do if ur 13 year old frnd is dating a 15year old he wants sex and her fother is a pastor they tested her sister u care for her help pls coz she thinks I'm jealous

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

Hey springster I'm new here what happens is that me and my boyfriend we want a baby and I've been using 3 months contraception and then I took the biko pills to clean my womb bt still I don't get pregnant what could be wrong with me?

1 year, 11 months ago

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Incognito

It would be best to see a doctor. At times it might be that you or your boyfriend is infertile, but do not self-diagnose, go to the doctor and find out what's really happening.

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

It would be best to see a doctor. At times it might be that you or your boyfriend is infertile, but do not self-diagnose, go to the doctor and find out what's really happening.

1 year, 11 months ago
Lola

Hey springster I'm new here what happens is that me and my boyfriend we want a baby and I've been using 3 months contraception and then I took the biko pills to clean my womb bt still I don't get pregnant what could be wrong with me?

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

Heh springster I'm new here what happenea if u had sex (no deep penetrations ) in your childhood at the age of 12 just for day ......but have not started your menstrual cycle can that hv an effect in future ever since there i I've nvr done anything with anyone and was a child then didint know anything.

2 years ago
Mpielow

Heh springster I'm new here what happenea if u had sex (no deep penetrations ) in your childhood at the age of 12 just for day ......but have not started your menstrual cycle can that hv an effect in future ever since there i I've nvr done anything with anyone and was a child then didint know anything.

2 years ago

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Baebee_15

Hey Mpilo - no there's no effect that what you did can have in future , unless the person you did what you did with had/has an infection and you had an opening at that time - then you may want to get tested just to make sure you are not infected

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

I'm a virgin but I'm always horny what do I do to avoid this ?

2 years ago

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Anonymous

Hey Springster, there is nothing wrong with being sexually aroused. If you choose to masturbate make sure it's in a private space where you won't disturb anyone. Only have sex when you are ready to.

2 years ago
Anonymous

Just use ur finger

2 years ago
Dimples

-Is it true that if you haven't had sex untill the age of 15 something goes wrong or some disturbance will happen in you brain??

2 years ago

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Zintle

No love Don't rush yourself into having something you not ready for emotionally and physically I'm 19 and I still haven't had sex Nothing is wrong with me

2 years ago
BlackRosé

When I Sqeeze my breasts there is a jelly like fluid that comes out does that mean im Pregnant?

2 years, 1 month ago

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Wendy

I think you are...quickly rush to the clinic and find out what happening

2 years ago
vela

am also experiencing DAT

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Can I become Pregnent even if its just a foreplay?

2 years, 1 month ago
Sheril

Yes you can

2 years, 1 month ago
Anonymous

Hi guys I'm 20 years of age and I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and he wants to have sex with me I'm scared coz I'm still a virgin can u pls advice me what should I doo?

2 years, 1 month ago

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Anonymous

Hi Springster, you should only have sex when you want to, and when you are ready. You should never have sex just to keep your partner happy or because you feel pressured for other reasons. Also, people have different needs and wants in a relationship, so if your views about having sex clash with your partner then you have to have a conversation with him/her. If you can’t come to any agreements and you feel like you have to do things when you don’t feel ready then this might not be the right time for you and your partner to be together. If you have the option, you can speak to a trusted parent, older sibling, aunty, teacher or a professional who can offer you support or you can call Love Life on 0800 121 900 or send them a please call me on this number 0 8 3 3 2 3 1 0 2 3 to call you back.

2 years, 1 month ago
jaymie

Just talk to him tell him how you feel and want you want if he loves you he will understand

2 years ago
Purple_Dust

Is it true that when you have sex and a guy ejaculates you(the girl) can feel the sperm get inside you and if so what does it feel like??

2 years, 1 month ago

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Trusty0036

No....if that was true we would be able to tell the guy to pull out so as to avoid unwanted pregnancy

2 years, 1 month ago
Baebee_15

I agree with @Trusty0036 - only a guy can feel/know that he has ejaculated inside your pussy ;)

1 year, 11 months ago
Betso

hello everyone am comfuse last month i hv sex with my bf on 15 i use to see my period on 20 till 24 i didnt see it when i go to clinic to check it says am negative also ths month i didnt see my period 20 an 24 all rdy passd its 25 tdy pls hlp guys i thought it maybe infection bt its nt it cn hpn fallen preag bt whn i tst it sy negative

2 years, 2 months ago
Tudu

Hy Guys,I'm Tuduetso & I'm 20yrs old.I hav been using deppo 4 two months sinc dis month of August I ddn't use it so is there any possibility of becoming pregnant bcz I had unprotected sex wth my bf,plz help

2 years, 2 months ago