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Anonymous

Hi guys I'm new here and I wanna knw wat to do to get a guy to notice you and how do u make guys to fall in love wiff u. Wat r de things dhat girls do in which guys love and will be willing to date u?? Plz help!!👏

11 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

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7 months, 2 weeks ago
Phester

Every time we dnt get intimate with my husband I feel like he's getting it somewhere. Should I confronted him o should I jst let it be,u know maybe in a month we only do it 3times..is it normal or is it the end of ma my marriage please help

1 year, 9 months ago
Lee

Hi m new here n m 20yrs Ever since I got raped five times I'm sexually active I just want penis in vagina every second of my life I can't live without 🍆it

1 year, 10 months ago

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Anonymous

Oops what made you become addictive for sex 🍆🍑.!

1 year, 8 months ago
Lee

Ever since I got raped five times I'm sexually active I just want penis in vagina every second

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

I once had this boyfriend he wanted to to have sex with me I said No "Im not re

1 year, 10 months ago
Nonhle

I once had this boyfriend he wanted to to have sex with me I said No "Im not re

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

I once had this boyfriend he

1 year, 10 months ago
Nonhle

I once had this boyfriend he

1 year, 10 months ago
Nonhle

I once had this boyfriend he wan

1 year, 10 months ago
Dineo

Good love up life

1 year, 11 months ago
@sima_mbayi.

what if I love him and he wants me yo sleep with him to prove it?? I am so confused

1 year, 12 months ago

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baebee

Hey bvbe - don't make that mistake of compromising yourself for someone else's happiness , especially a dating partner - I've recently been in that position too and trust me it wasn't good at all - I realized when he was on top of me that I was making a mistake and thank goodness I managed to stop him before he could insert his penis - I guess what I am trying to say to you is 'girl you have the power to break/stop/terminate something that you know ain't gonna let you be yourself ' ~ love yah💯💕

1 year, 12 months ago
@sima_mbayi.

Thanx so much I now finally have the courage to stand up for my self and as much as I love him I'll dump him for the sake of my happiness and for him to stop controlling me coz last week I didn't meet my parents from the airport coz he wanted me to house sit with him😣😣. thank u baebeee😍😍👑

1 year, 12 months ago
Nicole

We watch our favrite movies together and i spend lots of time together ens.and all i told him is tht he must know tht i luv him i do many things just to show my bae tht i luv him without having sex

2 years ago

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@sima_mbayi.

wow. what a relationship ...congratulations ur man is one of a kind😍😍👍💓✊.. Keep it up😳😳 I am happy for u Nicole😇

1 year, 12 months ago
ISSAH2ÑDILÉ

Guyz I think sex is a step to commitment for both of you as partners that you are willing to share your love which is why boys use sex in a relationship to prove their love for each other but that's not true because if you refuse to sleep with him, he will assume that you don't love him. Just that boys don't understand: #mybodymychoice

2 years ago
Anonymous

It's ur choice

2 years ago
@LuchieZA

Hello girls I'm new here I'm 20 years of age and still a proudly virgin. My boyfriend and I recently dated and we'll ofcoz just like every other boys he's sexual active. Well when I told him about my virginity he said he respects it and he had no problem and yes we do play games and share jokes in most of time and we once slept together without actually doing nothing am proud of him though it hard for him but he can control his feelings.😊

2 years ago

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Anonymous

Hey @LuchieZA, this is great! We're so glad you are able to communicate your boyfriend about these things and that he respects your decision. This is how relationships are supposed to work!

2 years ago
Nicole

Hi im new here my name is nicole i just wanna tell u tht shows tht he luv u and respects your decision this is how relationships always keep long

2 years ago
@sima_mbayi.

Its very respectful of him to understand and I am new bt I wish to get to know u guys better😁😁😁

1 year, 12 months ago
Anonymous

hi guys am new here my boyfriend cheat on me what can i do

2 years ago

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Frank

Just move on...or do what he did.

2 years ago
Anonymous

JST LIVE HIM HIS NT WORTH.IT ;-)

2 years ago
leesa

hey guys I'm new I'm pregnant and my boyfriend had been loving sex since I've been pregnant ...and I don't disagree to have sex with but I don't know coz he's maybe having sex with some other girls outside but I Still have sex with him coz I love him I don't what to do should I stop or continue ?

2 years, 1 month ago

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Nthabee

I think u should stop Cuz having sex while you are pregnant is not good for the bby

2 years, 1 month ago
shweta

i think u should get rid Of him because having sex while you are pregnant is dangerous

2 years ago
@sima_mbayi.

Leave him or say no coz rough sex ( seeing as u both love sex) it may kill or cause a disability for it child

1 year, 12 months ago
Anonymous

Hi Springster, thanks for reaching out to us. We here at Springster really believe that communication and honesty is important in any relationship. If you are not sure if he is having sex with other girls, it's really important that you express your feelings to him and speak to him about this. You should only have sex when you want to and are able give your consent. No one should ever pressure you into having sex and your partner should respect your decision. To help you think about whether or not you want to have sex with him. Make a list of reasons of why you want to have sex with him and another list of reasons of why you shouldn't have sex with him. If one list outweighs the other, you can try and figure out from there what the best decision will be for yourself. It can often really help to speak to someone you trust about decisions like these, have you thought about speaking to an aunt, old sibling, school counselor? You can also speak to the counselors at Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

how do you lose your virginity? is it just by having sex or can it break in a other way ?

2 years, 1 month ago

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Anonymous

Well some people say that finger fucking can also break your virginity even though I think its just a myth

2 years ago
Ericabae95_

It's by sex only baeb coz the semen actually does the job dear at least I heard. I'm not 100% sure myself cause I'm a virgin as well

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

It's by sex only baeb coz the semen actually does the job dear at least I heard. I'm not 100% sure myself cause I'm a virgin as well

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

Hi guys,I'm new here and i have a little problem i'm in my first relationship but I don't really spend time with my bea,is it OK plz help me.

2 years, 2 months ago

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Only

Hie gal thnks for asking askn bt ihave to tell you tht relationships gets hot at first day you txin,calling and other stuff, bat lookin into your problm its not luv my he jst want o use you/not serious, so iwl advice you to do areasearch maybe he already hav someone,g lucky

2 years, 1 month ago