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Ndurh

I'd like to make new friends ....

2 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Nonduduzo, Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I am pleased to know that you would like to get to know the Springster community more. To be part of the community, you can read he articles on the website as well as share and comment on stories with other girls on the website and on Facebook.

2 months, 2 weeks ago
Mamlebu

I also feel lonely BC's me ND mi friend we are no longer close she's back with mi enemies ND it makes me HV many thoughts but I don't like the way she's doing bad things but I always tell mi self that I HV no bf nd mi daughter nd mi simblings nd mi mother they are now mi friends I don't want nothing to do with friends😢😢😢

3 months ago
Anonymous

Good afternoon good people...i also get very lonely some days ...but i try getting productive so that feeling can go away ... loneliness somestimes brings back memories of the past ..memories that can be very sad ,or memories that can make uu angry towards people uu love ...and that is why i avoid that from happening...talking to someone uu close to..someone uu know they can literally put a smile on your face ..can totally ..erase the feeling of loneliness or the feeling of not having confidence to do anything..just never allow it to bring uu down never.... thank you

3 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Mpho! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

2 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

I feel so alone as well. And have so much going on .I feel like there's no one I can speak to .My family is so busy doing their own thing . And they expect me to just be fine and put a smile on my face like I'm so happy yet I'm not .Sometimes I actually just wanna take my life and disappear from here

3 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

2 months, 2 weeks ago
Skyler

I feel so alone as well. And have so much going on .I feel like there's no one I can speak to .My family is so busy doing their own thing . And they expect me to just be fine and put a smile on my face like I'm so happy yet I'm not .Sometimes I actually just wanna take my life and disappear from here

3 months, 2 weeks ago
Samj

Me2 am very lonely most of my life.evn nw ths days I cry almost every 2nd night.no1 2talk2 bout he I feel

4 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

2 months, 2 weeks ago
Leslie

I have a group of friends. One likes to make herself a boss to us

4 months, 2 weeks ago
Princess

Hi springsters I just wanted to know if I can also post my story and if I can please tell me how

5 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Springster! You are more than welcome to share your story in the comments section.

2 months, 1 week ago
boks2

I have to groups of friends but one group bullies me so i move to the next group n some think i am back stabbing them n it makes me feel like i am a bad friend to bother groups n It makes me feel like I am chooser and alone n my dad does not get me 😢

5 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

2 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Hey nothing is impossible by God my dear. God is testing everyone of us & he will provide & guide you through your storms that you are faceing. It is only for you to get down on your knees & pray to him who gave you life & still keeping you under his wings to plead out to him that you can make it without him ask him what you want him to do for you without any confuseing. At the end you will see that with God on your side you can face any storm,trails or tribulations dear😇🙏

5 months, 1 week ago
Kaitlin

Hey having faith is the most powerfull thing than sitting around & crying hurting yourself over & over again. I have learn through these past 2years that nothing is more important than loving yourself bcus who's goin to love you if you don't. All you have to do is get down on knees & pray as much as you can & don't let thee enemy steal your joy from you. God always testing us to see if we are able to make it,make yourself availeble for God than you will see at thee end that with God you can face all the storms,trails & tribulations😇🙏

5 months, 1 week ago
Ree

I relocated to a new place last year Jan and I still feel lonely even now. When I'm indoors it's fine I can cope but when I see a group people looking like they're having a good time, it hit me hard.

5 months, 1 week ago
Kake

Hey , I've learnt that feeling alone often comes with depression and that they work hand in hand I don't know if you guys often talk about depression but I think it's something that really needs a to be addressed as the main point of feeling alone because many are now suffering from depression and it's a serious thing but the problem is we tend to ignore it because we don't notice the signs or our behaviours or we just give up

5 months, 2 weeks ago

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Lilly

U are right Keke I feel like that most of the time but at same time since most people talk about their issues and as we learn each and every day I also discovered the way to avoid this depression or overthinking buy keeping myself busy or talk with someone or reading books that helps me a lot

5 months, 2 weeks ago
janina

I feel so alone . I want to be better but something is dragging me down to be sad . And I agree support groups helps and people actually care for us so don't feel alone because we have each other .°°°

5 months, 2 weeks ago
Angie

I always feel alone I go to my room and cry

5 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Anelia! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

2 months, 1 week ago
Ogesame
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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Ogesame! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

2 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Loneliness can make you think of evil thing am always thinking of suicide but at some moment where by i think that suicide it's not the option not the solution for my loneliness

5 months, 3 weeks ago

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Kake

suicide and loneliness work with depression

5 months, 2 weeks ago
Tk

My loneliness do not mean it's the end of the world

5 months, 4 weeks ago
innoguvy

I feel lonely but a need someone with me always

1 year, 3 months ago

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Anonymous

I am here for you

1 year, 3 months ago
Anonymous

Loneliness can be boring

10 months, 3 weeks ago
RAMBO

BEEN LONELY FOR 18 YEARS SINCE MY WIVE PAST ON

1 year, 3 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi SPIDER2 We are sorry that you are going through a tough time. At times like this being close to the people you trust and love is important. Talking to someone about this would also be the first step to healing.We hope this helps.

1 year ago