Nomfundothando

This days i feel sad because my ex goes around spreading rumours that i am a bitch ad i was forcing my self on him .I dont know y because when he is with me he acts as if there is nothing wrong but when he is away he says bad things about me Plz help i need ur advice

1 day, 10 hours ago
Lerato

Hy I have failed maths term 1and 2 I don't know what to do in order for me to pass maths I can pass all the subjects but I can't pass maths is there anything wrong with me? Please any advice

2 months, 2 weeks ago

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Tshimolo

If that is wat makes u happy gal go for it I support u 100%///

1 month, 2 weeks ago
Noyho

I am dating girls

2 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello Nokhele There is nothing wrong with dating girls. If you feel as if you are having a hard time with the people around you accepting it. We advise you to talk to someone you can trust, it can be a teacher or anyone you are close to. We hope this helps Springster.

2 months, 3 weeks ago
Ndiwelove7

hey am Thandiwe I had a boyfriend when we break up he told lies about me and his gal friend hate me and I don't know why

3 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hello Ndiwe33 We are sorry that happened to you. It happens that when someone breaks up with you they speak badly about you. We think that is better to just let it go and move away from them. We hope this helps Springster and if need to ask anything else people feel free to do so.

3 months, 2 weeks ago
Jessica

Hy please help me it been 2 months now since i started having sores on my feet they are ichy and they starting to develop on my private part

3 months, 4 weeks ago
Nana

Springster help me I have a crush on my classmate Qiniso mbuyazi he is handsome I can see he also has a crush on me but he can't tell me he like giving me hints like he hits on me and loves to sit with me wen I m alone and wen I talk to him he smiles wat can I do ??? To get my love

4 months ago
Anonymous

💔 hey guys...my attitude changes quickly and i cant control myself...my temper gets hot do i have a Disorder??

5 months, 1 week ago
Monkiegh

Hey m very sensitive in a way that at home when I do something wrong they just look at me n look away....I sometimes lose control when am alone n just bust in tears without a reason.... Is there something wrong with me or its normal

5 months, 3 weeks ago
Hannah

My best friend will be dead tomorrow for two years... She killed herself . I don't know how to deal with this sadness Anyone know how to help?

5 months, 4 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hey its Tue ... My best friend told the boy that I had a crush him. He said no like I have a disease. I cried and cried. The day after he kept on staring at me I don't know what's wrong with him does he like me or like me no plz help

6 months ago

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Hannah

Heyo x You need to be straight up , and don't let some boy make you cry , your tears have better things to cry about ❤ and just ask him "why have you been staring at me , so what I like you" You meed

5 months, 4 weeks ago
Hannah

Sorry about the last sentence x

5 months, 4 weeks ago
Flozy

helo springster i jus hed sex on d 10th of May n m thnkn m pregnant wat r d ely signs n symptoms n my fluid z mucus lyc wt a slight of blood wat could dat be

6 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Is it wrong to be having sex wif someone who has a girlfriend meanwhile u're lying to your boyfriend telling him that u're a virgin,knowing u had sex wif the other guy 5 or 6 times??

7 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, sexual relationships always work best when the individuals who are involved are honest and communicative about their sexual activity outside of the relationship. Sexual relationships that involve people who are being secretive can cause a lot of complications, especially when it comes to issues regarding STIs. We hope you make the right decision for yourself and the people involved.

7 months, 1 week ago
Tiara

Yes I agree but you know sometimes you'll never know whether that man or boy has a partner until he reveal it to later... but you as you're responsible for your actions cz on the other side you are commited to someone and yet not married but that thing you both share with him is the same thing that makes you go with other man not sleeping aroung but flirting with them. I for one make mistakes but it happened for a reseon cz you go for something just because you're setisfy with what you have.. I ' m saying lying to partner is a good thing but there's a reseob behind it

7 months ago
Saucy_Kay01

I feel sad for all stupid little things.... Like maybe when my boyfriend looks or talks to other gals even his gal cousin because he is a sweet person he always says sweet things to them then i feel like ge no longer loves me... Who is wrong??

7 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

me too I change in summer I just feel like I am going to die

9 months, 1 week ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Springster, you should consider speaking to a trusted adult about your feelings. You can also call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you need extra support or just need someone to listen to you. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll-Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za.

9 months, 1 week ago
Anastasia

I Change feelings too when its cold specially when its raining, feel sad n neglected for no reason. is it normal? ...

11 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Anastassia. Thanks for sharing your comment. Everybody feels low sometimes, here's and article I think might help. http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-life/everyone-feels-low-sometimes/

10 months, 2 weeks ago
Rieqah

So true

10 months, 1 week ago
Queen_wendy

i usually feel like that everyday.. i feel like nobody around me loves me

11 months, 2 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hi Wendy, we are sorry to hear that. This is why we have to be our biggest cheerleaders, to give ourselves the love that we do not get elsewhere. If you ever feel the need to talk to someone, call childline they have counsellors who will help you deal with everything you are going through on 0800 55 555 or you can speak to them online here: http://chat.childlinesa.org.za/status.php

11 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

U n me both. I feel de same nd by doing so I push the people i luv away. I wish there was something i could do.

11 months, 1 week ago
namhla

I also feel that way ...Please help guys

2 months, 2 weeks ago
Nikki

Everybody gets sad sometimes for reasons they cant explain it makes sence to them but not to others soo they rather keep it for them selfs

1 year, 4 months ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster, that's true. Everyone experiences sadness from time to time. Sometimes speaking to someone helps and you can get advice from people who have experienced similar situations. Talking to someone usually makes me feel better.

1 year, 4 months ago
iva

Sometimes it's best to talk to someone you trust cause if you let it eat you the more you will feel sad

1 year ago
namhla

Its true

2 months, 2 weeks ago
mellow
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mellow

well wat I think is DAT Mbalie i st need love n comfort n everything will be okay

1 year, 4 months ago
Wondergirl

She's just being a weirdo

1 year, 4 months ago