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Anonymous

i also know that feeling 😩 sometimes i overthink things & that stress me a lot but my old sister said i must read books to realise my feelings & that helps a lot cause reading get more & more interesting ❤️❤️❤️

1 week, 4 days ago
Anonymous

i also

1 week, 4 days ago
Zahara

dnt stressed your self that loneliness and sad will be going soon jst pray to God he answers your prayers and sad and lonely will be going

1 year ago
Lelow

U shouldn't feel like that coz there are ppl who u can talk to....

1 year, 1 month ago
Daisy

That's how I feel now

1 year, 1 month ago

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Anonymous

Hi Ozayo There are times when we are happy and sometimes sad. Try talking to someone you trust and let them know how you feel.

9 months ago
Ziminathi

That's how I feel most of the time bt I try bt steel it's same

1 year, 1 month ago
Sne23_M4

Thats how i feel most of the time but i try to be positive about my life

1 year, 2 months ago
Malebogo

There is a word called OK but I want to know what it stand for!😍😏❤

1 year, 4 months ago
Sehloho_98

Most of the times I feel down and out end up crying

1 year, 4 months ago
Vusta

I know

1 year, 4 months ago
Ponalo

Hey Springster...i'm new here. I also feel down sometimes and by that moment i don't feel like being around anyone, i just want to be alone and doing Absolutely nothing. I just sit there and be like i'm shocked or suprised. The moment someone get in, i lose it all. I become so angry, so Furious. And i start being rude to that particular person, i don't know why this is happening to me.

1 year, 5 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Ponalo, thank you for reaching out to us and telling us your story. It's so important to talk about your feelings and express them because they are very much valid. You should try discuss these emotions with a trusted adult either from school, home, or an older relative. Otherwise you can also call Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 5 months ago
Anonymous

Hi Ponalo, thank you for reaching out to us and telling us your story. It's so important to talk about your feelings and express them because they are very much valid. You should try discuss these emotions with a trusted adult either from school, home, or an older relative. Unfortunately we can't speak to you directly, but you can also call Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 4 months ago
Ponalo

Thank you Gabi for the advice i really appreciate that...i'll definitely use it

1 year, 4 months ago
princess

Hey I'm new to the springster I have a lot of confidence and pride I tell myself I'm beautiful and rare buh my problem is that i sometimes feel useless unloved and ugly. All my friends are dating and im not and I don't see a problem with that buh sometimes I feel like I won't find someone who will love me for who i am. in result I get angry to myself and I easily get irritated to the point where I feel like I could beat up someone. I'm full of hatred and I don't see it's root I hate being around a lot of ppl bcz I feel like they are talking or watching me

1 year, 5 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Springster, the important thing to know about self-confidence is that it comes from yourself and that it doesn't depend on other people. We all go through the same issue that you go through where we feel a bit ugly or not pretty enough. Even people with boyfriends go through this, so even if you get a boyfriend you might experience the same feelings. It's better to try work on yourself before dating, so that you bring your best self to the relationships you enter. We suggest that you work through these feelings of anger in a different way. Try to do something like write, read, draw, do some sports activity outside, or anything else that you enjoy doing. Doing something that you love might help you build your self-esteem even more than a boyfriend would.

1 year, 5 months ago
Khosiking

Good News I Like It

1 year, 5 months ago
Mislead

Hi iv always thought ppl may see me as weird bcz of ths feeling i gt 4rm time 2 time, im some 1 who loves making new frnds nd im always game when it comes 2 meeting new ppl,bt my biggest problem im facing in life ever since i could remember is though im so flexible at meeting nd making new ppl i also am very good at witdrawing myself frm it all my own mom tht gave birth to me stl strugles 2 understand me up 2 ths day bt she neva succeed.You say that its good to try and talk 2 sum1 at times lyk ths bt believe me its really hard cz to me is lyl if my own mom dnt understands me how can i exspect sum1 els 2,cz at times i dont even underdtand myslf.I normarly lock myslf in my room at times lyk ths crying 4 hours not even knowing why im crying bt i jst do nd while crying i take a book nd pen nd start writing nd 2 my surprise whn m done writing i feel lyk a huge load hs been taken away nd the most surprising part of ths letter is whn m reading it i cum 2 realize tht its xsually a letter to God wthout my knowledge i wtote God a letter nd da best part of it all is i also recieved guidence nd answears frm God so my advice is tht whn u so strongly feel tht no1 wl ever understand u whn u feel tht way lyk i sujest tht u shld try my solution wtch i so strongly believe is da only solution tht works cz being in conversation wth God is da only conversation u need at tht time F

1 year, 6 months ago
Alicia

I also Have your problem gal

1 year, 6 months ago
Anonymous

Am an 18year old gal. Am dating with a guy of 19yrs he loves me a lot and i love him too but the problem is am shy to ask him questions lyk talking abt sex wat shall i do bcz he understands dat am not r3ady 4 sex and he says he can wait

1 year, 6 months ago

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Marvel

Hi anonymous..communication is very important in every relationship. And what you're avoiding is exactly what you should be talking about so you can make informed decision

1 year, 6 months ago
Dynamite

I procastinate and lie a lot ....i evn have a lot of sex and always moody too....everything keeps going wrong pls help

1 year, 6 months ago
James

Hy!am James from Cape Town,ever since I got here I haven't get the right girlfriend and it's been 8 months now.I don't know what might be the cause,and now I have a very low self-esteem I even told my that am ugly or something plz help

1 year, 6 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Jameson, don't stress to much. A lot of people struggle to find the right relationship and stay in it. You can try and do more social stuff that require you to get to know more people.Y ou shouldn't worry. What are your interests? Maybe you can join a dance class, go to the library, visit the park or something like that. Keep hope and don't give up if you feel like this is what you want.

1 year, 6 months ago
Lucie

Hi gyz I need help my face is full of pimples I don't know what to do now I tried every help possible plzz help to get rid of these pimples 😥😧

1 year, 6 months ago

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IsssMuffin

Hi it's normal to have pimples I also have them I used things to take it away but it didn't help coz I've got sensitive skin it made it worse maybe it isn't suitable enough for you not everyone's skin is the same so things that help others may not work on you. What I do is I don't use anything on my face don't apply no make up nothing. Wash your face in the morning just with water either luke warm water or cold water don't use hot water it will irritate your skin and make it worse. So wash your face with clean water don't use no soap nothing wash it in the morning and at night and don't wipe it dry off just pat dry it be gentle with your face and don't put on make up and all of those things just use plain Vaseline intensive care lotion on your face don't wash your face too much it will get dry and your face will eventually produce more oil which will cause more pimples to come out. Just keep your face clean and stay away from alotta things that will make it worse.

1 year, 6 months ago
IsssMuffin

Make sure you drink enough water so that your pimples can go away it will take a while to go away mine's going away my face is getting lighter and clearer. So I hope it will work on you. If not then try using organic products on your skin use home made things.

1 year, 6 months ago
Jo_girl

I feel like that alot though. And I stress so much, To a point where I'll start to feel sick. Very sick. I usually stress and worry about things I have no control over.

1 year, 7 months ago