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Lehlohonolo

Hi girls my name is lehlohonolo I just want to say I am in grade 7 these year at my class room the is are girl call Meyelane every day they say to me my boom is so small and I am not strong but now I told him that back off to my body these is my on body if I am not strong is noun of his business

1 year, 3 months ago

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Anonymous

Good girl😊♥️.you shouldn't let anyone have an opinion about your body.

5 months ago
Anonymous

You really made a great choice👊

4 months, 4 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hy am about to look for a job and it my first time looking for a job and on Monday I will going around dropping my CV in stores.so my question is how do I approach the manager for a job or for him or her to take my CV

1 year, 4 months ago
Anonymous

M very shy too every time when I support to speak I just think what others will say

1 year, 4 months ago
Anonymous

HŶ ĞÚŶŚ I'M 13ŶŔŚ ĨŃ ĞŔĎ 8 I'M CĹĔVĔŔ ßÚŤ ŚĤŶ Ťoo ŚPĔÁĶ ÚP ÁŃŶ advices

1 year, 4 months ago
sesi

HŶ ĞÚŶŚ I'M 13ŶŔŚ ĨŃ ĞŔĎ 8 I'M CĹĔVĔŔ ßÚŤ ŚĤŶ Ťoo ŚPĔÁĶ ÚP ÁŃŶ advices

1 year, 4 months ago

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Lovelier

Why girl don't be shy

1 year, 4 months ago
Lerato

You haven't got used to people in high school it's still your early days so don't worry you'll be fine as time goes on sweetie

1 year, 3 months ago
LadiieLondiie

Hii guys I'm a 13 year old girl. I've started my "mensies" and feel pretty normal bout my body My problem is that boys are always looking at me, saying that I have got a amazing body. I know I have a huge butt,boobs and curves and some boys want me to be their girlfriend. There were even these guys who wanted to stab my older brothers just so they can get to People say I am a loose giirl because I get along with everyone even my mom thinks that. I'm not even allowed to go to the shop anymore I feel like a caged tiger I am always sad cause I love interacting with people now I can't because I am constantly being judged without any who knows the true me that I am not a victim of rape but I am a survivor not even my mom knows that I was molested then raped by my uncle her brother so I feel that interacting with

1 year, 4 months ago
LadiieLondiie

Hii guys I'm a 13 year old girl. I've started my "mensies" and feel pretty normal bout my body My problem is that boys are always looking at me, saying that I have got a amazing body. I know I have a huge butt,boobs and curves and some boys want me to be their girlfriend. There were even these guys who wanted to stab my older brothers just so they can get to People say I am a loose giirl because I get along with everyone even my mom thinks that. I'm not even allowed to go to the shop anymore

1 year, 4 months ago
Edwards

I think to jump into things that are not important

1 year, 5 months ago
Gcogco

U don't have to rush braking ur Virginity if u ar not ready😘😙

1 year, 5 months ago
Gcogco

Hi gals am new in this group I hope u will all welcome me with worm handa

1 year, 5 months ago
Mow_476

Hey ladies am an 18 year old girl ..still a virgin....and am hoping to break my virginity this holidays ....is it the right thing to do?!

1 year, 5 months ago

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Anonymous

Hello Vee_radebe1508 It is always better to have sex when you are ready and not being pressurised to do so. If your partner is the one who is insisting let him know that you are not ready. If you need someone to talk to about this, it can be a parent or someone you trust. If not, you can speak to a professional who can offer you support or you can call Love Life on 0800 121 900 or send them a please call me on this number 0 8 3 3 2 3 1 0 2 3 to call you back.

1 year, 5 months ago
Mow_476

Thanks Gabi.....

1 year, 5 months ago
Anandy

Hey guys I'm new here and I'm married my husband want me to get pregnant and I was using implanon and I just remove it this August and I don't know if I will get pregnant or not help me guys

1 year, 6 months ago
Anonymous

That's me!! Can I please have relationship tips 🙏🙏

1 year, 6 months ago

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Anonymous

Me too😅

5 months ago
Zkhanyile_sigcu

That's me!! Can I please have relationship tips 🙏🙏

1 year, 6 months ago
Stac.

Sometimes I feel like relationships are not for girls like me cause I always find myself caught up in a situation where I'm the one who has fall in too deep without the feeling being mutual towards the guy...what does this mean ? Should I just give up on love and focus on building and loving myself instead?

1 year, 6 months ago
Lily

Hy guys plz help me I really need your help In my class they make jokes about me because Im so fat than them all I was thinking to commit suicide mah self because i am tired of being a joke Plz advice me guys

1 year, 7 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Mahlophe, thank you so much for reaching out to us and telling us your story. Everyone has a different size and shape and all bodies are beautiful in their own way. No one has the right to bully anyone just because of their size. Remember that you have every right to report this to your teacher or principal. You should also consider confiding in an adult you can trust, like a parent, relative or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you face to face, but you can call Childline SA. They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 6 months ago
Stac.

Hey Lily ...never feel intimidated by the negative things said towards you or behind your back , because one way or the other , you're probably a threat towards them.cause they know that they'll never look as precious and appealing as you are ...tons of girl (with myself included) stuff themselves with food cause they feel less appreciated by their peers or because they feel way too skinny for the world to see them.. What I'm actually trying to say is that embrace your plus sized body , and be madly inlove with it ...not to mention walking with pride and confidence without caring what people say because that's how humans are -they always talk , and they ALWAYS will talk .....and there sure ain't nothing that either you nor I can do about it.... So stop feeling sorry about yourself babe and stand out , who knows you'd probably be the outmost inspiration towards the girls who cannot speak up for themselves #DO THE RIGHT THING !!

1 year, 6 months ago
Saptic_016

Listen up Lily just ignore those people talk behind your back, just let them talk and waiste their time in talking about you. And don't ever think about them all the time because you are damaging yourself. Just report this to your teacher, parent, guardian or someone very close up to you. And remember, you have bright future ahead of you in your life and hey!! You are special 💸💸💷💰💳💲✌✊💃be strong and listen to Septic_016

1 year, 6 months ago
bunah

Lily.. Babe you are unique special,take pride in yourself. Stand up for yourself and u will see that they will no longer call bad names....Trust yrself

2 months, 4 weeks ago
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Anonymous

Hii big sis......ever since my friend changed the same school we attended, I have a lack of confidence and I feel so lonely

1 year, 7 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Aya, thanks for sharing your story with us. It can be really hard to be seperated from someone like your bestie, so it's normal for you to be feeling a bit insecure and down. We think you should feel all the emotions you need to feel and take some time to get used not being there during break or after school. It's not always going to be easy, but you should be aware that this is also a great opportunity for you to make new friends whenever you are ready. It may be intimidating at first, but having some kind of support while you're at school is really important. Also, remember that many teachers know a lot about the kinds of things happening at school and they are trained to deal with issues that young children are experiencing. Don't be afraid to approach your teacher for a chat about what you're going through, especially if they can affect something like your work ethic or concentration at school. You can also call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 7 months ago
Anonymous

Ever since i got to high school.i dnt knw whts wrong with me.i hv not been confident lyk i was in high school and i need help. I try to concentrate but i just cnt.can sm1 help me plz.

1 year, 7 months ago
yey

Hii big sis......ever since my friend changed the same school we attended, I have a lack of confidence and I feel so lonely

1 year, 7 months ago
Thandiwe

I am too shy in class should I speak up or what

1 year, 7 months ago