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#Speak upūüôĆūüôĆto all women and girls.....

10 months ago
KuHleR

Guys I don't whether I'm doing things right this year I'm 17 years but my parents died when I was 4 years in 2005 actually my mom was killed by my Dad and also killed himself I was supposed to be the third corpose there and lastly I don't want to associate myself with boys because mom was killed by his boyfriend that why I'm still a virgin my relationships do not last even now I'm under salvation because I cannot force myself to date when I can't!

10 months, 1 week ago

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Anonymous

Hello Okuhler We understand that it must have been hard for you to lose both your parents. It will take time for you to heal but never feel as if there is something wrong with you. You must always remind yourself that you are enough and you deserve to be happy at all times. If there is an adult you can talk to please do so. It can be an aunt or anyone you feel comfortable talking to. If there is none, you can always call Childline and you will be able to talk to professionals you will help you. You can call them anytime you want at their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555. We love you Springster and wish you nothing but happiness in your life.Let us know how you are doing after this advice.

10 months, 1 week ago
Monyatsi

My frnd was raped by his brother,Dad nd uncle now she us pregnant and she wants to do an arbotion i told her she must not ......the problem is that she is poor nd im richer thn her she thinks im selfish but im not thats why i said she must see my mom coz she is a specialist nd my dad is a policeman so they cn help her....but she does not listen ....am i wrong???ūüė®ūüė≠ūüė≠ūüė≠

11 months ago

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KuHleR

You are right but give her space she will come around

10 months, 1 week ago
Ayonela

# speak up gals#

11 months, 2 weeks ago
Treenzzy

Wow,ūüĎĆI'm really proud of you girls,wish all the other girls could learn how to SPEAK UP!!#STAY BRAVEūüíĮūü홂̧

11 months, 3 weeks ago

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Ayonela

Yeah we will speak up viva to that

11 months, 2 weeks ago
Rethabile

I really admire these girls for speaking out. It really takes guts and its never easy for other ppl to stand up for what's right

1 year ago

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Dineo

Letting out your emotions really helps,it's so brave to speak up,I just wish all girls out there were as brave as you are

11 months, 3 weeks ago
Maddy

Wow‚Ěē‚Ěē‚ĚēThese grlz are so brave. BiG Up GrLz ‚úä

1 year, 1 month ago
Brejet

Standing up for our right is a good thing

1 year, 2 months ago
Intombi_ka_tata

Child marriage is a real.thing and we should stop it from happening we can't be doing what our ancestors were doing in the name of tradition and customs, we are not only bullying our kids but we are also killing their dreams an making their lives and loving he'll, we need more people to come out and speak up against this because it really is a nightmare.

1 year, 3 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi anc_bunny, thanks for your sharing your opinion with us. It's so valid and this is a really important issue that affects many young girls. We encourage you as an individual to continue speaking on issues like this because your voice makes a difference!

9 months ago
ikanyeng

Wow that is so great

1 year, 3 months ago
jade

Somila you are a inspiration to all girl .Thank you for not keeping your story to you self ‚ô°.Now is the time that woman should stand up and start speaking out. Its hard but its starts with up

1 year, 3 months ago
QueenM033Enhle

Hi my name is mbalenhle am 14years old I have disappointed my mother a lot of times the problem she doesn't want an explanation so there's this boy his name is paseka I really love him am scared to tell my stepfather and mom that am dating sometimes I feel like commuting suicide all am asking for is to please help me

1 year, 4 months ago

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jade

Hey I think its better if you talk to your mother about it but most importantly you should ask your self if your ready 4 a relationship ...if you need help contact me

1 year, 3 months ago
Bornfree

Yah that's true us girls we HV to be strong also so tht we cn stand fr our words ....marriage things must be ur own choice en u must get married wen u feel tht it is the right time nt to be forced its an abuse ..... Girls we must stand together and fight fr our own rights coz some pple jst take us fr granted...lot of things are happening to girls worldwide ...I dnt knw y pple does nt respect girls they jst think tht girls ar powerless en thy CNT even be a leader but tht nt true

1 year, 6 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Swee, thanks for sharing this with us. Girls are vulnerable and people think because we are girls that we are weak but we are actually very powerful. And if we stand together and speak up for ourselves they won't be able to take out power from us.

1 year, 5 months ago
Ratigiso

that's true we have to stand for our rights nd we should be respected

1 year, 8 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey Springster. You're right. If we keep quiet of the injustices we become victims but when we speak up we are survivors, champions, warriors. Even better when we stand together.

1 year, 7 months ago
solulele

right

1 year, 8 months ago
Tankisow

When i Was about 10 years old, I got sexually harassed by a person about the age of 24,, I was Scared As I was young,, He always Forced Me To kiss Him And When I Refused he would threaten me. I Haven't Told My Parents Yet And I Am Now 14 Years. I Can't Be Around Boys Because of This Matter. What Can I Do To Get Over It?

1 year, 8 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Springster. Thank you for sharing your comment with us. It's very brave and mature of you. It's important for you to know that what happened was in no way your fault. You mentioned that the incident took place four years ago, I think it's still important for you to speak to someone about it. If you're not yet ready to talk to your parents, have you thought of talking to an older sibling, aunt, mentor or teacher? Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are depressed, feel alone or are scared and just need someone tot listen to you. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website: http://www.childlinesa.org.za, Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 8 months ago
Alexy

go for counselling or try to talk to someone u trust ,pray to God to give u strength and carry on . just forgive yourself and accept wat happened and maybe it happened for a reason and maybe God was trying to bring u closer to him

1 year, 8 months ago
love

you need to tell your mother or you should tell the person that you trust don't keep that thing into your heart because it will eat you in the bottom of your heart and you will be sorry for you ,or call social workers to help you and talk to them if he is threaten you don't be scard just be cool and call someone that you trust and i am sure that they will support you....

1 year, 8 months ago
@casiey05

i also got sexual harassed i never told my parents what should i do?because everytime am around boys i think they will do the same

1 year, 7 months ago
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1 year, 9 months ago
Nogoloza

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1 year, 9 months ago
Mahlatse

It is important to report child trafficking

1 year, 10 months ago
Lissa

These are the type of girls who can break the chain that is keeping most girls of their rights and keeping theirs voices locked up

1 year, 10 months ago