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Anonymous

How do I tell a guy that I'm waiting till marriage to sleep with with a guy? How do I make him understand? And can one person be ready to move on with another guy when one person just came out of a relationship?

10 months, 1 week ago

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Yolanda

girl just tell him the truth about that maybe he will understand

10 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

girl just tell him the truth about that maybe he will understand

10 months, 1 week ago
Cleopatra

I didn't date at all then suddenly a guy told me he likes me i was surprised and excited because it's new I never dated before so I was wondering what must I do we dated for weeks then he asked for a kiss . I didn't know how to kiss but I was scared to tell him I dumped him because I felt like he was forcing me from then I went from boy to boy if they asked me to kiss them I made excuses or dumped them then I realized from then because I grew up with no father i saw that I'm obsessing over guys I don't need but now ive Had enough

11 months, 2 weeks ago

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8 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

He told me he liked me and he wanted to date and i told him I wasn't ready and he said i should tell him,when am ready..but now he seems to have forgotten and i really like him ...I don't know wat to do cause am scared of rejection or embarrassing myself

11 months, 3 weeks ago

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Cleopatra

I know how that feels first you tell yourself I'm young to date but then u think about him constantly But if u like him go for him girl But if you not take your time and if he does like you he'll understand

11 months, 2 weeks ago
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Anonymous

Hi girls I'm kind of in the same situation you see the was this guy he liked me and I didn't so he capt testing over and over again but I still didn't like him so he gave up and now ilike him

10 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hi there hope u are well I was in the same situation where I had feelings for this guy at church. I had feelings for him since 2013 till last year but I told him how I felt about him and he said that he felt the same but the only thing he said after that was he's in a relationship with someone else. I didn't didn't know what to do. But then I told myself I'm not going to wait for him forever. So I started dating . But now he and his girlfriend have broken up.

10 months, 1 week ago
Gabi - Moderator

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8 months, 2 weeks ago
Icy

I springstar...There is this boy i really like ...My friends say its been to long so its no longer a crush...Sometimes i cry Or go deep into thought...Dream bout him ...I dont know wat to do cause he likes me but he said we just friends and that's in the past..Please help me find answers

11 months, 3 weeks ago

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Cleopatra

Try flirting with him and see how he respond If it's good then talk about dating and crushes and see what he says

11 months, 2 weeks ago
Gabi - Moderator

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8 months, 2 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hey,so i dated with this guy so we broke up, and we wanted to get back together so I ingnored him because he love so many gals and now I want him back , and I think he no longer had interest in me . So what do i do??😓😓

12 months ago

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8 months, 2 weeks ago
Lezar

Hey Springster!😊So there is this boy that I have a crush on. I know that he also has a crush on me. But we are shy to tell each other about our feelings towards each other. What should I do?¿?

1 year, 10 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Bhozakaziey It is okay to be shy. The best way is to try and talk to him. You can start by talking about school and in the end, you tell him how you feel.

1 year, 10 months ago
JayJay

Hey springsters I have a problem I have a crush on this boy in my class ,I want to tell him how I feel but I'm scared of getting rejected

1 year, 10 months ago

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Thegirlwithaprettysmile01

Hello😊 try to have a conversation with him...it could be anything..you could even compliment the way he looks or how he does things,or ask him to help you solve a mathematical problem..anything! All you need is confidence 😚

10 months, 3 weeks ago
Maputiza

Dating is just 2 be on other stage mean u grow up

1 year, 10 months ago
Nosihle

Hey springsters so I have a crush on this boy and I know he likes me too but I'm too scared to tell him and I think he will break my heart... What should I do??

1 year, 10 months ago

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Maputiza

Tell he trough SMS or Facebook sometimes like media

1 year, 10 months ago
thabang

Hi Springster Can I ask Something , can friends have sex and still become friends?

1 year, 10 months ago

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Anonymous

No way😵😵😨😨😵😨😵😨😵😰😷

12 months ago
buhledippy

hi springster's l have a crush on my BFF which is a boy ,his friends told me that he also feels the same but he doesn't want to tell me becoz he thinks l will say no lam also scared to tell him so what should l do ??

1 year, 11 months ago

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Riiзна

Hi Buhle ... My advice to you would be that you should open up to the guy now before he decides to find someone else instead of you and trust me bbes you will not be able to live with yourself ... Try thee ain't no harm in trying moss

1 year, 11 months ago
BEAUTY

Yes I agree I'm in a wonderful relationship Last time I was at hood so I went there because I wanted to see that I really love him so he asked me to have sex him but I was afraid so I told him I'm ain't ready Was I selfish?!

2 years ago

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Anonymous

No

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

No not at all...

1 year, 10 months ago
Thegirlwithaprettysmile01

No sweetie😊 You doing what you feel is right..even if its selfish..you'll just have to think about yourself sometimes.i mean..what if you have sex with the guy and then after that he leaves you for another girl??who's gonna get hurt??you right??so dont worry you did the right thing👏👏👏👏

10 months, 3 weeks ago
Happy65

Am looking a girlfriend if your serious please inbox me

2 years ago

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Anonymous

This is not a dating site😕

1 year, 11 months ago
SISONKE

Hi there I want to see the way to

2 years ago
Daniela

Yah but then if you like each other and have crushes on each other but you are not ready to date because of what peopke will say and your frnds but at the same time u wanna date each other

2 years ago

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Anonymous

Hey Kiandra, what people are saying or thinking should not matter. If that is your reason for not dating then perhaps you should try and think of what other reasons you might not be ready to date. If you both like each other and you are both ready, then that is okay. Give yourself some time to think about it as there is no need to rush. Good luck Kiandra.

2 years ago
Donda
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buthand_0

Xena hey...I'm also les (femme) maybe we can chat u know I could use advise I'm struggling to come out but hey

2 years, 1 month ago
Icon09

Yes am ready Ready for my good host

2 years, 1 month ago
Sunshine

Hi ladies Im 28years of age,I have a 4years old boy of which me and his father broke up,my problem is I still love him and seeing him and his gf on wattsapp p.p is killing me,is a must to have his digits as we must communicate cz we having a son, I was ingaged to this man,we dated for 5years and I broke the ingagement/relationship because I was dating him and his family, we never did anything together his family was too involved in us and we started to fight everyday,its been 2years seens we broke up but I can't move on, I met a guy but broke up with him becouse he is not my baby daddy, I love him sooo much and I can see that he still loves me, should I confront him or wait maybe he will come to me,but he seems to be happy with his gf😭😭😭

2 years, 1 month ago

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Cassandra

Well I think u mst jst Tell him that way you'll know if he still does or not

2 years, 1 month ago