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NYC

Nonsense. 😫No is a No nd that's final!!! #Enough is Enough...!!!!!

8 months ago
Nontyatyambo

My body ,my choice ,my desion

8 months, 1 week ago
Nontyatyambo

Enough is enough learn to say no

8 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

Just trust your gut

9 months ago
12345

Ya true

10 months ago
Care

Follow yr feelings

10 months, 1 week ago
Astromoonkiihd

Hii Springsters so my boyfriend keeps telling me that he is a guy its in his nature to have sex so if I dont sleep with him he will sleep with someone else So i told him to do so because i have lost complete interesr in the relationship

10 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

7 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous1
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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

7 months, 1 week ago
Anonymous

When is the right time to have sex

10 months, 3 weeks ago

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Gabi - Moderator

Hey Springster! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues! Thank you for your question. I am pleased to tell you that you can now chat to Big Sis, a smart robot who will help you make smart choices when it comes to sex and relationships. She's ready to answer all your burning questions. Click on this link to get started: https://bit.ly/2TR8r2H

7 months, 1 week ago
Elam01
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Powerful_Female

If this boy(predator) continues with this untoward behavior,it is advised that you seek help from a trustworthy adult,teacher or even the police. Do not be afraid. You have the right to do protect yourself!

10 months, 4 weeks ago
Gabi - Moderator

Hey Elam! Sorry for the delay, I had some technical issues. I have hidden your comment to protect your privacy. I am pleased you felt able to share your thoughts, it's a really brave first step. Have you thought about talking to an adult that you can trust about this? This could be anyone from your parents/grandparents, a relative like an aunt, a neighbour or teacher. Sadly, we can't talk to you directly but you can get extra advice from CHILDLINE SA. They can offer you counselling over the phone. You do not need to give your name and can call them 24/7. Their toll free helpline is : 0800 055 555 or check out https://www.childlinesa.org.za/ you will receive the support you need, by a friendly person trained to help you in a confidential way. Take care.

7 months, 1 week ago
Sibahle

Its your choice and its your rights

1 year, 8 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Sishiiey When someone say No we just have to respect their wish.

1 year, 5 months ago
Tshipi

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1 year, 10 months ago
Lihle Mbali£

I started dating him 2weeks ago and he wants to have sex with me and I'm not really sure if I'm ready for this or not but I really love him and now he is starting to say things like we'll better be friends than dating because we haven't met yet we always chatting and now he wants us to be friends and I'm an 18years old Virgin I don't know what to do this

1 year, 10 months ago

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FIFLAR

Let him go dodo hey is not worth it

1 year, 8 months ago
Anonymous

Let him go dodo hey is not worth it

1 year, 8 months ago
Anonymous

U should tell him it's fine let us be friends no problem because he will only take your career arway from u

10 months, 4 weeks ago
ladyk

Hi guys I am a 13 year old gal I just wanna say thanks to all the advices you guys have given me u really appreciate it .I learnt that when ever life knocks you down you have to find a way to get up on ur feet and carry on .To all the gals who are pregnant and your parents don't know I suggest you sit with then down and talk about it because not talking can cause problemsMy sister told me only when she found out she was pregnant at the age of 18 she had the nerve to tell our parents and the baby daddy's family that she us pregnant so plz gals plan what to say .Plz do not do an abortionWhat if it's ur only child. Have the audacity to speak up WOMEN RUKE THE WORLD THE WORLD WOULD BE NOTHING WITHOUT WOMEN AMANDLA AWETHU

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Same here😣,he's been telling that it has been a long time since we started dating and I've always never been ready,he even claims dat I'm making fool of him😟God,I'm not READY!!! What am I supposed to do cz I love him and I'm thinking of breaking up with him😐

1 year, 10 months ago

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Anonymous

Hello Zakithi12 Sex is something you should do when you are ready. Your partner might be ready and you might not. It is better to talk to them and let them know how you feel about it. It helps to talk to an adult you trust, it can be a parent, elder sibling or anyone you are close with. If there is no one, you can call the Love Life on 0800 121 900 or send them a please call me on this number 0 8 3 3 2 3 1 0 2 3 to call you back.

1 year, 10 months ago
Anonymous

Hie sprinter😊,I'm a girl aged 19,i met this guy this year and we started dating around July, he's brought the topic of us being intimate but I've refused cause my culture beliefs abides me to be intimate after 21st,the guy has told me that I can't be he's other half until we are sexually active,well he hardly gives me his attention and visits me, I've asked him why he does that,he always put excuses about his occupation,i visit him more often but still he always seem to be busy for me,i love the guy and I don't know what to do,should I sit him down to explain my feelings to him? Or maybe I should just walk away because he might be playing with my feelings 😢 #relationships

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

hy sprinter could u please help me im 15 year old girl..i was raped at the young age of 8years the person who raped me treathened to kill me if i say a word and that created more fear in me whenever i was around people he will call me and threatened me....i leave in fear from that day he raped me and im unable to tell anyone... im full of anger i really cant move on in my life

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Springster, we really appreciate you reaching out to us, thank you. We understand that you are most likely going through a lot right now. Even though you might be experiencing a lot of emotions that are difficult to process and talk about to someone, you should consider approaching a trusted adult like a parent/guardian, relative, neighbour or teacher that you can talk to. Fear and shame prevent us from speaking out about rape and assault, but in order to get help, it is important to speak to an adult who is capable of guiding you through how you can get help. Sadly, we cannot talk to you face to face, but you can call Childline SA. They will offer you counselling over the phone, in person and online. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Visit their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

1 year, 10 months ago
buhledippy

oh shame lam so sorry girl 😭😭😣😣l know you going through a hard time but don't lose hope God will always be with you 🙏🙏

1 year, 10 months ago
Rainbow

This is heartbreaking I am really sorry to hear this. I can only imagine how you view this world. I pray to God you find eternal healing. 💕💕

1 year, 9 months ago
Anonymous

bbygal I'm so sorry to hear what u are goin' thru 💔💔 I'm in tears as I type this 😭😭 hope u find healing, I know its hard to heal but plz try nd heal bbygal😘💕

10 months, 3 weeks ago
Anonymous

I am so sorry but u hv to tell someone about this if u were able to tell us u can tell anyone if u live like that u don't know if he might come agn 😢😢😢💔💔💔💔💔

10 months, 3 weeks ago
Teedow19

Hey guys I'm 18 still a Virgin, I've got a boyfriend He doesn't understand when am telling him that am not ready for sex it's like am losing him What should I do because I'm not ready .

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Two words dump him👐

1 year, 11 months ago
Talent

If he's being pushy i suggest u dump him gal

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

If he's being pushy i suggest u dump him gal

1 year, 11 months ago
Jesse

Guys it is her choice

1 year, 10 months ago
Galaxy

Hey guys I am turning 16 next year and uhm still a virgin But all my friends are no longer virgins and they told me that it's nice having sex and I gave it a thought and I came with the decision that when I get a boyfriend uhm gonna have sex with him but I realized that uhm not ready and that I must do things just to make my friends happy I must get ready first and then have so am I making a right decision?

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey Springster, you're absolutely making the right decision. Doing something because you are pressured by others is never a good idea. It will only make you upset once you realise that you did not do it for yourself. Take your time, get a boyfriend when you are ready and have sexy when you are ready. No one should rush you when it comes to things like sex and relationships.

1 year, 11 months ago
Anonymous

I am 16 years old and still a virgin. Is it normal for me at this age to always be horny? What can I do if I'm forever horny but I can't gave sex?

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi Springster, it's really normal for you to be have feelings of arousal. Almost everyone has those feelings so you shouldn't be feeling guilty or ashamed about that. These feelings oftentimes appear during puberty. So this is a sign of your body acting normally Some people ignore the feeling because of personal or religious reasons while others choose to masturbate. What you decide to do with those feelings is totally your choice. For more, check out this article about understanding sex and your body during puberty. You can copy and paste the link below. Enjoy Springster! http://za.heyspringster.com/sections/my-body/birds-and-bees/

1 year, 10 months ago