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Vhuyo
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Vhuyo

Yes it's hard to be a mother,after all sometimes you're a single lady at a young age it's painful, it's hard to forget about it,from thee you need a strong family who will stand with you,comfort you.

1 year ago
Makalanga97

Lol i don't wanna lie but i never felt labour pains but i was in C.section and i felt the pain after the operation i couldnt do much it was so painful and difficult but all the best 😙😙

1 year ago
Makalanga97

Being a teen mom is not easy.u will really need all the support from family and the father of the child I'm a teen mom and sometimes it becomes really difficult when my child is sick or sleepless nights besides that all of your time u need to focus on the baby because my child is my first priority.although sometimes it becomes difficult because it my first born but at the end of the day im blessed 😉

1 year ago
Anonymous

Being a teenage mom is not easy at all while you go to school....baby cost too much. I don't have a problem about staying at my place at festive with my baby while my friends are going out... My only problem is to support my baby financially cause I won't be able to breastfeed the whole day I will be at school so he need milk plus a school fee every month I won't balance at all

1 year ago
Anonymous

Some of us finds ourself being moms early than others but that doesnt make us different Being a young mother is very difficult at first but with responsibility nd support from our loved ones helps a lot

1 year, 1 month ago

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Makalanga97

So true especially support from mothers and grannies people who have more experience then us

1 year ago
Kaitlin

I have to tell that there is nothing wrong with being a teenage mother. Well it did happendt to me as well I fall pragnant in 2017 during my matric year. In 2017 December my precouis son was born & for the fact that haveing your mother at your side you could not ask for anything better no matter what your systemtjie is always by your side. I was also angry at myself everyone was enjoying them thay festive im the only one sitting at home with a baby but yet the joy,happeniss,love,peace & comfart was there & that made me realize that not everyone who called you their friend was still your friend. During my pregnancy family became strangers friends became enemies just bcuz of me having a potbelly & them having nice curves mxm let meh tell you they are missing out on being a good mother bcuz def they dont know what responsibilities are & wont understand it either😜 Woops woop to the Teenage Motherhood☺️

1 year, 1 month ago
Devinise

Yes that's good because the very same thing happens with my cousin she is also pregnant with a baby boy

1 year, 1 month ago
Zoë_23

I have to admit your story just inspired me because I am in like a similar situation only difference is that I haven't told my mom about my pregnancy at all . Hearing that you actually found a way to balance your life has given me hope

1 year, 1 month ago
Anonymous

Wow that was great ❤❤

1 year, 1 month ago
Anonymous

Oh my word that is fantastic

1 year, 11 months ago

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Anonymous

Hi We are glad you liked this article.

1 year, 7 months ago
1808

am also a young mom ,I have a five months year old son who gave me strength n power bcoz I now know that I can maintain him n be a good parent ,I finished matric last year ,n struggling to get a job

2 years ago
Busisiwe

Hey guys I'm 22 years old and also mother to 8months beautiful daughter her father is not supporting,always busy with his friends doesn't have time for us 💔😢 He dump me when the baby was 5weeks old worse part I'm not working I don't have parents so I have to work hard to support my baby 😭😭 guys I'm always crying I don't have a peace in my life I just hate my life I'm depressed I can say my family is trying to help but I have to everything all by myself self 💔 but I think God for my beautiful baby girl 😍😙

2 years, 1 month ago

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Makalanga97

Shame honey sorry that you had to go through all of this.prayer is powerful in what you going through and never lose hope.please don't ever try to take wrongful decision no matter how much it gets hard in the end the sun will shine💞💖

1 year ago
Anonymous

Hi guys I'm pregnant for the first time is it sore to give birth

2 years, 1 month ago
noma

Hi am noma am 19 years a teenage mom my baby is 3months old and I seriously need some advice ma baby daddy asked me to marry him.......I mean what should ido he wants an answer before ouer anniversary and yes I do love him

2 years, 2 months ago
Anonymous

I'm mphile from gauteng and am 21 years old,i have a 10 months old boy since he was born my parents were very supportive and they help me were i couldn't but my problem is that i didn't pass my matric and i want to help my parents to support me and child financially so i have to work and i don't know what to do first please help me

2 years, 3 months ago
Fanta

Sometimes to b a parent it's a good thing nd it's protect us to not going out like will never grow anymore, to b a parent u learn a lot of things of life, so u still going to have fun like b4

2 years, 3 months ago
Lebetsa

Hy

2 years, 3 months ago
TEE-LABAE

It's nice girl .well I fell pregnant when I was doing grade 11 ,I don't have parents ,am staying with my sister ,she found out am pregnant on my fist day of matric ,it was difficult because she kicked me out of her house ,I had no WHR to go girl ,I kept roaming around street ,sleeping thr n thr ,till I told the father of my child the truth ,he asked me to stay with him ,her mother accepted me ,and all the family it wasn't easy because that time it was the time I need my family most, my other sister the younger one well she was supportive heh ,but when time goes my sister came around ,n I went back to her place ,she is doing everything for me n my daughter, she made me the best mom n encourages me to go to school ,she made me understand how important being a mother to ur child is .she taught me how to love ,care ,support, tread n be responsible mom .am doing grade 12 again but ryt at this moment am pregnant again n I don't need the baby because my baby is still young ,n I want to luv her only her ,I want her to feel the love of a mother as one .I went through lot n I don't want to take that road again .I need to finish school n look for work ,then I will be working while studying .we all go out with my sister n there daughter n my Daughter ,we stay together indoors n watch movies rent some movies ,we braai all together n have fun .we speak about everything n anything we dance so I don't want to ruin that am stressed I don't even know what to do .

2 years, 3 months ago

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Anonymous

Hey Springster, we are so happy that you were finally able to resolve the issues that separated you from your sister. Our siblings can sometimes be our best confidants and it's always great to have a relative that you can bond with and talk to about certain things. Considering the way your sister reacted to you the other time, it might be a good idea to go with someone when you tell her again. You can bring your younger sister or even your baby's father's mother when you tell her. It all depends on who you think is the right person to bring in to help support you. It's obvious your sister means a lot to you and since you are both so close, the best thing to do would be to tell her. Expect that she might be really upset in the beginning, but this is only a normal reaction as she cares about your future and well being. If you are considering an abortion this is okay also. Ask your baby's father to go with you to the clinic or hospital to look at the options that you have. Remember that you can also speak to the counselors at Childline SA when you are going through tough issues like this.They offer counselling over the phone, in person and online. You don't need to give them your name and can contact them any time of the day or night. Contact them if you are scared, feel alone and if something is happening to you, or someone you know. They are here to help you! Don't forget you can contact them on their 24/7 Toll Free Helpline: 08 000 55 555 for help. Check out their website on http://www.childlinesa.org.za as well as their Facebook and Twitter page for useful information.

2 years, 3 months ago
Emkay

Its Good since you were able to Adjust.I am also getting used to it but I really want to go out n Have some Fun since I used to do that before I was pregnant.I miss those days n I fill with regret n teary eyes whenever its a Partying Day😑😕.I always wish things could be different.

2 years, 5 months ago